Toks2008:


I love your humiliity...

How old are you if i may ask?

mid 20s

Hahahaha!of cos not!shy about credit alert?mbanu!yeah true,but hav u patronised any before and did u hav any issue there after wit quality,taste and packaging or negative effects after consumption?just asking tho.

scribble:



Oh, you're shy when it comes to credit alerts too? Tell me another one please.

My main problem with patronizing the home delivery soup sellers is I worry about hygiene.

udysweet:
Hahahaha!of cos not!shy about credit alert?mbanu!yeah true,but hav u patronised any before and did u hav any issue there after wit quality,taste and packaging or negative effects after consumption?just asking tho.

I haven't. My anxiety over the hygiene will not allow me

I understand your point perfectly. Don't worry wen wifey comes in,you don't have to worry again,you will be getting clean,fresh and hot!

scribble:



I haven't. My anxiety over the hygiene will not allow me

Hello peeps and happy sunday.
How was church, if u went?
Time to prepare brunch...see u all soon!
Be good!!!

Toks2008:


I dont advice you go for an older lady above 4 or 5yrs.

Apparently at 23 you should focus more on building your life then maybe as you grow older you will have a broader view about life and decide on what you really want.

Why won't you advice him to go for an older lady?
just asking

Sparkles003:
Why won't you advice him to go for an older lady? just asking

Read the first libe of that my post very well.
How are you doing?qutee a while.

Toks2008:


Read the first libe of that my post very well.

How are you doing?qutee a while.

if he was above 23 would you advice him to marry an older lady

udysweet:

didnt get yu dearie .... hows yor day so far?

Sparkles003:

if he was above 23 would you advice him to marry an older lady

Now you are confusing me..are you saying i was wrong advising him not to go for ladies older than him above 5years?

You said I can find my way to benin,dat the traffic is quite mild,dats wat made me laff. Fine deare,and yours?happy sunday?

moski5:


didnt get yu dearie .... hows yor day so far?

udysweet:
You said I can find my way to benin,dat the traffic is quite mild,dats wat made me laff. Fine deare,and yours?happy sunday?

I see

mines was cool

Toks2008:


Now you are confusing me..are you saying i was wrong advising him not to go for ladies older than him above 5years?

Different strokes for different folks. He could be more mature than a lot of granpas out there....

aameyah:


Different strokes for different folks. He could be more mature than a lot of granpas out there....

IN MY OPINION no matter how matured a man can be,its still ok to marry a woman like 1 to 5 years older than he is and the closer the gap the better but 5yrs should be a breakiing point.

A 35year old married to a 38 to 40yr old lady
might still sound ok and anything above 5yrs is overdo.

MY OPINION

Btw can we meet you?i dont think i hve seen this user name comment here.

Toks2008:


Now you are confusing me..are you saying i was wrong advising him not to go for ladies older than him above 5years?

I never said that.
I am only asking a situation you that in a situation that a guy wants to date an older lady say the guy is from 27 upward wnd comes to you for advice would you encourage him.

Toks2008:


IN MY OPINION no matter how matured a man can be,its still ok to marry a woman like 1 to 5 years older than he is and the closer the gap the better but 5yrs should be a breakiing point.

A 35year old married to a 38 to 40yr old lady
might still sound ok and anything above 5yrs is overdo.

MY OPINION

Btw can we meet you?i dont think i hve seen this user name comment here.

I've been reading on the sidelines and to the sidelines have I returned...

I feel that when it comes to marriage, there shd be no age limit, nor price tag. Love is where u find it. And the rest is nobody's business. If ur 23 or 30, and the woman that makes ur heart beat faster is 30 or 42, by all means, go for it. Don't let anyone stop u. Yes, people may talk. Yes, ur family and friends may react, yes, there may be comments and sniggers, but at the end of the day, its ur personal happiness that is at stake.
I have friends who are married to far younger men, and their marriage is a wonder to beyond. They don't take each other for granted, bcs they know they got married against all odds.
Is marriage abt age gap? There are people married to their age mates, and the marriage has crashed.
Marriage is about love, compatibility, submission and mutual respect.
As in all spheres of life, there are pros and there are cons. Marrying an older woman, u get the advantage of her experience, her maturity, her mental and emotional stability, and yes, her industriousness. Its likely an older woman is not a cake and ice cream girl. She has seen it all and she wants to build a real home. Bcs she is mature, she can hold the home well, and represent u in public.
On the other hand, u will have to earn her respect as a man, if not she will disrespect u. To do that, u must show her the same qualities she could have found in an older man...then she will submit to u.
Why do some women marry far older men? For the same reasons.
@davindal. I do not know u f2f so I cannot properly assess if ur ready to settle down. But I will say this, in terms of age gap, a closer or wider gap is not a guarantee of a happy, peaceful and successful home.
Gdnte everyone and have a lovely week ahead.

siamia:
I just want to say this here and nobody shd take offence bcs am not pointing at anyone. As Papa Adeboye once said, iif u feel am talking abt u, then am talking abt u.
Pls I said it clearly, I ate my 40th birthday cake. I even ate after that. If ur nowhere near 40, do not mail me. Let's keep all talk here. Pls. Really, if ur 27 and ur chatting me up, how do u want me to see u? As a person with serious intentions? Everyone who says age is just a number shd try and marry a woman who is 12yrs ur senior. One day u'll wake up and accuse her of jazzing u. If u want an older woman, go for someone in ur age bracket, so that when people see u both in public, the age disparity will not look ridiculous.
So, how did everyone's day go?

May i know why you changed your opinion because when i read the quote above days ago i was like "yes this is my mindset too" so why the change in opinion? Just curious.

siamia:
I feel that when it comes to marriage, there shd be no age limit, nor price tag. Love is where u find it. And the rest is nobody's business. If ur 23 or 30, and the woman that makes ur heart beat faster is 30 or 42, by all means, go for it. Don't let anyone stop u. Yes, people may talk. Yes, ur family and friends may react, yes, there may be comments and sniggers, but at the end of the day, its ur personal happiness that is at stake.
I have friends who are married to far younger men, and their marriage is a wonder to beyond. They don't take each other for granted, bcs they know they got married against all odds.
Is marriage abt age gap? There are people married to their age mates, and the marriage has crashed.
Marriage is about love, compatibility, submission and mutual respect.
As in all spheres of life, there are pros and there are cons. Marrying an older woman, u get the advantage of her experience, her maturity, her mental and emotional stability, and yes, her industriousness. Its likely an older woman is not a cake and ice cream girl. She has seen it all and she wants to build a real home. Bcs she is mature, she can hold the home well, and represent u in public.
On the other hand, u will have to earn her respect as a man, if not she will disrespect u. To do that, u must show her the same qualities she could have found in an older man...then she will submit to u.
Why do some women marry far older men? For the same reasons.
@davindal. I do not know u f2f so I cannot properly assess if ur ready to settle down. But I will say this, in terms of age gap, a closer or wider gap is not a guarantee of a happy, peaceful and successful home.
Gdnte everyone and have a lovely week ahead.

I had an epiphany.
Go with my second post. We do learn everyday, even if ur the new Methuselah.

siamia:
I had an epiphany.
Go with my second post. We do learn everyday, even if ur the new Methuselah.

I'm a newcomer, I'm under 25 ( I'm not staying o, before someone says gerrout, your elders are talking....)
Just wanted to applaud your humility and teachability(if dats a word) ....many would hv found a longer story to defend their ideological misconception.
(I was trying to use big English so I won't sound like a small boy.....I try abi? Lol)
#bye

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Though still in late 20teez, i am sorry 4 breaking the age rule of commenting on this thread, believe me i have dine and wine with people of 70s & above home and abroad, all my business partners are double of my age, but as a single guy seriously prospecting for "I DO" i believe i will still learn one or two tinz here. @OP kudos i love ur mature replies on this thread so far. Hoping to get hooked up here or somewhere. Weldone all.

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siamia:
Hello peeps and happy sunday. How was church, if u went? Time to prepare brunch...see u all soon! Be good!!!

hi there please can we talk on whatsup please

@OP. Though as i earier stated i am in late 20tez, but pls permit me to comment more here, as a guy who set a deadline to get married before the age of 30, God has blessed me with all i ever wanted in life, i have started living my dream life as i ever wanted...all that remains now is "I DO" being the type of guy that work takes 98% of time i hardly have the opportunity to interact with the opposite sex offline, so online has been the best shot so far, (ABEG OUR BIG BRO AND SIS IN THE HOUSE MAKE UNA ALLOW WE GUYZ@ LATE 20TEZ TO REGISTER OUR MIND TOO NA) @Toks2008 weldone bro.

uchezzz:
Congrats op. I like ur personality
I seem not to be able to keep up with this thread. I close my eyes and open and its already in page 36

Hello Uchezz permit me to ask you this, sorry are you married?

@coolwisdom
If u want to talk to me, come to the whatsapp chat 08180632132. I'll be expecting u.
God bless u.

scantee:
@OP. Though as i earier stated i am in late 20tez, but pls permit me to comment more here, as a guy who set a deadline to get married before the age of 30, God has blessed me with all i ever wanted in life, i have started living my dream life as i ever wanted...all that remains now is "I DO" being the type of guy that work takes 98% of time i hardly have the opportunity to interact with the opposite sex offline, so online has been the best shot so far, (ABEG OUR BIG BRO AND SIS IN THE HOUSE MAKE UNA ALLOW WE GUYZ@ LATE 20TEZ TO REGISTER OUR MIND TOO NA) @Toks2008 weldone bro.

The ethics of my profession embraces proactiveness,innovation and dynamiism which remains the opium of any sustainable and progessive corporatiion or individual.

Having said that..i have decided to lay to rest the clamour for ladies in their late 20s...though i expected the OP to execute a liberal and democratic approach to my suggeston by throwing it to every one on the thread but she chose to be authocratic about it and i had to let it go.

If there are ladies of late 20s on this thread i believe you wont even write this because you would have silently sent a mail to any lady in your age bracket that catches your fancy in terms of her beauty or personality even if you are on the bench as a result of your ae.

Im writing this because of the mention but the op has the right to be epiphatiic about this or still hold on to her standds.

No Muslims? Just asking.

siamia:
If u are 30 plus and single, we shd have our own thread to meet and talk.
Some of us are single, educated and ably employed. We are mature, responsible, gainfully employed, christian and godfearing. Some of us have kids that we are training and bringing up. We are involved in church, in impacting the lives of others, and contribute to the wellbeing of the society, But for one reason or the other, we are still single.
I have a lot of respect for nairaland, and I think its Nigeria's version of facebook, only better.
So if ur 30 and above, let's talk and see if the sparks will fly!
Pls note: no rude comments. Respect attracts respect. Nairalanders are great people.

scantee:
Hello Uchezz permit me to ask you this, sorry are you married?

No, am not married

@toks 2008

This thread is simply 30plus and single. If u recall, it was originally 40plus and single. U were the same person who suggested that the bar should be lowered a little, to include those who were in their 30s, and I reasoned with u, though it deviated from my original purpose in starting this thread.

This post seems to be addressed to me and ur tone makes me wonder.
If expanding the thread to include men and women in their 30s isn't liberal and democratic, I wonder what is.
Saying that I am being autocratic abt it seems to be a direct attack on my person. I have always maintained a respectful approach to everyone, and encouraged everyone to be likeminded.
If one goes back to read all ur posts on this thread, one thing is clear. U don't think twice abt being verbally confrontational or outright abusive to anyone who doesn't think the way u do. The word for it is BULLY.
I want to believe u are not aware of it, but yes, u do bully people, and its unhealthy.
If u feel so strongly abt it, rather than stir up people's emotions here, pls by all means, start a thread of ur own. I am not taking up ur space here. I will not be drawn into an argument with u.
In life, u don't always have to have the last word. Some times u walk away from a battle in order to maintain ur dignity. Walk away from this one, dear.
Hope ur having a nice day.

Toks2008:


The ethics of my profession embraces proactiveness,innovation and dynamiism which remains the opium of any sustainable and progessive corporatiion or individual.

Having said that..i have decided to lay to rest the clamour for ladies in their late 20s...though i expected the OP to execute a liberal and democratic approach to my suggeston by throwing it to every one on the thread but she chose to be authocratic about it and i had to let it go.

If there are ladies of late 20s on this thread i believe you wont even write this because you would have silently sent a mail to any lady in your age bracket that catches your fancy in terms of her beauty or personality even if you are on the bench as a result of your ae.

Im writing this because of the mention but the op has the right to be epiphatiic about this or still hold on to her standds.