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Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:36am On Oct 10, 2015
OkunrinMeta:


So you are saying
1. You should be respected exactly the same way your mum would be respected.
2. Your dad should not be respected any more than a young man in a conversation like this.
Before you start insulting my parents too, understand that I am asking a question because that is what you've been implying by referring to someone's mother when talking about his sisters would have been sufficient. Sometimes its when we personalise things that our brain finally understand the weight of the issue at hand.

You are totally off track.

I am not going to insult you. What I am saying is that when you use derogatary and dirty words on a gender, you should bear in mind that you are conceived from that sex. If you think your mother is not a slut then you should have common sense to know that not all or most women are like that.

I won't tolerate the use of derogatory words. It is simply unfair and stupid. It became personal and insulting when you tagged every woman in the planet a slut/witch/bitch/unstable. Next time I will include his sisters, now that i know that mentioning his mum is simply not enough for a fool to understand understand the gravity of his careless words.

Consider how easy it is for some men to just blurt out those dirty words because they believe it is their birthright. I won't refer to his mum if he stops using dero[b]gatory and dirty words [/b]on all/most women.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:39am On Oct 10, 2015
johnson232:

@bolded, until then, u are just an ordinary female. deal with it. Mothers deserve the special treatment and recognition they get because they deserve it. Mothers are female, agreed. But the appellative 'mother' makes them more special than any other female that is still aspiring to be a mother...

Nah, my future son will think I have been awesome since my first word therefore I am definitely not an ordinary woman. I am a female, his mother is a female. If he thinks he can disrespect me because of my gender then he should know that his mum is exactly like me. What he says about my gender, directly relates to his mother and sisters.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:40am On Oct 10, 2015
sonofananimal:
YOU NEED WISDOM TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THE OP IS SAYING WHICH IN YOUR CASE, YOU ARE LACKING.

I GUESS IT ALL TURNS DOWN TO ONE POINT!


WOMEN AND FISH BRAIN

That babe is smarter than all the femles in your family combined
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:44am On Oct 10, 2015
Alejhandro:


Are men not important?

Are they more important than females

Both genders have roles to play in this world. One is not more important than the other.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:47am On Oct 10, 2015
goshen26:

I know it won't b in Nigeria, cos u people are spoilt over thr, no wonder a 2 yr old girl will b calling 911 to report her parent for correcting her.

if it were to in Nigeria u would blame urself for waking up dat day....smh....stewpid law n culture

Well, at least they don't have the stupid entitlement culture we have in Nigeria. That two year ish is actually is an exaggeration. It only happens when you fail as a parent
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by CaptPlanet(m): 8:48am On Oct 10, 2015
Biggest mistake you'll ever make. Why force a relationship on someone let alone, a lady

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Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:49am On Oct 10, 2015
Teespice:
it is only a dude with low self esteem that will force a relationship with a lady.

if she rejects your advances, there are several others who might accept your overtures.

I agree. But also only a foolish woman will agree to a man's advances when she knows that she doesn't give a fvck about him.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 8:51am On Oct 10, 2015
Truckpusher:
Cry ke!

When your pom is already crying in the hands of different guys. cheesy

It is not a shame, is it? Everything na nuscleundecided

Sex wasn't created for men aloneundecided
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Truckpusher(m): 8:53am On Oct 10, 2015
akike:


It is not a shame, is it? Everything na nuscleundecided

Sex wasn't created for men aloneundecided
Its not a shame but you folks treat it like you're doing us one big favor and this is the shame. cheesy
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by adepiero: 8:55am On Oct 10, 2015
@OP, You deserve a crate of orijin!
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by OkunrinMeta: 8:56am On Oct 10, 2015
akike:


You are totally off track.

I am not going to insult you. What I am saying is that when you use derogatary and dirty words on a gender, you should bear in mind that you are conceived from both sex. If you think your mother is not a slut then you should have common sense to know that not all or most women are like that.

I won't tolerate the use of derogatory words. It is simply unfair and stupid. It became personal and insulting when you tagged every woman in the planet a slut/witch/bitch/unstable. Next time I will include his sisters, now that i know that mentioning his mum is simply not enough for a fool to understand understand the gravity of his careless words.

Consider how easy it is for some men to just blurt out those dirty words because they believe it is their birthright. I won't refer to his mum if he stops using derogatory and dirty words on all/most women.

I believe he said "these GIRLS....." Am I wrong? If I am right, then he was obviously referring to 'the girls of nowadays' and he is certainly not the only one that thinks there is a diff between how our mothers lived and how the new generation is. I may be making excuses for him but its a logical argument since he never clarified whether he said that after considering those differences in attitude that many have iterated. Although my own personal opinion on the issue might be completely different but this is me being logical and taking evidence only from what was said to reach my conclusions, not how I feel about what was said or why I think he said such.

So you should have seen that he might have only meant young ladies that in his opinion have lost track of our culture. The point is he can make that argument and you would have been wrong comparing pointing to a much older generation when he was referring to people our age.

And maybe he meant every female, which I doubt, in which case, after obtaining clarifications, you would have been right to ask about his mother.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Adaeze003(f): 8:57am On Oct 10, 2015
Truckpusher:
Cry ke!

When your pom is already crying in the hands of different guys. cheesy

You wish...

Different pvssies like you.... you mean tongue tongue
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 9:02am On Oct 10, 2015
Truckpusher:
Its not a shame but you folks treat like you're doing us a favor and this is the shame. cheesy

Yeah, and that means your comment should only address such females. You cannot blamr them, men makeit seem as if it is oxygen itself
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 9:12am On Oct 10, 2015
[quote author=OkunrinMeta post=38841500]


I believe he said "these GIRLS....." Am I wrong? If I am right, then he was obviously referring to 'the girls of nowadays' and he is certainly not the only one that thinks there is a diff between how our mothers lived and how the new generation is. I may be making excuses for him but its a logical argument since he never clarified whether he said that after considering those differences in attitude that many have iterated. Although my own personal opinion on the issue might be completely different but this is me being logical and taking evidence only from what was said to reach my conclusions, not how I feel about what was said or why I think he said such.

So? FYI, women in those days married for money, for status and some of them cheated on their husbands. The only differences between now and then is population and increasing willingness to take risks. Adultery is not a new word nor is Gold-digger, in fact he should be blaming that generation for they introduced those vices to us. I refuse to be belittled for being of this generation.

nd maybe he meant every female, which I doubt, in which case, after obtaining clarifications, you would have been right to ask about his mother

If women have changed then men have also changed. What he has displayed his lack of common sense, no one should use dirty words on a gender regardless of the situation. It is wrong, daft and unfair.

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Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by zomoears(m): 9:14am On Oct 10, 2015
Vinshu:


Oh I'm serious and I'm not aggressive. I am actually gentle and reserved but hate when men feel important.

If u love sex, and love d way ur guy makes u feel, then your man is important to you. You have to make him feel important, honey!

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Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Nobody: 9:18am On Oct 10, 2015
Vinshu:


Oh I'm serious and I'm not aggressive. I am actually gentle and reserved but hate when men feel important.
Girls are d ones that should feel important naa!!!
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Truckpusher(m): 9:20am On Oct 10, 2015
Adaeze003:


You wish...

Different pvssies like you.... you mean tongue tongue
Hehe .....I can feel ya pain. grin
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by OkunrinMeta: 9:25am On Oct 10, 2015
[quote author=akike post=38841889][/quote]
OK, I believe we have both made our points. Enough said. Have a nice day dear
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Omotayor123(f): 9:29am On Oct 10, 2015
Freemanan:
Not when She is Omotayor123
shocked grin
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Uniben4sure: 9:34am On Oct 10, 2015
Dymondgurl:
OP, your points are valid, but you don't have to be a mysoginist. Back to the post, such guys erk me...dey don't just get "NO".
so we should follow the advice on your siggy

That's; let the girl go and then shoot her while she's running. Issorai!
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Nobody: 9:35am On Oct 10, 2015
akike:


That babe is smarter than all the femles in your family combined


can't you just make sense for once without insulting people's mother or familyundecided

you just show that you have no respect for own family by insulting others family
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by 2rez: 10:07am On Oct 10, 2015
akike:


That babe is smarter than all the femles in your family combined

Akike, c'mon, why mention his family in tha discuss That's uncalled for u know...
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 10:09am On Oct 10, 2015
2rez:


Akike, c'mon, why mention his family in tha discuss That's uncalled for u know...

I didn't he did when he said that women have fish brains.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Timijo(m): 10:11am On Oct 10, 2015
Good post but many bad comments are surfacing from shallow minded folks.
@op, well done.

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Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 10:13am On Oct 10, 2015
2rez:


Akike, c'mon, why mention his family in tha discuss That's uncalled for u know...
I didn't o


If Women have fish brains where does that leave the females in the his family. undecided

I know, he knows and you know it that the last he writes is smart. That means she is definitely not included in his stupid generalisation however I can't say the same for the women in his family
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by 2rez: 10:25am On Oct 10, 2015
akike:


I didn't he did when he said that women have fish brains.

Seriously my eyes were shut to that part. U right, he did. Sorry about that smiley but nonetheless, just take it easy oh k. smiley
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by akike: 10:26am On Oct 10, 2015
2rez:


Seriously my eyes were shut to that part. U right, he did. Sorry about that smiley but nonetheless, just take it easy oh k. smiley

I will. Thanks for your understanding.
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by 2rez: 10:30am On Oct 10, 2015
akike:


I will. Thanks for your understanding.

You very welcome
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Bigshark(m): 10:39am On Oct 10, 2015
all4naija:
Are you joking or what? I don't like aggressive lady. I don't believe you. shocked shocked shocked shocked
you are a Vry Big Cow for just thinking if she meant wat she said or not... undecided
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by johnson232: 10:48am On Oct 10, 2015
[quote author=kosplateau post=38837713][/quote]
Thanks my brother...
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Nobody: 10:53am On Oct 10, 2015
UjSizzle:

Nah it's not about who began using the word (really I don't have time for gender wars and all.) I'm saying it's a bad word to use on people.

As for the thread, you did see the part where I said "it must be the time of day" right? That means it was late, I was sleepy and that could be the reason I wasn't processing the message you were trying to put across.

You (people) need to calm down. Not everyone is trying to pick a fight or rubbish your person and effort.
ok ma
Re: Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady by Nobody: 10:57am On Oct 10, 2015
Teespice:
it is only a dude with low self esteem that will force a relationship with a lady.

if she rejects your advances, there are several others who might accept your overtures.
A sensible post

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