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Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 8:18am On Oct 19, 2015 |
Pidggin: Goodluck to you too. If you read properly you will know I am coping on my own n so don't need any help. I will package her to you so u can continue n give her all the packages she missed. |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 8:21am On Oct 19, 2015 |
Pidggin: No body is perfect. When a child doesn't take correction what happens?I hug her n buy her a car She stays late till 6pm three school days. So I should take her to club after her return by 6pm? Clearly you didn't read the post from the beginning n shouldn't comment. Her siblings come weekend to visit her n she goes to church on Sunday. |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by doublex: 8:35am On Oct 19, 2015 |
armyofone:this is great advice especially since she's only 11 because i was 11 a couple of years ago and i remember how i was... |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by doublex: 8:45am On Oct 19, 2015 |
tearoses:greatly said |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 8:54am On Oct 19, 2015 |
doublex: Were u disobedient, disrespectful n didn't take corrections? I am still learning n building my relationship with kids . Like someone said it's not a do or die affair. I will visit this section more to learn . I missed it from the beginning by not setting my rules n regulations. |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by doublex: 9:11am On Oct 19, 2015 |
wonyi:i wasnt but i was still a kid in the sense that their was childishness(which many adults can see as disrespectful)...basically a child is naive.am 17 now and have 10 year old younger sibling and can see the same,i get irritated at times then my mom reminds me that thats how i was kind of.either way,am sorry for what you are going through.maybe the physical ailments are making you more irritable which is understandable.plus having to deal with a child at this stage of yours 3 Likes |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by Nobody: 9:17am On Oct 19, 2015 |
op the problem began from the foundation.when she first came in,you should have given strict rules to abide by and when she stepped out of line,scold her..it seems you were too soft..she is a kid,kid can be taught and trained to do the right things..i think your health didnt help too.but talk to her and tell her the truth,let her know why you are letting her go tell her you were disappointed by her acts.if you want her back make sure you are at full health and fix strict rules you have to put you foot down but also be patient with here..goodluck.. |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 10:51am On Oct 19, 2015 |
hiroz: Thanks very much. I know I missed it from The start. Thanks |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by SAMBARRY: 11:44am On Oct 19, 2015 |
wonyi:the better for both of you 1 Like |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by SAMBARRY: 11:48am On Oct 19, 2015 |
So when your 11 year old child disobeys you e.g wash the dishes and she doesn't but is inside her room playing video game you will stab her to death or if she disrespects you, you'll throw her out? wonyi: 1 Like |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 12:34pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
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Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 12:39pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
wonyi: @ SAMBARRY, some of us read but don't understand. I repeat I will discipline my children. All through her stay I never flogged her or use harsh words on her. My children will be disciplined. I still take instructions from my husband. I told her she is different from the girl I know in church Moreover all the morals I teach her in church is in vain. |
Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by wonyi: 12:42pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
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Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by happymummy(f): 4:20am On Nov 27, 2017 |
Well done Wonyi You are a great woman Don't mind all the judginas Nobody will or can stand a child nor helping out with house chores 1 Like |
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