Disneylady:
Yes but won't pay her till I collect my money finish

chocolateme:
Yes, by paying evil back with evil. Give her a chance to be a blessing to others and her family. Not that you must employ her but it shouldn't be on the basis of revenge or retaliation.
Who knows, tomorrow may be better.
But I will never be surprised if you two eventually get back together again against all odds.
I have observed that people do things out of pure immaturity and youthful exuberance but as we grow over the years, maturity sets in and u wouldn't help but laugh at your yesteryears exhibitions.

Disneylady:
Yes but won't pay her till I collect my money finish

dharay99:

†hnk qoodness,
0p nw has sense...lemme read.

#modified#
Daviy, s†ay off i†...le† her luck do d work.
Helpinq her will b more like
yhu are †oo weak.

boboLIL:
U r vexing cos she dumped ur asz.... These 'hoes' aint loyal sha.... Help her out....

nedu2000:
If u like let her in,by the time she uses her manipulative side to become the vice-president of your firm,probably at your expense......she'll sack you!!
Thereby duping you 2x

kennyman2000:
If i was the one.. I'll make sure she doesnt get a job in that firm.. Reason been, she might get the job and work for ur downfall in that coy..

Op, take ur time and think.. All the best!

prettythicksme:
Na today gurls dey dupe&dump guys? forget d past and let her get d job

PrimeMinisterr:
she duped you, ...how much are We talking about here, d.jones?

DAVIYJONESS:
it has become a normal thing?

prettythicksme:
yes! only in naija

DAVIYJONESS:
my time, my heart, my money. Place value on all and tell me how much.

nasha1:
It depends on the extends of the dupe.if she duped you of something that destroyed your life or your self esteem and you won't feel comfortable around her, then don't.
But if it something you got over it,then do.

DAVIYJONESS:
I did get over it over the years, I don't just know how the flash back came about.

nasha1:


it is normal,we don't really forget about stuff like that,we can move on but it's not easy to forget.Think it through and make sure you have peace with whenever decision you want to take.

frankcris:
give her the job...they say "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice can't put the blame on you but but fool me thrice, bleep the peace sign load the choppers and let it rain on you...

DAVIYJONESS:
Is this a proverb?

memyselfndi:
Op just let d sleeping dog lie

Just forgive nd help her, dis will show dat u have a bigger heart, nd it will make her to have respect for you, but don't give her d opportunity to come into ur life again, let her know her place

If my ex comes nd ask for my assistant after wat he did to me, i will help him, just to prove to him dat am a better person dan the jerk dat he is

memyselfndi:
Op just let d sleeping dog lie

Just forgive nd help her, dis will show dat u have a bigger heart, nd it will make her to have respect for you, but don't give her d opportunity to come into ur life again, let her know her place

If my ex comes nd ask for my assistant after wat he did to me, i will help him, just to prove to him dat am a better person dan the jerk dat he is

DAVIYJONESS:
Sorry no list this time.

I experienced this last week tuesday when one of my ex whom dupe and dump me 2years ago submitted her C.V to my firm. I didn't know when and didn't get the chance to meet her but saw her C.V (read her profile).

I can press one or two button to get her the job but had a flash back of what she did to me which I can't narrate to make this story short.

I don't know if I'm being a bad person here if I don't help and I'm having a second thought to leave it neutral and let her luck work.

Guys Am I retaliating ? What would you do if you are in my shoe?

Ladies hope I'm not a bad person if I don't help?