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Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Zellie: 6:28pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
She killed herself. Wow ![]() |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by annibro(f): 6:38pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Dymondgurl: Prov 6: 16 - 19....."God also hates a proud look & a Lying tongue" etc but pipu go away wit ds all day & only remember 2 quote "God hates Divorce". D Bible says "d Letter Killeth but D Spirit gives Life". All ve sinned & fall short of D Glory of God. D woman with 5 husbands in D Bible was 4given. My Dear, one mesage I ve 4 ur Friends is dat, Don't Condemn urself & Don't allow anyone Condemn U. Only God has D Power 2 Judge & He's Merciful 2 forgive. Only d Sin of Blasphemy against D HolySpirit is unpardonable Luke 12:10. Get ds books 4 dem; 1) Where is God wen it hurts by Philip Yancey 2) Divorce & Remarriage by Guy Duty 3) Marriage, divorce & Remarriage by Keneth Hagins 4) Wen u see d Invisible, u'll do D Impossible by Oral Roberts Ds books help me a lot in my recovery process. 4get Naija pastors; dey play religion without D Word. Only D Word can make U free 3 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by MightySparrow: 6:49pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
onosprince: So Buhari is the cause of a man killing his wife? There is GOD ooooooooo. |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Dymondgurl(f): 6:51pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
annibro:truly experience is the best teacher. Thank you so very much. I'll ensure that they get these books. |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Ursino(f): 6:52pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
A colleague of mine told me about her yesterday ooo, that they were classmates all through secondary school. Can u imagine. Even the Catholic church that doesn't support divorce, supports separation especially when there is a threat to life. What a loss. That man must be from lucifer! But I blame ladies sometimes. Why did she keep quiet all the while; I'm sure this is not one-off. Whatever happened to the parents! They all kept mute till her death! It's so so unfortunate. May God forgive her all her sins, and grant her eternal rest. |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by missyadorable(f): 6:53pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
if it's her husband who battered her to death,may God bless him since nigerian women say marriage is for better for worse. They rather die married than stay alive single because of what society will say At the level of a consultant surgeon..chai! The hottest part of hell reserved for her!! If and only if it's her husband who killed her,I wish him the very best in his next marriage and all his life endeavours. |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by anyaekekehinde(m): 6:54pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
how can a man in his right senses beat a woman. it is taboo, you raise you hand and hit a woman |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by bummyla(m): 6:55pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
so sad! RIP! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by annibro(f): 6:59pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
blessedtwins: Hmmmm, I heard dat a lot. If u're familiar wit ds signs; 1) Ur sim has bin changed & replaced severally 2) Un ease 2 answer ur cell phone in d presence of ur spouse & having 2 xplain d conversationc afta u drop 3) Caged frm family & friends(even gettin jealous if u're wit or talking 2 dem) 4) Incessant monitoring tru calls wenever u go out 5) Destroying tins wen angry 6) Lowers ur self exteem. 7) Suspicious of evertin & reads meaning in2 all tins 8, Wants u 2 resign ....Wit ds signs, He'll never change. 3 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by drimpeccable(m): 7:30pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
This is so sad. She personally operated on my child and was part of the team of Doctors for two other surgeries on him during a long sojourn in her unit in LUTH. Dr Hestianna Thomas was so dedicated and passionate about her job and contributed so much in saving my kid. I had planned to acknowledge her kindness and the great role she played in a book I'm writing about the experience. You couldn't help but like her. How could such a beautiful soul exit this world in such a horrible manner? Rest in the bosom of the Lord, Doc. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Breadfruit: 7:33pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
dalu: So she smashed in her own face and chest, then fractured both arms by herself. Doc, just listen to yourself. N.B-People who commit suicide do it in a fast, clean painless way i.e, a shot to the head, a jump from the bridge, running in front of a moving car, etcetera. If she committed suicide, what was the weapon used. No suicide note for her husband and kids? Kindly note I say all these respectfully. Just that I'm hurt at the demise of this woman.... 4 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by DrJayKay: 7:35pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
annibro: Women are not the only victims of domestic violence. I know some men who pass through perpetual agony inns hands of there wives. It may not be physical but it can. Women are not a!ways victims, but most people think they are always victims. |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Breadfruit: 7:36pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
emerich: Rubbish! Who told you that she didn't love the man? Or she chose him because of his status? 3 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Breadfruit: 7:41pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
cooldee: Thou doth protest much... Suspicious! 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by DrJayKay: 7:49pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
dalu: Thanks for the info though. But it isn't enough to say suicide, by what means? How was she found? Did she jump from height or jump in front of a train?? |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Breadfruit: 7:50pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
dalu: Does the family have to take things up before its taken up?? In civilized societies, suspicious injuries are investigated thoroughly. Na wa oooo. 4 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by uridadole: 7:53pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
onosprince: Like say u just ocmmot from primary school.... 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by blessedtwins: 8:00pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
annibro he ticks all the boxes except number one and about work,I have been prevented from having any, not even running a biz of my choice.I completely isolated from my family up to the point that they cant come to help me when my baby is born. I will search high and low for those books |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by DrJayKay: 8:01pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
dalu: Thanks for the info though. But it isn't enough to say suicide, by what means? How was she found? Did she jump from height or jump in front of a train?? Or what? |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by YUSUPH1986(m): 8:25pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
dellyjoe10:i see a man who beats a woman as a coward. Bt wait o what wil be d fate of d children? |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by annibro(f): 8:47pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
DrJayKay:U are rite sir, men too could be. I use 2 know of a woman who maltreats her spouse, sends him on errands, 2 market, cleaning d huse, cooking etc. But it was more like she cast a spell on him. He eventually died misteriously. Yes if u say emmotional abuse, I agree But talking about physical abuse, I tink women are more of victim as dey are weaker in strength 2 fight bak. Just as women are 99% victim of Rape. D truth is 'no one prays 2b a Victim'. In anoda story, A guy once told my hubby his weddin almost didn't hold as he insisted d phrase "4 beta or worst" be removed frm d marriage oath. He claimed it wasn't Biblical dat it was man's idea & he wasn't ready 2 use his mouth & tie himself in2 permanent bondage. It sounded funny & irresponsible 2 me den but now I see some sense in it judging frm a different perspective esp considering naija mentality in issues of seperation. 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by cooldee(m): 8:50pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
THE CHILDREN ARE JUST TODDLERS .BOTH BELOW THE AGE OF 8. THE KIDS ARE STAYING WITH MY CLOSE RELATIVE NOW. @DALU THANKS FOR THE CLEARIFICATIONS. @BREADFRUIT AND EVERY OTHER PERSON STILL SUSPICIOUS ABOUT THE CAUSE OF DEATH BEING FROM THE HUSBAND....ALL OF YOU NEED TO GET YOUR FACTS VERY CORRECT. THE MUM VISITS THEM EVERY 2MONTHS AND SPENDS SOME TIME WITH THEM BEFORE GOING BACK COS SHE KNOWS HER DAUGHTER SO WELL AND AGAIN SHE EVEN PRAISED THE HUSBAND FOR TAKING CARE OF HER DAUGHTER..... MY POINT AND MY STAND REMAINS THAT SHE WAS NEVER BATTERED OR BEATEN BY THE HUSBAND. THERES NO WAY A LADY WILL BE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND A FRIEND OR COLLEAGUE OR NEIGHBOUR OR FAMILY MEMBER WOULD NOT HAVE SUSPECTED ANYTHING GOING ON IN THE HOME AND THE INFO WOULD HAVE SPREAD OUT FAST. THEY ARE A NICE HAPPY FAMILY. DONT COME UP HEAR AND START SPREADING STUPID BASELESS STORIES ABOUT THE HUSBAND BATTERING THE WIFE AT DIFFERENT TIMES. 3 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 9:31pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
cooldee:I am suspecting this man,are you sure you aint the lady's husband? Cos the man hasn't been arrested,he knows the story has gone viral on social media,as far as I am concerned he may be the one typing this,trying to be on a defensive side right on his couch. Let me say the suicide,depression excuse doesn't work for me. Who are you to the family,you seem to know so much and taking sides too. 9 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by bellville: 9:56pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
chimkaire:Thanks for the enquiry. Star dreams was written by June L. Singer. Both books are out of stock. They would be available in December. You can pm me so I can let you know when they arrive. 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by LydayBobo(m): 9:58pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
superstar1:Please don't be offended are you making reference to the subject matter or something else entirely... |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by annibro(f): 10:27pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
blessedtwins: Hmmmm! There are 2 tins I'll tell u which u shud keep at d back of ur mind; 1) Be true 2 urself. U alone can tell if u're d victim, wat u feel & wat u want. only u can rewrite ur story. Know D Bible 4 urself & don't allow anyone mislead u with isolated verses. Opinions may confuse u. Engage ur mind & inner being more 2) If it must get 2d stage, do Ve it in mind dat Divorce is not enemity. Some marriages aren't meant 2b. Some pipu aren't just compatible. Never hate ur spouse. Never. Only tru 4giveness can u receive help from God. Its difficult esp if u're in pain but its possible & worth it if u try. It is now I appreciate D Word which says Love ur enemies & pray 4 dose wo persecute u. I pray 4 my ex 4 God 2 change him & bless him wit a wife. 2day he's married & about 3mnth back, I saw his friendship request on my facebk page afta 8yrs of divorce & no communication of any sort. I ve 4given him yes but I didn't accept d request. U know why?.... Evrybody must not be ur friend ![]() My dear, I'll send u a pm, let's talk beta off ds thread. It will be well. Be positive 4 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Nobody: 10:49pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
When I was in surgery posting, Dr (Mrs) Ididio-Thomas was exceptional. Her death is a great loss to us in LUTH. But the greatest surprise is that, even the LUTH authority has not come up with the cause of death. Everything is shrouded in secrecy. Even up till now, no official statement has been made about her death. It still beats my imagination how a battered body of a whole consultant would be brought to the hospital where she had worked all her life, and the management would still not be bold to tell the world what killed one of its own. LUTH CMD, please do the needful. Reveal the result of the autopsy. Tell the world what killed our own amiable Dr. Thomas. 8 Likes |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by jagojunior(m): 11:08pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Just few days ago a Nurse and her daughter were killed by stray bullets following bank robbery in festac, Lagos state. Now this, what's really going on?? |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by cooldee(m): 11:23pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
I AM NOT HER HUSBAND. 1 Like |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Nobody: 12:22am On Oct 17, 2015 |
I Think she deserves to die!!! As enlightened as she is, working class specialist with good pay, u still choose to stay in an abusive marriage; it only tells the kind of person she is, her personality... she deserves what she wanted... Women and Men, say No to domestic violence!!! |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by omonnakoda: 12:24am On Oct 17, 2015 |
TonyeBarcanista:Unintelligent people should be killed before they produce even more unintelligent children though I would not advocate violence but a more humane putting down |
Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by superstar1(m): 12:39am On Oct 17, 2015 |
dalu: I do not think there is a case of suicide that will result in that level of injury, except she jumped in front of a moving truck or train or down from a storey building. |
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