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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by stageman: 8:52am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Go back to the drawing board, there is something u did when he first met u that made him want to bleep every second that u are not doing again.no reasonable man will refuse sex to to type if woman u described. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Jumeeeeesal(m): 8:57am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Can u recall somtin u've done wrong that made him to turnout that way? Cos u ladies wuna get wahala too, na only guys own wuna go dey reveal blah blah blah. It's only God that knows the evil act u've committed that is makin him to treat u dat way. Sorri jux passinby |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Etizz: 9:03am On Oct 20, 2015 |
I will advice you not to come to nairaland to lay such complain,.. You know why? Because, most of the people dat will comment on your post are just so childish and cannot say any meaningful thing to help u.... They know themselves,... In otherwords, pls call him to order to discuss it over intimately, it's either he has lost libido or he is seeing someone else, don't cry anymore, stand up and fight for your husband and your happiness, it's obvious something is wrong, try n fish it out now OK...... Most of all, don't think of divorce... Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by chukssnkeze: 9:03am On Oct 20, 2015 |
He has been with another woman without protection and wants to be sure he is not infected before coming back to you, trust me he will come back just pretend he is not there get busy keep being neat and pretty |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ozimec(m): 9:07am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: Take it to God in prayer first, then have a discussion with your husband let him know your feelings. I bet you he will change |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 9:09am On Oct 20, 2015 |
My candid advice to u is to meet him politely after a delicious meal that u have an important discussion with him, let him know that u have tried enduring but since he is not finding u attractive, he should play safe where he is playing and that both of u have to go for HIV test anytime he needs u but u will not cheat on him. After which don't ever go begging him, concentrate on yr children and church. But again seek for prayers as he fit don join... Maybe he doesn't want u to be hurthurt, be careful anyway |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 9:10am On Oct 20, 2015 |
daretodiffer:Why? My dear anybody who can concieve murder is an evil person. I was almost taken in by her first post but something didnt quite sound right about her person. I may have believed her If she said they sleep on the same bed but he makes no attempt at showing affection. But the fact that the man sleeps far away from her tells you that the man wants to stay away as far as possible from the mentally unstable wife to avoid being killed in the middle of the night while he is fast asleep! That woman is evil. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 20, 2015 |
dinachi:If she were a man, you won't be typing this nonsense ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Kanbee: 9:23am On Oct 20, 2015 |
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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by DoTheNeedful: 9:28am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: Take it easy o. Just because of sex? Why not walk out if you are not comfortable? You will kill him for his family? Then you will be charged for murder and hanged and your children orphan? Haba! You sound selfish. The bolded is the reason why many guy/ladies will still rate their parents and family ahead of their spouses and you lot will be complaining. You will kill him for his family abi? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Niteezy: 9:39am On Oct 20, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:U ave no right to call her names, its either u give her d advice she seeks or u mind ur business nd save ur MB 4 sumtin beta. Dnt act so Primitive. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by fpeter(f): 9:45am On Oct 20, 2015 |
if you're sure he's not gay then........ Pray Pray Pray After praying Pray again.... Then Pray some more... Then have a heart to heart with him, see a counselor take vacation alone with him....dress provocatively inside your bedroom Change the look of your bedroom,use live flowers,get romantic candles and sprays another question, did he watch you having your kids? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by FRIYOPATRICK(m): 9:46am On Oct 20, 2015 |
[b][/b][color=#990000][/color] story for the gods.. I feel somethin fishy about this story, anyway, lets assume the story is true, here is my advice.. Change your nighties, wit new jeanstrings, transparent night gowns, bu**t cream, little body spray, and when the room is hot try sleeping wit only jeanstrings, if your hub refuse touching you, masturbate in the bathroom.. You are marry so its not a sin.. Do this for 2 weeks and you will be a week pregnant.. Thanks |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ebakhaiyhe(m): 9:51am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Like the popular opinion so far, I join others to request that you discussion with him and let him know your feeling. However, look out for That particular time when he is very excited, preferably about your person, then move in slowly and wisely and bring him to your world. I trust that God willing, this would work. If it fails, you both need to see a counsellor. I trust God to lead you to one. Cheer up, God will help you build your home |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 9:51am On Oct 20, 2015 |
daretodiffer:This is very very unfair! A man abandons his matrimonial bed fleeing for his dear life and you cant even spare a good word for him? SMH. From the foregoing, it is very clear that the Op is the evil aggressor while the innocent husband is the victim. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 9:53am On Oct 20, 2015 |
dinachi:Sexist pig ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by fpeter(f): 9:55am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Funnyguy83: IGNORANCE |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by unclenna(m): 9:57am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55:thank you for being a good wife. people like you are rear. pls I advice you to talk it out with your husband. tell him how you feel just the way you narrated it here. wishing you happy married life. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 9:59am On Oct 20, 2015 |
DoTheNeedful:That is how I knew she is pure evil! Any woman who says she will definitely murder her husband is a very terrible person. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 10:01am On Oct 20, 2015 |
daretodiffer:Demented skunk! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Welcomme: 10:02am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55:Who knows mayb b4 u guys got married, u used to deny him sex now it is a pay back period. That is wat am also planning to do to my current gf if I eventually get married to her.I will surely pay her back. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ABSOL10: 10:03am On Oct 20, 2015 |
sit him down and let him know ur thought and problems......maybe he is having sth against u......or probably ur pussy too expanded for his liking. just sit him down and talk to him |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by thorpido(m): 10:06am On Oct 20, 2015 |
LastProphet:Are you like the Op's hubby? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by AreaFada2: 10:10am On Oct 20, 2015 |
christinie: Well, I'm a man. So I stand a good chance of knowing one or two things about men. ![]() Many assertions women have about men just are not that true. Mostly generalisation. Remember men are still individuals, with individual idiosyncrasies. ![]() Many marriages face their toughest phase between 5th & 10th year. It's time of finally realising you're "stuck" or lovingly with one person quasi forever. It can go either way. This is no exception. If a man doesn't care anymore, he just doesn't. If she would be openly flirting with other men or worse, of course his pride/ego would kick in. But Just ignoring would just give him ammunition. This lady needs to be sure he hasn't found out some unsavoury things about her past. Or that someone has not lied against her. Why would she beg? Has she obviously done anything wrong? She should be herself and if possible seek professional help. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Mjjordan(m): 10:12am On Oct 20, 2015 |
babysophie:the only advice I've noticed so far....others were suggestions... |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by joekells: 10:23am On Oct 20, 2015 |
My dear, device another means...i know his silence on you hurts...but you must try to seek an opportunity an reach his hrt.. I tell u he might be battling with mood swing.. as u get to know his hrt condition an intentions, discussing it him will at least give you a sense of belonging, so as to knw d nxt step to take...above all be prayerful i believ God will hear ur outcry of lonely moments.. \\ sorely depend on him... |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ahaika23: 10:38am On Oct 20, 2015 |
google 'how to seduce a man'. If it helps, let me know. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by topzybabs: 10:40am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: As earlier advised, please try and talk it out with your hubby after you have prayed about it and let him know you are hurt by his recent actions. If truly he is still into you he will surely apologise and return to being the loving husband he used to be. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by kwiin: 10:41am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Arrange a holidays for time out after talking about it in an honest discussion, and ultimately take it to God in prayer. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 10:46am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ugbah007: 10:47am On Oct 20, 2015 |
When I read the message,my instinct just told me there is either another girl or your husband has contacted disease and does not want to infect you and also someone should pls beg that writer that wrote a similar story like yours not to tell the husband,you never can tell,it might just be the same couple.But work on those two assumptions and see how it goes. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by faithfulme: 10:47am On Oct 20, 2015 |
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