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Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by HelenaMag: 2:31pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
It shakes me that though we are in the 21st century, many men still think like our forefathers, where a woman is seen as a submissive and they dominant. Many have justified their actions with the verse of the bible that says “wives submit to your husband…” Most men are always trying to dominate the relationship – their words should not be questioned and his woman is not to interfere in his personal life, for him cheating on her is a normal thing for a man to do and an apology should do, they justify by saying “all men are born promiscuous.” But if his woman dares to be just a friend with another man, she is seen as flirtatious, he would let hell loose and tell her to break off any contact with her male friends. continue reading here: http://www.helenamag.com/2015/07/21/gender-inequality-in-relationships-men-issues/ 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by Nobody: 2:43pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
This one na olds (opposite of news) na. I was thinking you want to talk about gender inequities like women no paying dowries and bearing their mom's surname in marriage, contributing 1/2 of the money for family upkeep, paying half of the fees when they go out on dates, and many others I can't think of now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by Nobody: 2:47pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
hmmmmm alright, if you can truly answer this question. When was the last time a guy took you out and paid for everything? when last did you woo a guy? when last did you pay a guy's dowry? when last did you protect him from a physical attack? when last did you carry him into the bedroom? see I'm not supporting dominance or whatever but a man gats to be a man and there would never be a balance in any relationship, one must be above the order but it should not be in a stupid way. Equality can never EVER come to pass until a man starts bleeding once a month and a woman starts impregnating men. God made it that way but Fk arrogance if that's what you meant by dominance. 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by IamLEGEND1: 2:49pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
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Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by tosyne2much(m): 2:51pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
That's the way it will always be Nothing can change it 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by kingsmok(m): 2:54pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
Don't have much to say, but you have to think very well before your marriage, that just the way it is |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by HelenaMag: 2:55pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
tosyne2much: It is not always like that and wont always be. Few ladies have the opportunity to be married to better men than the types described in the article. I think you should read the full article to have a full glimpse of what it talks about |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by Nobody: 2:57pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
HelenaMag:miss, by your definition who is a better husband? 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by HelenaMag: 3:01pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
icedbeatz: After reading the article you can tell what a better husband should act like, an opposite of what is described in the article |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by Nobody: 3:06pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
HelenaMag:forget about the article because thousands of articles portray their own ideas of what a better or good man/hubby should be but from your perspective who is a better man? just explain my dear 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by tosyne2much(m): 4:12pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
HelenaMag:I guess you misinterpreted me. All I'm trying to say is that, the society we find ourselves is that, which gives men absolute predominance of authority over ladies without being necessarily questioned. However, a man can cheat (there's no big deal about that) but when a woman tries that, you know the society will definitely kick against it 1 Like |
Re: Gender Inequality In Relationships (men Issues) by Vinshu(f): 4:16pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
Op, Gender inequality only exists because you want it to. If you don't want it to, it won't. How? - If your partner cheats in your relationship then end the relationship and move on with your life. No questions asked. - Do not allow your partner have dominance over you. - Work and earn your pay. He won't be able to brag or bully you financially. - do things when you want to, not when he wants. Life is short. It's nothing to lament about. |
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