Vinshu:


Of what benefit or value does that add to the marriage? It's only perverted men who desire this sex before marriage thing.

Toks2008:


The write up as innocuous as it sounds has some vagueness in it.

Yes sex is important but is that all there is to marriage?

Ok what if he happens to be a super man and after marriage something happens and he goes limp what would you do?

Marriage is like a black market and in as much as sex is vital,it is not the most important and its a good thing that these days we have so many innovations and a man can buy a life like penis and wear it to please his wife and of-course there are many ways a woman can have sexual pleasure without any form of worrey as regards the performance of the husband.

This write up promotes fornication and even if i believe that a sister can subtly observe the bidy language of the guy at least to see if the thing is lifting,many sisters may get carried away and want to do actual greasing of the boris to be double sure hence start committing sexual sins which of-course once you start,it wil be hard to stop.

Setaje:
Size matters too .






My opinion.

all4naija:


Well, marriage is a cultural scheme of deceit that is supposed not to be mandatory at all.

michaelou:
better. the last I checked infertility in women and impotency in men no dey show for face. And besides, impotency can be detected by laboratory tests but infertility can't be until the deed is done. And if it can be detected please enlighten me.

emmanuel596:
Even if I won't say I do I will still test and drive

I will even do drifting and blow up the engine

If u fucck dey will say u are bad if u don't fucck dey will say u are dolling
















Fucck anyway it's healthy

rita25:
hmmmmmm if I hear in dis our olosho days? over test drive dey worry pple oh......I was test driven and I test drive before I agreed to say I do oh....now I have a sweet product of recreation from my test drive activity.....lol!!!!!!

Neduzze5:


Oga abeg, wetin Genophobic mean?

michaelou:
oga neduzze5, na person who has a psychological fear of sexual relations or sexual intercourse

Vinshu:
It's OK to discuss sex before marriage. It's a good thing. But actually having sex before marriage is not needed. That is just lust.

galantjoe:


i disagree with you that a man might change his mind if he has sex with his intending wife. if that is so then that man is not for the woman. secondly what if he married and wedded his wife and had sex with her, later divorce the woman. for the two which one is lesser evil. so it is better he dump the lady before the wedding than after they had being wedded.

this is contemporary issue and we should behave in line with changes, no more primitive and punitive customs.

the op was right because a lot of people who have sexual problem hide under the cloak of no-sex-before-marriage to rubbish the future of their

counterparts. if every one is sincere to oneself this issue cannot be a problem.

thanks op for sincere advice

Ruthbaro10:
What after test driving and you got married and along the line the engine got knocked, what would you do? I guess you'll keep on test driving. No excuse for test driving.

feaworaoja007:
if one is impotent,he is automatically infertile;infertility can be checked in the lab, and therre are 3 important factors to consider,these are motility,sperm count and morphology...based on WHO standard,a guy needs @ least 20mil sperm count otherwise he is considered as having "low sperm count", as for motility which means the ability of the sperm to swin,a man has to have @ least 40% motility rate,then for morhology which means the shape of sperm being proper on discharge,u nid @ least 29%...then also a man nids to discharge @ least 1.5ml of semen to 5.0ml....however,if u av a high motility rate and morphology rate,then it can balance for people who have less than 20mil per ml...hope ds enlightens a lil"

Vinshu:


Sex is fun indeed. But for the lady involved, it sparks a lot of risks. What if the guy changes his mind? Like he is no longer interested? It is no connection. Once two are married the connection is already there then the fun comes in as both are bound. Not fucking like bf and gf which the bf can swith at any point to the next gf and leave the initial gf in the cold.

It's easier and fun for men but not recommended for ladies. Most ladies who indulge in it are pressurised by the men and some end up being dumped.

Setaje:
Size matters too .





My opinion.

all4naija:

It still all boils down to this medieval idea that has become a societal thing. There is no risk if not this attachment of guiltiness and fear like the one you just mentioned in your post. A guy can still change his mind during or after marriage. We have seen that many times but using sex as an excuse to define how a marriage is going to last or judge a guy's mind is completely incorrect. I have seen boyfriends and girlfriends who are closer than many married people. There are many marriages with quarrels about many things including sex and cheats here and there yet people want to use this insignificant religious idea to define both sexes living together as one for life.

Well, marriage is a cultural scheme of deceit that is supposed not to be mandatory at all. It is being forced on everybody. We have found out that the diamond rings people spend fortune on have no value at all. It is a scheme by De Beer to deceive people to buy them for a symbolic reason which haven't been nothing more than triviality.

I recommend it for both genders without carrying that guiltiness. It is not a risk at all excepting for those who are religious and insecure about their relationship. That even proves they are trying to find trust where there is none because they don't have trust at the beginning but just getting along and the reason they are afraid to have fun before the overrated ceremony called marriage!

In your last statement. Are you saying people use marriage to tie others down? It is still the same man that will dump a woman after marriage.

daclint:
Me must test every car wey I see o until I find the one wey I like.

MrsPhyno:
#TeamConvent so

girly00zero:

Thank you so much.
While I wouldn't exactly endorse sex before marriage, I'd have to say it's time for us to stop treating sexual immorality like it were the only bad thing a human being could possibly do. For crying out loud, people lie,cheat. people defame other people people steal people commit idolatry for Chrisakes people kill each other but still society has managed to make sex look like the vice and canker worm eating into the society.
For the umpteenth time sex doesn't make you a bad person or a good person
Your level of self respect and the richness of one's personality or even state of self control has nothing do with the vaginal status(i use vaginal because girls seem to be the worse victims).
I'm tired of society reducing something as intimate and beautiful as sex to a user/used context where one party is appraised and the other scorned.
If you believe in abstinence good and fine (which I'd personally recommend due to the maturity and energy involved in sexual relationships) but stop categorising other people who don't live up to your principles as being bad.

Setaje:
Size matters too .






My opinion.

darkenedrebel:


The engine has to be tested. .can you buy car without confiming if it's working or not

Onyinyechi1008:
Ladies are neither cars nor engines.

darkenedrebel:

It was an analogy not meant to be taken literally

Vinshu:


Sex is fun indeed. But for the lady involved, it sparks a lot of risks. What if the guy changes his mind? Like he is no longer interested? It is no connection. Once two are married the connection is already there then the fun comes in as both are bound. Not fucking like bf and gf which the bf can swith at any point to the next gf and leave the initial gf in the cold.

It's easier and fun for men but not recommended for ladies. Most ladies who indulge in it are pressurised by the men and some end up being dumped.

all4naija:

It's part of human nature to do so and it is very interesting. I don't think it is perverted men who do that. I can see it like a connection without that guilty conscience. Religious people demonize it and make it looks like having sex before marriage is wrong. That is one of the major causes of guiltiness. If not it is fun, interesting and keep both genders connected before the symbolic ceremonial sh*t called marriage is done, most especially, those lavished ones which usually end in divorce.

I still believe in sex before marriage. Just twice not over indulging it though.

IsiCaterpillar:
I strongly agree before someone will come and insult my womanhood with a toothprick.

Vinshu:
It's OK to discuss sex before marriage. It's a good thing. But actually having sex before marriage is not needed. That is just lust.