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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 11:03am On Oct 13, 2015 |
toks here toks there toks everywhere. he speaks like toks. and some come to say left whatever. shuoooo. abeg make ba free the situation and move to other matter. and melish as a young beautiful girl it is not everything your eyes see it says.some you keep your mouth shut and observe even after observe still keep quite cos others saw it to. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Emodeee: 11:27am On Oct 13, 2015 |
SexyCeline:oh dats even better. Follow me, let's talk. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 11:30am On Oct 13, 2015 |
Good morning family. 4 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:35am On Oct 13, 2015 |
Toks2008 and ddshow are attacking siamia... Toks2008 and ddshow were attacking melish.. Toks2008 and ddshow are using big grammar... Toks2008 and ddshow always in agreement... Their posts are constructed in the same manner with similar lines of thought. Toks2008 is the "good man" Ddshow spews the insults... Nice try 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by siamia(f): 11:55am On Oct 13, 2015 |
@klassic I just called Ur boss to wish him a happy birthday. He was overjoyed and appreciated it. That was thoughtful of u. Ur a good guy. May God put it in the hearts of men to remember u for good. Ur own day of celebration will never go unannounced in Jesus name. 4 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kenny2face: 12:03pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
hello all, pls lets all sheath our slashers and not derail from the initial purpose of starting this thread! @Madam Siamia, i apologize on behalf of all, do not bone off pls, continue your discussions, we are all benefiting, hence the diverse opinions. We all have our diff reasoning techniques, that is all. 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Luckygurl(f): 12:24pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Melish: Lmao!!!! This babe doesn't cease to crack me up with her comments in this thread. 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 12:25pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Freeze! Everyone!! Stop this chicken fight will you? Now on a serious note, good morning everyone. I think it's time to calm down frayed nerves here. Toks2008, you're a great man, intelligent and enlightened. Kudos to you for your work on this thread from the inception. You're the best. But you threw the first punch in this issue. You called the Op 'autocratic'. I'm sure you know that is NOT a compliment. Rules are rules. It has been 30yrs and above from the beginning of this thread. Most agreed to this. If you advised, that those of younger years should be allowed too and Siamia refused. I don't think that made her an autocratic Op. 30yrs and above are supposed to be people of matured minds and disposition. You want to come on this thread, bare your mind to others WITHOUT being insulted and made fun of. Those of younger years are so great in number on nairaland that if you allow them, I tell you this thread WILL SURELY be taken over by them. And the purpose will be defeated. Even without being allowed many are already commenting by the sidelines. Read some of their comments and see for yourself. Toks2008, I respect you. But you disappointed me by 'THREATENING' not to comment again until apologized to. You made it sound like you're the 'soul' of this thread. No! You're not!! You are a mighty pillar. One of several pillars. Let one fall and others will rise in its place. You can't post, quote and comment on your own post all alone. Same thing with Siamia. Please, let us learn to be humble in all what will do. And to let go whenever our 'humble' advice is not being taken. It's an advice, you either take it or you leave it. Siamia, my Op, you need to learn to keep your cool whenever you're being criticized or "attacked". You're the head. You should expect some criticism. You called Toks2008 a "bully" which is very wrong. Two wrongs doesn't make a right you know. Being the head, you're the manager of the people on the thread. So you should not take offense at some things that will be said to you. In fact, you should expect it sometimes so you will be prepared for it. Please, let's go back to the Genesis and start our friendship again. Toks2008, I apologize on behalf of Siamia. Please forgive and forget. Siamia, my darling Op, I apologize on behalf of Toks2008. Please forgive and forget. I think that should settle everything, abi? Lastly, everyone, the last time I checked, you only find "angels" in heaven. We're all human right? Phew! Long post. I don try. Love you guys............... Forever...... 17 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 1:55pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Its a bit disappointing what is going on considering the fact that it is seeing by a lot of people (including the young ones on the sidelines)anyway fights are meant to happen in life,we disagree to agree so its all good,but I must point out a few things here,am not blaming anyone sha but toks2008 you are a man first of all and then a politician like you said before so as a man I believe there are something's you have to overlook especially if a woman is involved, and as a politician one of your traits should be humility and willingness to serve and be criticized, that's what makes a great politician, so if you get married and read meanings to every little thing your wife says then your home will be on fire always,I don't think saying siamia must apologize before you make a comment again is necessary, it doesn't make you less of a man if you let it go,rather you will be respected more by everyone..@Siamia well as the moderator you should be more tolerant to people and be aware a lot of eyes are on you as the O.P,..I understand you might think toks attacked you but you should expect worse from others to come as the O.p,an eye for an eye makes the world blind,please my dear be more tolerant as a lot of young ones on the sidelines are looking up to you as a role model..Generally to all of us,we all need to work on these our little little behaviours(especially pride) because these behaviours could very much be one of the reasons we still find ourselves single.Pls let's all think about it,God bless us all. 3 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 2:02pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
mikolo80:Please don't use abusive words on anybody here,why would you say something like this?I hope you know you have women in your life(your mum and sisters)and judging someone is a terrible thing also to do because we are not perfect so saying she is still single because she didn't succumb to a man is uncalled for OGA,don't talk like a 16year old boy. 5 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
klassic:DONE 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kel4soft: 2:31pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Am in but am engaged. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nnemuka(f): 4:36pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
nawa o 30 and above acting like 20 and below. i wonder what will happen when 30 and below start their own thread..... na war zone e go be. Clear indication that age is nothing but numbers because the adults too behave like umuazi most times. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 4:56pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Dis ur writeup has suceeded in shooting up my fever! Give me time letme recover my health back and I'll come read thru wat you wrote again cos as it is I'm confused by all you wrote and again ur choice of words ddnt also help matter. Wch one be "God will heck you beht madam"abeg I no want! God dsnt heck someone o,abi na Jah rastafara naim u dey worship?lol.dont reply mbok mikolo80: |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by rofemiguwa(f): 5:03pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Time to unfollow the thread oo, leave the sideline and go home. Jus when I tot wow!! Y'all had to show ursef. Abeg dis wahala no worth am. U guys r jus spoiling d thread. Fix it people please!!! |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 5:14pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Called him,was happy and prayed for me o. He even did a mini interview with me,lol. Hmmm God abg touch this daddy o,make fit dash me beta job,Amen! klassic: 3 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 5:17pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
My sister pls don't o,haba! The issue has been laid to rest. We're good to go! rofemiguwa: 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 5:23pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Thanks siama. You are more than a friend. A MIRROR i would say of thee. For thou seest the minds eye and make it merry like a good wine doest. Gratitude i offer thee dear friend, if it be enough. siamia: 3 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 5:27pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Thanks, he was so joyous he told about it even though he had to tease me that i have everything i quote, and women but i am a mumu since i dont know what to do with them . He felt special and he will never forget in a hurry. He asked me to tell everybody that called he from this thread a very very big thank you. Right now i feel so special and thanks for making me feel this way. right i could assume the name Philomena . Once more i am grateful. udysweet: 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 5:28pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Thanks, he was so joyous he told about it even though he had to tease me that i have everything i quote, and women but i am a mumu since i dont know what to do with them . He felt special and he will never forget in a hurry. He asked me to tell everybody that called he from this thread a very very big thank you. Right now i feel so special and thanks for making me feel this way. right i could assume the name Philomena . Once more i am grateful. Ochillary: 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by mikolo80: 7:07pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
udysweet:ye see why I don't communicate well with writing not very diligent abeg o God will not heck you o He will heal you na auto correct wan Kobalize me o the beht =but with Nigerian accent (you fall my hand for this one) try take melecine (yes I misspelt this one on purpose) make the fever leave you sharp sharp take Pepper soup works wonders sweat that shitt out can I call |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by VHILL: 7:13pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
UUU 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by wrongnumber: 7:15pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Toks2008: Hello every one,i have been reading from teh sideline as usual not because i no qualify to post but i just dey observe. Please check my profile and you will see that i am an ardent follower of toks on nairaland WHY? because i love his personality and i have interacted with him many times even offline.The only guy i know on nairaland that is not too bias about expressing his passion which is writing and intelligent ones at that and infact about 10 of his threads have made front page which goes to show his level of intelligence and intellectual capacity. Why i dey write all these? Its because despite all,he is still human and no human being on earth is perfect so im not in any way taking sides but please every one should reason this out. 1.Did toks insult the OP? A very BIG NO.autocracy is a word and not a vulgar one but an adjective that was used to describe the manner in which he feels the op has run the thread which is his opinion. 2.Is his insistence on adding ladies of 26plus out of place considering the fact that there are many 30,31,32 year old guys here? NO because except we wan deceive ourselves,a 31yr old guy go prefer a lady in late 20s and since they are not here it means there is no need for these set of guys to show face here and nothing bad if teh op throw this to the floor instead of NO NO NO answer.oga toks na politician o and these people know how to consistently clamor for a change so his asking you again and again is only a reflection of his bargaining power. 3.How many 30lus ladies dey comment sef? With due respect many ladies are gossips and very malicious,i read comments like he has ego problem and i wonder..ego in what way?because he asks for an apology? In my opinion,for a man of 40 to ask a lady of 42 to apologize because he feels offended no be too much demand from a man except ladies wan begin claim gender equality or wettin dem dey call am.. Well my advice to bros is this,oga toks you no say i don dey follow you tey tey so abeg no dey use too mush grammar wey go be like sey you dey abuse because to me o u no abuse anybody or attack anyone but small small abeg. As for the OP aunty siama,abeg put pride aside,toks is a 40year old guy o and if he happens to be your husband if he wants an apology from you na to trowey am give am so be a good example and apologize biko. Let the younger ones learn that even the old disagree and agree. Toks is a stroing force here and i have been reading his comment here most times at late night and infact i quote his comments very well on other threads.We no wan miss am abeg.All these people acting as if they make post were no where when this thread was building up traffic but bros toks was there from page 1 and just this little disagreement has even added 2 more pages fast so what does that tel us. He is the man so abeg apologize to him make people no see you as proud. |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by mikolo80: 7:19pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
torqque7:I did not abuse her I just stated a fact not an opinion fact my mum puts up with my dad's crap she stays married my sister puts up with her husband's crap she's married my other sister refuses to put up with man crap she's lonely same with my aunt and one of our tenants I just told it like it is she has read it she has moved on you're here taking panadol for another person's headache and hypocritical by insulting me how do 16 yr olds talk like you without thinkin cos I can summarise in a sentence and you can't, you're getting intimidated and resulting to personal attacks cos you want to appear like gentleman instead of telling her the truth so she can solve her problem do you know how many of my female friends have gotten husband after my advice how many have you helped no be by grammar o so if you like continue to be politically correct na you know o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Nnemuka: Spot On |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 7:53pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
mikolo80: LOL 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by mikolo80: 7:57pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Sparkles003: not my opinion facts gleaned from extensive researc not rubbish May not be very good at conveying ideas in text hate writing
yes it can life is simple ppl make it hard mills and boon (I assume you're Old enough to know m and b) MTV base hate deceived women to look for only oil worker and banker or yahoo boy to sustain that lifestyle any girl Who can't see through this is not very smart (hence the term fish brain) if girls make wise decisions to invest instead of spend spend spend they can stretch their families budgets
not really ppl simply choose the expensive stuff pampers is not a necessity our parents survived without pampers et al l
many women know not when to stop another example of fish brain you command men at work you now want to command your husband at home not very smart if your man can't handle it you should know how to pick your battles l accordinly not feared why Will you even date a man that wants you to fear him more fish brain l
it's very sad and any woman that marries or even dates such a man deserves it l
I have nothing against house husbands I just said they are few and far between and statistics not in the girls favour so if you can't wait or freeze your eggs then bring your head down l um... you lost me here l
me too beht when go no go I do the marketing job instead of staying at home and got some very good experience l what statement those are your parents why you no tell them say you de equal cos you have job l
you can dream you should not pair with Guy that will not support your dream beht after setting your standard you must be prepared for the loneliness that will accompany you it's the complaining that annoys us not the dream or high standard you're comparing yourself that have money to console them (celebrities and female CEOs) they always have ppl around them so only feel lonely during holidays what do you have dstv? whatsapp? facebook? all I'm saying is if you have decided to be feminist be ready for the heat it's Just like wearing short dress and holding your yansh why you come wear the short dress de imitate oyinbo wen no get shame l yeah and they don't even know what that is l
I do serious research before I talk publicly most of you talk because you feel 'afterall you're graduates' po must comment for the sake of commenting send your bbm or what's app and I will convince you no I'm not gitting on you just better with speech than writing l
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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kaboninc(m): 7:58pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Wrongnumber Please go back and read toks2..8's comment to siamia And both of them are headstrong too. Toks is asking for apology but even in asking for the apology he was unnecessary harsh, too forward and mean too. Its like using diplomacy to yab someone. Siamia on the other hand sent her subtle jibes while maintaining that one man does not make a country. I think these two still need to learn some manners Acting all macho for my liking. If I put them in my ship, it'll just disappear into the Atlantic. Toks needs to loosen up. My old man taught me that honesty is relative. Same with being straight. Some issues should be discussed once especially when there's no continued connection to you. Well I heard that men become babies as they age. And women like baby dolls. Playing out here already..... |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Clash of Egos... Simple!!!! btw, I need someone to massage my ego 1 Like |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by klassic(m): 8:48pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Today, this my new found family made me proud honestly. I never expected to be threated this way, to be giving all the attention, special threatment and nobility befiitting of royalty. I am so elated. To the beautiful/handsome piece of human architecture who made out time to call my boss and wish him a happy birthday i am eternally grateful. To the paragon of beauties, may eros, aphroditius and jupiter continously jealous thy beauty. May your deepest heart desire be granted according to your capacity. May your stress be turned to strenght. May your naira/dollar filling station never run dry and you always have a reason to always celebrate. To the ladies, may God give you the beauty to attract the man your heart desires,may eros shot upon his heart an irresistable love for u, & may God give you the character to give him for life. Above all, may God grant unto the men the strenght and wisdom to provide for their women/ families, may we all never rum short of ideals to move to the next level. If there is another word for gratitude, on behalf of my boss and the entire OIC familiy, i employ it to say thanks, adupe, oshe, dalu,nagodeb & God bless. # phelomina. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ideyhere(f): 8:55pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Dosunmuoflagos: I am actually very unqualified to be here so I've been following OP's rules and reading at the sidelines at my own pace and taking notes. Very sorry but I couldn't help but comment on this. Was reading a book sometime ago and saw something that might help you...'don't look for the right person, be the right person.' You just might be surprised at the outcome. 2 Likes |
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
wrongnumber: Toks2008 account number three.. Keep 'em coming 2 Likes |
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