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Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 2:29pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Sorry no list this time. I experienced this last week tuesday when one of my ex whom dupe and dump me 2years ago submitted her C.V to my firm. I didn't know when and didn't get the chance to meet her but saw her C.V (read her profile). I can press one or two button to get her the job but had a flash back of what she did to me which I can't narrate to make this story short. I don't know if I'm being a bad person here if I don't help and I'm having a second thought to leave it neutral and let her luck work. Guys Am I retaliating ? What would you do if you are in my shoe? Ladies hope I'm not a bad person if I don't help? |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by chocolateme(f): 2:31pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Yes, by paying evil back with evil. Give her a chance to be a blessing to others and her family. Not that you must employ her but it shouldn't be on the basis of revenge or retaliation. Who knows, tomorrow may be better. But I will never be surprised if you two eventually get back together again against all odds. I have observed that people do things out of pure immaturity and youthful exuberance but as we grow over the years, maturity sets in and u wouldn't help but laugh at your yesteryears exhibitions. 1 Like |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Disneylady(f): 2:36pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Yes but won't pay her till I collect my money finish |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by dharay99: 2:38pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
†hnk qoodness, 0p nw has sense...lemme read. #modified# Daviy, s†ay off i†...le† her luck do d work. Helpinq her will b more like yhu are †oo weak. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by boboLIL(m): 2:39pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
U r vexing cos she dumped ur asz.... These 'hoes' aint loyal sha.... Help her out.... |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by dharay99: 2:39pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Disneylady: dah† will only lead †o more issues. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by nedu2000(m): 2:47pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
If u like let her in,by the time she uses her manipulative side to become the vice-president of your firm,probably at your expense......she'll sack you!! Thereby duping you 2x 1 Like |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by kennyman2000(m): 3:17pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
If i was the one.. I'll make sure she doesnt get a job in that firm.. Reason been, she might get the job and work for ur downfall in that coy.. Op, take ur time and think.. All the best! 1 Like |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 5:57pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
chocolateme: Hmmm |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 5:59pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Disneylady:girl to girl |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:00pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
dharay99:@sense Hmmm it maybe right. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:02pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
boboLIL:she duped me too |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:04pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
nedu2000:I don't know if she has change it has been 2years. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:05pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
kennyman2000:thank you. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Na today gurls dey dupe&dump guys? forget d past and let her get d job |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
she duped you, ...how much are We talking about here, d.jones? |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:13pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
prettythicksme:it has become a normal thing? |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:14pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:my time, my heart, my money. Place value on all and tell me how much. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by nasha1(f): 6:15pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
It depends on the extends of the dupe.if she duped you of something that destroyed your life or your self esteem and you won't feel comfortable around her, then don't. But if it something you got over it,then do. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
DAVIYJONESS:yes! only in naija |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:20pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
prettythicksme:you girls don't have conscience? We work very hard, put our lives on the line to get money. We waste time too. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
DAVIYJONESS:. . . . let her have the job. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:22pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
nasha1:I did get over it over the years, I don't just know how the flash back came about. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by nasha1(f): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
DAVIYJONESS: it is normal,we don't really forget about stuff like that,we can move on but it's not easy to forget.Think it through and make sure you have peace with whenever decision you want to take. |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 6:34pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
nasha1:thank you |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by frankcris(m): 6:47pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
give her the job...they say "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice can't put the blame on you but but fool me thrice, bleep the peace sign load the choppers and let it rain on you... |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by DAVIYJONESS: 7:22pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
frankcris:Is this a proverb? |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by frankcris(m): 7:51pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
[color=#006600][/color] DAVIYJONESS:no, a riddle |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
Op just let d sleeping dog lie Just forgive nd help her, dis will show dat u have a bigger heart, nd it will make her to have respect for you, but don't give her d opportunity to come into ur life again, let her know her place If my ex comes nd ask for my assistant after wat he did to me, i will help him, just to prove to him dat am a better person dan the jerk dat he is |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by MCJIKEL22(m): 8:03pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
memyselfndi:Spot on! |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by MCJIKEL22(m): 8:09pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
memyselfndi:spot on! |
Re: Guys would You Employ A Girl That Once Dupe You Without Hesitating? by Sveen: 8:10pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
DAVIYJONESS:Bro, I finally figured out who you are. Note: Work and Relationships are two different things, I'm sure you'll be aware of her qualifications and experience vis-a-vis the intended job. If she deserves it, don't hesitate to give her. However, if she's not the best applicant for the post, don't let your relationship with her cloud your reasoning, thereby making you choose her over other better applicants. I wasn't joking when I said I know who you are. |
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