Oh dear...in my absence things have really fallen apart. Someone(preferably the op)should come and mend this crack before all sorts of creeps creep in.

Using multiple accounts to speak grammar, Insult people, chyke women and support your own posts...

You've really got issues bro ...
You need healing big time...

Melish:




Toks2008 account number three..
Keep 'em coming

Who be this toddler wey dey cause nuisance for here.

wat do you mean by toks account number 3?is that wat you do on nairaland?

i no blame you at all,its toks and op that allowed disagreement otherwise a spoilt brat like you wll not be spitting rubbish.

you go soon count reach 10.better go grab a life.


TFY if you quote me again

Melish:
Using multiple accounts to speak grammar, Insult people, chyke women and support your own posts...

You've really got issues bro ...
You need healing big time...

this one pass be careful...

you deserve a round of applause for your foolishness.

3 accounts..funny.

my opinion remains my opinion.

See the thread don gather extra 4page because of toks lol and the op nver see say he has strong influence.

As for u smally e be like say e-curse dey worry u.

halexito:
Freeze! Everyone!!
Stop this chicken fight will you?
Now on a serious note, good morning everyone. I think it's time to calm down frayed nerves here. Toks2008, you're a great man, intelligent and enlightened. Kudos to you for your work on this thread from the inception. You're the best.
But you threw the first punch in this issue. You called the Op 'autocratic'. I'm sure you know that is NOT a compliment. Rules are rules. It has been 30yrs and above from the beginning of this thread. Most agreed to this. If you advised, that those of younger years should be allowed too and Siamia refused. I don't think that made her an autocratic Op. 30yrs and above are supposed to be people of matured minds and disposition. You want to come on this thread, bare your mind to others WITHOUT being insulted and made fun of. Those of younger years are so great in number on nairaland that if you allow them, I tell you this thread WILL SURELY be taken over by them. And the purpose will be defeated. Even without being allowed many are already commenting by the sidelines. Read some of their comments and see for yourself. Toks2008, I respect you. But you disappointed me by 'THREATENING' not to comment again until apologized to. You made it sound like you're the 'soul' of this thread. No! You're not!! You are a mighty pillar. One of several pillars. Let one fall and others will rise in its place. You can't post, quote and comment on your own post all alone. Same thing with Siamia. Please, let us learn to be humble in all what will do. And to let go whenever our 'humble' advice is not being taken. It's an advice, you either take it or you leave it.
Siamia, my Op, you need to learn to keep your cool whenever you're being criticized or "attacked". You're the head. You should expect some criticism. You called Toks2008 a "bully" which is very wrong. Two wrongs doesn't make a right you know. Being the head, you're the manager of the people on the thread. So you should not take offense at some things that will be said to you. In fact, you should expect it sometimes so you will be prepared for it. Please, let's go back to the Genesis and start our friendship again.
Toks2008, I apologize on behalf of Siamia. Please forgive and forget. Siamia, my darling Op, I apologize on behalf of Toks2008. Please forgive and forget. I think that should settle everything, abi?
Lastly, everyone, the last time I checked, you only find "angels" in heaven. We're all human right? Phew! Long post. I don try.
Love you guys............... Forever......

Not 30, not single but I stumbled on this thread and started following it. And I started praying to witness the marriages that will crop up form here...until the fights started

So I wanted to type something, until I read the above.

Toks2008 and Siamia - pls listen to the voice of reason. We learn everyday. Halexito has done a very good job in mediating and many agree with him including my humble self. I really can't wait for the success stories from this beautiful thread. Pls, you two should not pour sand sand into people's garri o. Who knows if you were both created for a time like this? The job of the Master must be completed o



***bia Alex Zito, be putting spacing small small for your write up biko, u wan injure my eyes

Kimoni:


Not 30, not single but I stumbled on this thread and started following it. And I started praying to witness the marriages that will crop up form here...until the fights started

So I wanted to type something, until I read the above.

Toks2008 and Siamia - pls listen to the voice of reason. We learn everyday. Halexito has done a very good job in mediating and many agree with him including my humble self. I really can't wait for the success stories from this beautiful thread. Pls, you two should not pour sand sand into people's garri o. Who knows if you were both created for a time like this? The job of the Master must be completed o



***bia Alex Zito, be putting spacing small small for your write up biko, u wan injure my eyes

Lol. Sorry my brother. I feel you.

gratefulme40:



Well, I personally had to create this new handle to comment here because knowing what NL is, someone will go to another thread to make a jest of you as if being 30 and single is some form of curse or crime.

Yea, I am 30, single and have no regrets about it. I have achieved what every individual my age should achieve except the Mrs title and in all sincerity, we all have different reasons why we are single and for some of us, as much as we are up to 30, are still not desperate.

I am here to read, comment where necessary and make some good friends if possible.

A certain signature on NL says something like 'do whatever you have to do to keep your ship afloat, so far as it doesn't sink mine.' I sensed some truthfulness in this thread and that's why I've been patiently reading from page one. Now if you're being truthful about you not been worried about your single state, I don't see why you have to go to the trouble of opening a new moniker just because you think someone MIGHT use it against you in another thread. Being single is not a curse...and if someone would be fickle-minded enough to use it in yarbing another, then that said someone definitely does not deserve the courtesy of a second thought from the calibre of people I'm seeing on this thread.
Nb: I'm again sorry for leaving my sidelines

Melish:
Toks2008 and ddshow are attacking siamia...
Toks2008 and ddshow were attacking melish..
Toks2008 and ddshow are using big grammar...
Toks2008 and ddshow always in agreement...

Their posts are constructed in the same manner with similar lines of thought.


Toks2008 is the "good man"
Ddshow spews the insults...



Nice try

This is a problem of chronic personality disorder abi?

cridbak:


LOL

lonliness is not funny o

klassic:
Good morning family, Pls i need a favour from every member of this thread. My boss who has being a father i never had, is having his birthday today, i have thought of many ways to make it special, but since i am not a birthday person or the party type, i couldnt come up with much. But i know this will mean a lot to him, if you can just spare a minute or two to call him or send him and sms on my behalf wishing him a happy birthday.
His details:
NAME: OLUSOLA IDOWU (SAN)
number: 08023132864.
He is a learned SAN and has been nothing short of a father to me. pls , pls and pls do this for me. Thanks all and God bless.
pls send courtesy of : [b]Timi [/b]cos that's my name

you're lucky to have a fantastic boss


Not everybody can say the same



May the God your boss serve bless him for being nice to you

Melish:
Toks2008 and ddshow are attacking siamia...
Toks2008 and ddshow were attacking melish..
Toks2008 and ddshow are using big grammar...
Toks2008 and ddshow always in agreement...

Their posts are constructed in the same manner with similar lines of thought.


Toks2008 is the "good man"
Ddshow spews the insults...


Nice try

This girl get serious issues o., so toks is also Ddshow and me kai! milish trust me with your nature if you see man mary you at 50 make you thank GOD.

I always read this thread at night and yes i am an ardent follower of toks ever since i registered months back so because i made comments here that commended him now i am toks,Ddshow too is toks,milish you have very serious issue that you must go vilage go solve. So if we lambasted him and bring him down how will that solve your disrespectful and lousy nature?

Truth dey bitter and it wll always remain bitter. Adults quarrel even more than young ones but it is about settling in a matured way.Bros toks dey blunt and i have obsereved him many times but been blunt is not same as been abusive and using the word autocratic is not an insult but the ego of the OP made her see it that way so make we talk true. If the OP likes make she apologize for outright name calling if not let her not,it all goes to show individual's personality.period.

For you milish i promise to package better e-curse for you if you ever quote me again.

Gdmrn fine people and how was Ur nite?
Hmmm....ystdy, we had a fine and enlightening discussion on the group chat on businesses u can start with little/no capital.
One of the challenges that many 30plus and singles have, is the issue of financial empowerment. One factor that has delayed marital settlement is income. Simply put, many dont have good jobs. In fact, the jobs are simply not forthcoming. It is a classic case of demand being more than supply.
With good degrees, jobs are scarce bcs the economy is unfavourable. And what about those who dont even have degrees? What hope is there, but to turn to business?
Now, in going into business, many are hampered by lack of sufficient funds.
So, I ask the nairalanders in the House. What kind of businesses can a 30plus and single go into, that will require little or no cash?
Thus far, some have suggested recharge card selling, agency work in renting/selling property. I kind of like the agency work. Most agents are unlearned, but if we have educated people in that industry, I believe it can be refined and repackaged to offer better premium services.
2016 is our year of financial empowerment.
I wait to hear from u.
Good morning to u!

Good morning all. Trust ur nite went well? @siamia,I'm in on dis idea o. Have a great day all*hugs*

wrongnumber:


Who be this toddler wey dey cause nuisance for here.

wat do you mean by toks account number 3?is that wat you do on nairaland?

i no blame you at all,its toks and op that allowed disagreement otherwise a spoilt brat like you wll not be spitting rubbish.

you go soon count reach 10.better go grab a life.


TFY if you quote me again

Keep fooling your self Toks2008
Just keep fooling yourself....

siamia:
Gdmrn fine people and how was Ur nite?
Hmmm....ystdy, we had a fine and enlightening discussion on the group chat on businesses u can start with little/no capital.
One of the challenges that many 30plus and singles have, is the issue of financial empowerment. One factor that has delayed marital settlement is income. Simply put, many dont have good jobs. In fact, the jobs are simply not forthcoming. It is a classic case of demand being more than supply.
With good degrees, jobs are scarce bcs the economy is unfavourable. And what about those who dont even have degrees? What hope is there, but to turn to business?
Now, in going into business, many are hampered by lack of sufficient funds.
So, I ask the nairalanders in the House. What kind of businesses can a 30plus and single go into, that will require little or no cash?
Thus far, some have suggested recharge card selling, agency work in renting/selling property. I kind of like the agency work. Most agents are unlearned, but if we have educated people in that industry, I believe it can be refined and repackaged to offer better premium services.
2016 is our year of financial empowerment.
I wait to hear from u.
Good morning to u!

Sorry to ask ma, are you an employee or an entreprenuer?

Melish:



Keep fooling your self Toks20 08
Just keep fooling yourself....

Babe!!! Live and let live, please! I beg of you.

This username you've been mentioning up and down hasn't dignified you with the slightest response ever.
Isn't that a sign??
Besides, everyone has moved on here, time for you to do same

And you wrongnumber, let this slide!! Biko!!!
You ain't gonna get into an e fight with a female, will you??

wrongnumber:


This girl get serious issues o., so toks is also Ddshow and me kai! milish trust me with your nature if you see man mary you at 50 make you thank GOD.

I always read this thread at night and yes i am an ardent follower of toks ever since i registered months back so because i made comments here that commended him now i am toks,Ddshow too is toks,milish you have very serious issue that you must go vilage go solve. So if we lambasted him and bring him down how will that solve your disrespectful and lousy nature?

Truth dey bitter and it wll always remain bitter. Adults quarrel even more than young ones but it is about settling in a matured way.Bros toks dey blunt and i have obsereved him many times but been blunt is not same as been abusive and using the word autocratic is not an insult but the ego of the OP made her see it that way so make we talk true. If the OP likes make she apologize for outright name calling if not let her not,it all goes to show individual's personality.period.

For you milish i promise to package better e-curse for you if you ever quote me again.

Toks2008 your signature is all over your posts....
It's obviously you that typed this....

Your first paragraph is just a rephrased form of what you said before.. With your Toks2008 account..

Healing is available for your personality disorder... Just grab it

But that's not why I'm here

You can keep fooling yourself...

Luckygurl:


Babe!!! Live and let live, please! I beg of you.

This username you've been mentioning up and down hasn't dignified you with the slightest response ever.
Isn't that a sign??
Besides, everyone has moved on here, time for you to do same

And you wrongnumber, let this slide!! Biko!!!
You ain't gonna get into an e fight with a female, will you??

You're right.....
I'll let it rest...

But i was just enjoying the show he's putting up...

.

@Melish,please I implore u,Infact in the name of the God u serve,now end all this! U knw I haven't spoken to you before on this thread,have I ? Now in the name of my late mother(dats not a gud tin to evn use) stop all these. I feel you're trying to stir up trouble,don't pitch each against the other. If I'm your older or younger sister,I shd be able to talk to you and you listen. The fact that u comment on this thread means you're either 30 or above,don't make me feel otherwise.Enough said,enjoy the rest of your day. And by the way,day what are you now on your water based fast? You need to be health first and spiritually strong,how about concentrating on that?

udysweet:
@Melish,please I implore u,Infact in the name of the God u serve,now end all this! U knw I haven't spoken to you before on this thread,have I ? Now in the name of my late mother(dats not a gud tin to evn use) stop all these. I feel you're trying to stir up trouble,don't pitch each against the other. If I'm your older or younger sister,I shd be able to talk to you and you listen. The fact that u comment on this thread means you're either 30 or above,don't make me feel otherwise.Enough said,enjoy the rest of your day. And by the way,day what are you now on your water based fast? You need to be health first and spiritually strong,how about concentrating on that?

OK ma

siamia:
Gdmrn fine people and how was Ur nite?
Hmmm....ystdy, we had a fine and enlightening discussion on the group chat on businesses u can start with little/no capital.
One of the challenges that many 30plus and singles have, is the issue of financial empowerment. One factor that has delayed marital settlement is income. Simply put, many dont have good jobs. In fact, the jobs are simply not forthcoming. It is a classic case of demand being more than supply.
With good degrees, jobs are scarce bcs the economy is unfavourable. And what about those who dont even have degrees? What hope is there, but to turn to business?
Now, in going into business, many are hampered by lack of sufficient funds.
So, I ask the nairalanders in the House. What kind of businesses can a 30plus and single go into, that will require little or no cash?
Thus far, some have suggested recharge card selling, agency work in renting/selling property. I kind of like the agency work. Most agents are unlearned, but if we have educated people in that industry, I believe it can be refined and repackaged to offer better premium services.
2016 is our year of financial empowerment.
I wait to hear from u.
Good morning to u!

Hmmm this is a very important issue that really should be addressed, but in a country such as ours where nothing is consistent it becomes frustrating trying to come up with a winning business idea,most importantly if anyone where to start a small scale biz such as saloon,barber shop or even poultry farming the said individual would need a stable source of electricity to keep it going and maximize on profit,well as for capital to start up I heard the government has made finances available to youths(especially women)for SME,and as far as you have an ureka idea preferably in agriculture then you could access such finance. Google bank of industry and bank of agriculture for details.

Melish:
Toks2008 and ddshow are attacking siamia...
Toks2008 and ddshow were attacking melish..
Toks2008 and ddshow are using big grammar...
Toks2008 and ddshow always in agreement...

Their posts are constructed in the same manner with similar lines of thought.


Toks2008 is the "good man"
Ddshow spews the insults...


Nice try

I can see the limits of your wisdom and how deluded you can be. If stating the obvious means I am Toks2008, then good for you.

I'm sure you are still in high school and i'll advice you concentrate on your studies instead of all the balderdash.

Hello guys! I'm back to the thread mehn!

What's all these blabbing above for?

Why the quarel?

Anyway I perceive, certain persons among you ain't loyal, hence battle for supremecy and recognition.

Anyway, although I'm not up to 30. I believe I can still learn a few things from you guys, but you guys have fallen our hands mehn.

Well before I dash outa here like one naira coin; if you are below 30, abegi let's create our own thread and leave these guys, who have lost focus of the thread's intents.

But still, I can give chance to any pretty lady who is not above 32.

Sorry should have placed this here, its personal and i should deal with it as such. Guess happiness just like love is a ruse. A prank by Providence, an equivocator. Sorry once more my apologies.

Hellop everyone,goodmorning! Hope y'all slept well and are all up today? Thnak God for that. Here's wishing you a wonderful Thursday,hugs!
@klassik,I feel you shd see someone who will adress dis your case extensively. You can't listen dat makes you feel depressed yet you still listen to it. Aren't you the one who said to call his boss that day? If you're the one,I go report you give this ur "daddy" thatnkfully I have his number,hehehe. But seriosly u need some counselling(don't we all do)
Peace out!

Please dont, if you do i will quit my job and i am dead serious. He doesnt know any thing about my personal life, not even my complete names nor my background and i love to keep it that way. Thanks for caring though i hate it when people care. The post has been deleted.


(/quote author=udysweet post=38996614]Hellop everyone,goodmorning! Hope y'all slept well and are all up today? Thnak God for that. Here's wishing you a wonderful Thursday,hugs!
@klassik,I feel you shd see someone who will adress dis your case extensively. You can't listen dat makes you feel depressed yet you still listen to it. Aren't you the one who said to call his boss that day? If you're the one,I go report you give this ur "daddy" thatnkfully I have his number,hehehe. But seriosly u need some counselling(don't we all do)
Peace out![/quote]

I was enjoying this thread and all of a sudden............ What happened to continuity

@klassik,lol! No problem I won't. It hasn't gotn to dat stage where u be quitting ur job. But pls in all,don't tellme tho that you also don't belive in God,cos u make me feel u don't wit the way you sound. Its well tho. @cridbak,we're still on. Drop your post,trust me pple are reading it. Have great day all