So u begin beat her and slap her,u be mumu. She has an underlying ailment which triggers such reaction. It could also be psychological though; more like an escape mode sort of thing 4rm a sexual predator.

That's wah happens when all u do is sleep with everything in skirts!!!

dont let her come close to your house again o or even ur street. be warned

Harbosede02:
That's wah happens when all u do is sleep with everything in skirts!!!

sharap

konji na real bastard!


so you mean that u remembered God wen the container collapsed? ?? Op let God forgive you for the sin of fornication first before you can ask for his help....
#justsaying

Well i currently have a female friend who collapses like that like twice every month...hers happens anywhere,anytime or anyday..u can't even predict when she will collapse..till date i still don't know why...my ad @Op run 4 ur life,don't end up in jail because of kitten #Isgrafiti

Majority said u shud run, what are u still waiting, wont u run... dats the only advice I have for u

@op go for a big thanksgiving next sunday.If that girl had died in your house,you for know the meaning of "awaiting trial".No one would believe you didn't hurt her when it happens.Nigerian Police kukuma lazy before,with the corpse found in your house; coupled with the fact you were all alone with her?Even you would be convinced you killed her after dem don torture you for cell finish.My advice to you is to let her be!Even if she wants to visit,tell her you have relocated or something.

Baba u get mind o, after she fainted u still let her sleep in ur room U wan go jail?

It's probably a psychological or spiritual problem. . How can some of u assume she was play acting despite having water poured on her and d several panic beatings the OP gave her... Anyway OP u seem genuinely interested in her for u to really care about finding out what the problem is, if not u wouldn't be asking what u need to do, na jus ur testimony u for tell us. Atleast u have started her on d first step towards finding out d problem and possible recovery. Hope u'ld kip us updated sha.

Thryphosa:


Thanks so much sister.

Welcome.

Yomieluv:
next you want to have something with her alone, go to cele,and buy "holy cane'.

if she goes to her default mode again,wipe her on her head,six stroke is OK. the spirit will run out.


thank me later.

be patient a bit, since u started digging the cos of her actz. It can be corrected wit just little medical attention, she could be ur Mrs ryt

Meanwhile avoid being intimate with her for now, not even behind close doors

Thryphosa:
Pls I need some pieces of advice from matured minds. I met this young beautiful damsel sometimes two weeks ago. We exchanged phone numbers and we started working things out on phone.....you know what I mean nah, fast forward. Six days ago, she came visiting with a younger girl. We just cracked some jokes together, watched some movies, had lengthy conversation and she left.
Her next visit was 4 days ago, which she came all alone. I was so happy, as I was thinking of visiting her honey pot which didn't happen that day, we did everything except sex as she said she was not ready to give me that day. I had earlier learnt she is having her SIWES programme in that town, and would end it by December, so I need not to put her in a rush, knowing my time would come soon.
She promised to be around again on Saturday. At about 10am, when mopping my living room and doing some chores I heard some knocks on my door, lo and behold she was the one, putting on a white trouser and a pink top looking so attractive and charming.There was no light, so I had to put on the generator. She was watching TV as I quickly rounded up my chores. I was supposed to cook but I did not, I only soaked some corn flakes and we took it together. Door locked, gen still on, and playing sound system. We left for bedroom, started kissing and she willingly allowed me to pull off her trousers. As I wanted to penetrate, she made some sounds which I thought was normal due to the penetration. Before I could even penetrate, she fainted.
I didn't know what to do, I was so confused and afraid. She was as if she was dead, no part of the body was moving, no supply of oxygen, what a strange experience! I have had sex with many girls without such occurrence. I have not even seen such I only heard about it occasionally. I shouted, wailed, cried but she was not moving. My neighbour in the other flat had travelled to Minna on Friday and my place is far from where I could get a transit system.
I thought of what I could do, I couldn't even think, memory blurred. I went straight to the bathroom, brought out a pail of water poured it all over her, began to beat, slap her, praying, confused, blowing air into her ears, pressing her cheeks, doing all what I could do. Suddenly she came to life but couldn't talk. I tried to make her sit or stand she could not, she was weak. I wanted to take her to the hospital, but her body, cloth, undies were soaked with water I poured on her, only her trouser which I pulled off earlier was dry, and besides there was no vehicle at my disposal. I tried to make her sit directly opposite the fan, away from the bed on the rug. She couldn't still move her hands well, tired still, and couldn't talk, couldn't open her mouth. I pressed her cheeks, difficult to open her mouth.
Again she fainted the second time, lying like a dead person. Again, I poured her more water, beat her, did all kind of things, prayed. Again she regained consciousness but couldn't still talk. I pressed her cheeks so hard, she cried. I made her to talk by force. She was weak, I made her to stand with my support. She would want to lose her mind again, but I would slap her and would come back. I made sure I didn't allow her to rest, I engaged her with talk which she was too tired to reply. After sometime, I took her to the bathroom, bath her, didn't allow her to sit, she asked for water but I didn't give her. She told me she was cold I put off the fan. She began to feel conscious and could identify me and talk again.
I told her we would visit a general hospital, and she refused saying she was okay. She needed rest, but I didn't allow her to sleep, cos I was afraid she might lose consciousness again. At about 3pm, she has started to feel much better. I was happy to hear she was hungry, I fried plantain, and cooked noodles. She ate so well, and spread her cloth outside to dry. After eating, she was feeling sleepy, I was afraid to allow her sleep. We moved to the living room cos everywhere in the bedroom was soaked with water. She laid on the tiles and slept but I was with her monitoring her, though I knew she was conscious enough. I woke her up at some minutes past 5. She was looking as agile as before. It was just by the Grace of God, I don't know where I would have been. God indeed intervened, despite being a sinner, he heard my supplication and cry.
After she was awake and feeling fine again. I asked about her past similar experience. She later made me to understand that she had a similar experience with her first boyfriend, and even her second boyfriend and that I was the third person. She concluded that the reason is that she's afraid of sex. I don't believe that, I think there's more to it. And I also inquired if she has ever told her parents or elders sisters about that, she said no, that she's always afraid to tell them cos she's only 20 and they would scold her. I instructed her and gave her transport fare to travel home yesterday, Sunday in other to inform her parents, she initially refused but later admitted to do that. She later felt better on that Saturday and left my place at about 6:30pm.
She came around again on Sunday afternoon around 1pm so as to charge her phone with generator cos her phone was down. At about 4:30pm on Sunday we left together for the park. He boarded a vehicle going to her place, the car took off in my presence and later got to her parents at around 6pm on Sunday.
Pls good people of nairaland I need your advice. What do I need to do? What's your take on this? Have you had or heard about a similar experience? What do you think is happening? Pls mod, help me move this to the front page, so that people can advise me. I don't know if she's also a member of nairaland or she comes visiting too. Thanks everyone in anticipation of your advice .

Hmmm naa God save u oooo, u too reduce ur nacking of dat thing ok. U dey bathe full grown lady

Nawaooo....so fornication has become a way of life among today's youths. You think she would be so scared of sex if she knew in marriage she's legally permitted by everyone to have it? What's wrong with our men of nowadays? why is everything with y'all about sex? where's morality? Decency you all demand from girls you hope to marry. Is sex food you can't live without? Gosh!!! nawa Op keep up your chopping, one day the fly would be locked inside the casket with the corpse. Well what do i know



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Many thanks to everyone. I have picked one or two pieces of advice from your replies and quotes. May God keep us all safe and may you never experience such.

The thing is spiritual, may have a spiritual husband.

Olufemiolaolu:
Hmmm naa God save u oooo, u too reduce ur nacking of dat thing ok. U dey bathe full grown lady

its nothing new

Yomieluv:
next you want to have something with her alone, go to cele,and buy "holy cane'.

if she goes to her default mode again,wipe her on her head,six stroke is OK. the spirit will run out.


thank me later.

As you dey wipe her head with holy cane, remember say naa possess the spirit possess am no be kill em wan kill am

OP am just curious,what if she comes to your house today with the sexiest gown ever and ask you to give it to her HARD,whadayado?

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had a similar experience abt a year or two ago..she was loosing consciousness ryt before my eyes..I was so scared.. I prayed vigorously, increased my room's ventilation..slapped her to wake up and allowed her rest a bit ...I soon realized she was afraid of sex...although we engaged in other activities..I never bothered to penetrate her..we broke up abt a month later

...mr OP start avoiding that girl o,i think it is spiritual,dat is not fear of sex oooooo

dannydaniels:
Gosh ......dis stuff got me scared...i pray i never experience dis kinda problem....else ill faint with her there too

baba no b only u o.....we guyz tk a lot of risk all in d name of sex .may God continue to guide n protect us

Lord have mercy

rightym:
be patient a bit, since u started digging the cos of her actz. It can be corrected wit just little medical attention, she could be ur Mrs ryt

Meanwhile avoid being intimate with her for now, not even behind close doors

so much sense in ur words

tosyne2much:
Lord have mercy

i have heard abt things like this,especially from d yeebos,a guy told me a girl's father padlocked her kitty,dat no matter how a guy arouse her he wunt be able to penetrate....that d girl will be begging for sex like this buh,his d!ck cannot enter....lol

Thryphosa:
Many thanks to everyone. I have picked one or two pieces of advice from your replies and quotes. May God keep us all safe and may you never experience such.

ameeeeeeen o this is one of the reasons naialand ll continue to b mi second house ....ave learnt so much frm been an active reader

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Hello, please don't ever try having sex with her again, like don't ever try it!!!
Instead of listening to the leave her alone and run shits on here, just push her to the friendzone, like take her as a friend only, because running away from her is more like you running away from a friend who need help.. And most importantly, be like a brother to her.

[size=14pt]It is called little death (La petit mort), some people experience this out of excitement through sexual arousal.[/size]

Naija ehn... Spiritual ko, spiritual ni... Biko it's psychological, she's scared of SEX... Females are always scared of stuffs.

Op...abeg use ur tongue count ur teeth oh...leave that girl oh. Let her not be your UNDOING oh.