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Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 7:40pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
For anyone with even a passing interest in gender equality or women’s rights, it’s a relief to see feminism becoming more and more mainstream. No longer solely the domain of crotchety academics who demand we take a lighter to our lingerie, feminism’s makeover for the new millennium has made it as accessible and fun as a Beyoncé single – and it’s everywhere we look. There are feminist boxing classes, feminist baking groups, and, of course, feminist dating websites. Because when we talk about “having it all”, we also want a feminist boyfriend, right? |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 7:41pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
This is the topic that has been cracking me up since morning. Thought I should just share the "food" with warriors on here. Nice full English breakie - FrancisTony take charge. I'm out. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Nobody: 8:27pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
Shymm3x:Good for her. |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by bukatyne(f): 8:40pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
Lol @ thread Very sharp guy @ the one who beared his tips for her to reciprocate and the one wanting sex on a first date. I am sure than when the men were done, they will automatically be converted to non-feminists Not any different from Pastors who defraud people or Charlatans who join a cause to target its members. Pele and goodluck as you find male non-feminists to date. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by An0nimus: 9:07pm On Oct 19, 2015 |
But these men are in a disappointing minority compared to the rest of the male feminists I, and many other women, have encountered: men who use the term “feminist” as either bait or an alter-ego, assuming that their opt-in respect for women will entitle them to legions of adoring lovers – really the most anti-feminist act of all. |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by cococandy(f): 12:59am On Oct 20, 2015 |
As with anything, people will always try to use what's happening around them to get what they want. If a lady wants to be with a male feminist, with time she will find out if he really respects women or is just playing the card to score points. He can't even hide it for long if his heart is not in it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 11:04am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Loool "fem-pinion" |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 11:23am On Oct 20, 2015 |
yetseyi: Don't tell me you're a feminist, Yetty. Ijebus don't roll like that. Our women are highly educated and empowered career women...but they still know how to cater to their husbands. They pander to him, cook for him, wash his clothes, and massage his back daily after work. And they're great mums. That's what Ijebu women do. |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by 4nobody4every1: 11:27am On Oct 20, 2015 |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 12:58pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Shymm3x: loool, If I tell you I understand what true feminism is I am lying. There are just too many definitions of feminism to choose from even if one wants to be. Same way I do not understand the alpha male you keep talking about. It was an interesting piece anyway , I smiled all through. I wont comment on your last three sentences else we derail this thread. Is true feminism against those sentences? 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 1:23pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
yetseyi: Nice you're oblivious to the concept. It's basically just some babble started by disgruntled white women who were tired of white men selling them into slavery during the medieval times. And it metamorphosed into the art of blaming men for everything wrong with the world. A devilish concept virtuous women ought to stay away from. Yes, it's against those sentences. |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 1:50pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Shymm3x: Your definition seems odd though. Just don't let the true feminists have your head. You skipped the alpha male part. About your answer I think it depends, there are people who are not feminist that do not care for some of those things you listed. Wait, did you say massage his back everyday, does she get massaged too? |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by 5minsmadness: 2:03pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
But these men are in a disappointing minority compared to the rest of the male feminists I, and many other women, have encountered: [size=18pt]men who use the term “feminist” as either bait or an alter-ego, assuming that their opt-in respect for women will entitle them to legions of adoring lovers – really the most anti-feminist act of all.[/size] cc you-know-who 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Nobody: 2:25pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
I think the title of this thread should be, "Why I won't date another pseudo-male feminist. This is akin to saying female non-feminists are looking for more adoring lovers except if that's their motive tho'. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 2:49pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
yetseyi: Lol. My definition isn't odd - it's more of a picture that will Mona Lisa look like fake art. Even Picasso wouldn't be able paint a picture better than that. Alpha male is just a real man who understands the need to always be in-charge as the authority - without antagonising the female, albeit he'll never compromise. The man every woman openly/secretly desire. Obviously, reciprocating a nice gesture, such as a good massage, is divine. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 3:28pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Shymm3x: lool Did you say never compromise? Everybody has to compromise at one point or the other especially in relationships. So an alpha male NEVER compromises, an alpha male is much more worse than I thought. ohooo so its divine to reciprocate but its not divine to initiate the massage. |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 4:15pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
yetseyi: The alpha male doesn't do compromise when it comes to his ordained status and the privileges that come with it. You either take it or leave it lol. Most chics covet alpha males hence you chics always leaning guys they perceive as "alpha", thus exhibiting their vulnerabilities and they want someone who can take charge and be in control at all times. Even the ones with beta males always covet that alpha figure and that's why they cheat lol. Initiation is also divine and either of the two parties can always initiate it as long as it is mutual. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 5:30pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Shymm3x: *Rolls eyes* what of gamma male lool. I don't think we will agree on this alpha male issue so I will let it drop for now but that doesn't mean I wont bring it up some other time. Hmm fair enough |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 6:34pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
yetseyi: Lol. Gamma male is a phaggot. So, do you like getting a nice massage every night before you hit the sheets? |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 6:38pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Shymm3x: lool Who wouldn't? |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Stillfire: 7:17pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
A man claiming to be what he's not to get into the pants of women... Oh dear...the world has come to an end. *rolls eyes* 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 7:41pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
yetseyi: Loool. Err...how soft/supple is ya skin? Do you love the massage with a soft palm or a hardened one? And how comfortable are you nak3d for this task to be carried out? |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 8:04pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
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Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 8:04pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
( Shymm3x: hmm, well that is not open for discussion. And yes I am serious. Have a good night |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by Shymm3x: 12:11am On Oct 22, 2015 |
yetseyi: The ultra-conservative Ijebugirl lol. In Ijebu culture it's open for discussion, when talking to the Duke of Ijebuland. Anyway, every time I chat to you...these are the pictures of Yetseyi I have got in my head. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by kurupt1: 12:23am On Sep 08, 2019 |
Shymm3x:see this girl yansh o |
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