raayah:


We don't know who she's gonna call. Does it really matter?
If you can't give say so, but how can you expect someone to drop open wide for 200 naira recharge card.
Misogynists.

lat time i checked, sex was a two way thing and both parties get pleasure from it, sometimes you ladies derive more pleasure, we just do all the work, so you girls should saying it like you are doing guys a favor by opening wide, you want just as bad if not more than guys want it.

raayah:


A girl asking for recharge card is now prostitution??
Where in this post is this girl demanding money for sex.
Please don't join the misogynist train on nairaland.

the girl isn't demanding, its the guy... That was why I poised my question to the boys.

What do they need those cards for,do they sale it or call Real Bae with it...even the pretty ones stylishly do this,they start with pls can you do me a favor,once I hear that Line I know its Game on

Na so 1 babe ask me for recharge card,i jst buy card,load am,cm send am to d babe,still call am say hp she Don c d card. She ask how much? I say 4h,na so she tank me well. E b lik say she kneel dwn for where she dey sef buh afta she try load d card,omo c fire

Bad Nigga

but seriously this recharge card thing is really funny, some girls will be like oya send me card so i can call you, lol! some will say, my bis is about to expire, thank God that you called, pls come and subscribe for me, i have also noticed that once you start sending airtime to girls, they attitude changes, they start seeing you different, they can call you up anytime and ask for airtime promising to come and see you and all like say na all guys na im dey sex starved or na lla guys daft to believing sending of airtime equals to sex, the way some girls think sha, it beats me

Deefuray:

Silly question
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Annapecky:
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do you still beg guys for recharge card?

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Funny thing is she looked sexier with all them hips and stuff. She just looks malnourished and scrawny in that 'after' pix.

raayah:
This is the kind of thread that you will see hungry nairaland men run to celebrating.
Simply because, its a picture showing hate for a woman from a man.
Seun keeps promoting misogyny through his front page.

If this poor girl had slept with the man before getting the recharge card. Men will call her olosho or cheap thing.
This girl refused to go to his house. It could have been thousands of reasons why.
She ran into hard times and asked for recharge card from him and he refused because of sex.

We are cheering a man who lacks empathy and kindness. No woman is entitled anything from a man but basing it purely for sex is wrong especially in our society where sex before marriage is frowned upon.

I hope that nairaland does not corrupt the rest of the good men out there!

I put up a sweet picture of a man being nice to me and I get hate, but a picture of a callous man and people are supporting him (Including women). I understand, when men are demanding sex for 750 recharge card, cooking for a woman is just too much.

Don't make this about Nairaland. Address the issue as it is.

Laveda:
nonsense

Oya make I scratch u 1500...send me ur mail or number

4C2215131:


Don't make this about Nairaland. Address the issue as it is.

This is nairaland forum.

3rdlegxxx:


lat time i checked, sex was a two way thing and both parties get pleasure from it, sometimes you ladies derive more pleasure, we just do all the work, so you girls should saying it like you are doing guys a favor by opening wide, you want just as bad if not more than guys want it.

That's my point sex should be based on attraction not money.
The girl may have refused the guy sex because she was not attracted to him (From the story, she refused before she asked for recharge card).
But the man based his actions on money. He equated recharge card to sex.

raayah:


Then don't date women that beg too much.
Is that too hard!

This is why we like to advice women on nairaland to get a Job and a career to avoid all these unnecessary insults. The nairaland men will call us feminists and say we are destroying marriage.
But yet, this post shows exactly why women should get a job. Your worth is now being reduced to a recharge card.

Nobody in their right senses will hate on an upright, goal seeking and gainfully employed woman (not me aanywa). It's the attitude her so called liberated state informs that is the problem. Honestly its nauseating and leaves a lot to want for.

raayah:


This is nairaland forum.

Its a public forum and the views expressed here are not representative of that of the owner(s) and/or operators of the site. You'd be doing well to remember that.

4C2215131:


Nobody in their right senses will hate on an upright, goal seeking and gainfully employed woman (not me aanywa). It's the attitude her so called liberated state informs that is the problem. Honestly its nauseating and leaves a lot to want for.

This is why I quote nairaland men because they seem to have it out for career women. Anytime a post is referenced where a man wants to choose between an educated or uneducated woman. They always advise to go for the woman they can control.
I don't see anything wrong, we have all been in situations where we need someone's help. We can choose to help them or not.
We should not approve this man's behaviour. If she had slept with him and she asked for a favor (we will call her gold-digger).

4C2215131:


Its a public forum and the views expressed here are not representative of that of the owner(s) and/or operators of the site. You'd be doing well to remember that.

This is why I specifically address nairaland men in my post.

raayah:


This is why I specifically address nairaland men in my post.

A white lie there woman! You called a chaps name- Seun Osewa as aiding and abbeting misogyny. You were plain wrong for that.

raayah:


This is why I quote nairaland men because they seem to have it out for career women. Anytime a post is referenced where a man wants to choose between an educated or uneducated woman. They always advise to go for the woman they can control.
I don't see anything wrong, we have all been in situations where we need someone's help. We can choose to help them or not.
We should not approve this man's behaviour. If she had slept with him and she asked for a favor (we will call her gold-digger).

Not holding brief for the chap but you have to understand that the responses from the men folk are just a reflection of what obtains in the society; women are materialistic and men are cheating Hot he-goats. So don't sweat it as both views didn't come about by chance. They are proven behavioural facts of both sexes. Choose this day which side you'd belong. That's all one should be concerned about.

4C2215131:


A white lie there woman! You called a chaps name- Seun Osewa as aiding and abbeting misogyny. You were plain wrong for that.

Yes, Seun is a nairaland man, he owns nairaland. He has the power to remove misogynist articles from the front page.
Everyone even down to some mods know that nairaland aids and abets misogyny. It has been discussed severally.
Links : https://www.nairaland.com/2519176/pandering-anti-intellectualism-nairaland-part-1/4

Below was my post.. Let me highlight certain parts you seem to have missed

This is the kind of thread that you will see hungry nairaland men run to celebrating.
Simply because, its a picture showing hate for a woman from a man.
Seun keeps promoting misogyny through his front page.

If this poor girl had slept with the man before getting the recharge card. Men will call her olosho or cheap thing.
This girl refused to go to his house. It could have been thousands of reasons why.
She ran into hard times and asked for recharge card from him and he refused because of sex.

We are cheering a man who lacks empathy and kindness. No woman is entitled anything from a man but basing it purely for sex is wrong especially in our society where sex before marriage is frowned upon.

I hope that nairaland does not corrupt the rest of the good men out there!

4C2215131:


Not holding brief for the chap but you have to understand that the responses from the men folk are just a reflection of what obtains in the society; women are materialistic and men are cheating Hot he-goats. So don't sweat it as both views didn't come about by chance. They are proven behavioural facts of both sexes. Choose this day which side you'd belong. That's all one should be concerned about.

Yes some women are materialistic and some men are cheating Hot goats.
But this post doesn't show that, It shows a man refusing to help a woman with a paltry sum (Which he is allowed to !) because she refused him sex.
My major problem is that we are encouraging this man. It is not how it is done. Especially in Nigeria. This girl stands no chance. Damned if she do, damned if she don't.

raayah:


Yes, Seun is a nairaland man, he owns nairaland. He has the power to remove misogynist articles from the front page.
Everyone even down to some mods know that nairaland aids and abets misogyny. It has been discussed severally.
Links : https://www.nairaland.com/2519176/pandering-anti-intellectualism-nairaland-part-1/4

Its kinda easy to cry misoginy when it comes to issues bothering on the female folk but y'all don't know the amount of mental torture y'all give to your hubbies and lovers. Society says a man gotta be a man so he should 'man' up and handle his business.

Thus he suffers in silence until he passes on. Do you know the alarming amount of abused men extant in our society today? No body cres about this cos its a man's world and it's considered weakness to admit such.

raayah:


Yes some women are materialistic.
But should we encourage women to put out for recharge cards.

Newsflash honey: Most women are materialistic. Not some. What we should be discussing is the level of materialism exhibited by the female folk
While some are just passing, others are way over there.

4C2215131:


Its kinda easy to cry misoginy when it comes to issues bothering on the female folk but y'all don't know the amount of mental torture y'all give to your hubbies and lovers. Society says a man gotta be a man so he should 'man' up and handle his business.

Thus he suffers in silence until he passes on. Do you know the alarming amount of abused men extant in our society today? No body cres about this cos its a man's world and it's considered weakness to admit such.

I know that men have their issues in society but this is not what my post is about.
I am talking about equating recharge card to sex.

raayah:


I know that men have their issues in society but this is not what my post is about.
I am talking about equating recharge card to sex.

That is what I am talking about. Its now the norm in male female relations. Something gotta give. I spend the chedda you give up the goods. Why do you think most girls prefer dating married chaps? The foregoing is the underlying principle to this development.

Again you must understand that a man on the average doesn't just up and classify a lady as a cheap LovePeddler. She must have sent feelers that informed his coming to that conclusion. A girl that gets a response like she did for asking for recharge card leaves little to the imagination -that's all he sees her as being worth a notion again informed by her character. Will a guy you ask for recharge card tell you this?

mrpatozky:

Oya make I scratch u 1500...send me ur mail or number

I don't want it

4C2215131:


That is what I am talking about. Its now the norm in male female relations. Something gotta give. I spend the chedda you give up the goods. Why do you think most girls prefer dating married chaps? The foregoing is the underlying principle to this development.

Again you must understand that a man on the average doesn't just up and classify a lady as a cheap LovePeddler. She must have sent feelers that informed his coming to that conclusion. A girl that gets a response like she did for asking for recharge card leaves little to the imagination -that's all he sees her as being worth a notion again informed by her character. Will a guy you ask for recharge card tell you this?

I spend the chedda , you give up the goods? My God, such bad thinking.
Spending money on a girl is a choice (yours), a girl sleeping with you is a choice too (hers).
This is why rape is very prevalent in africa because men do believe that spending money on a girl means free access. If they don't get it, they use force.
No No, This is an archaic thinking that needs to be nipped in the bud.

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Laveda:
dave, I don't know about other girls, but, 'I' can't beg for recharge card, Never. . . The lil pride in me won't let me do that, I'll rather call my mum or daddy nd tell them not a guy. . . Ya'll insults are too much

haba now! I get you, dont take it personal. Where exactly did i throw an insult now

Laveda:
dave, I don't know about other girls, but, 'I' can't beg for recharge card, Never. . . The lil pride in me won't let me do that, I'll rather call my mum or daddy nd tell them not a guy. . . Ya'll insults are too much

haba now. Dont take this personal. I get your stance. Besides where exactly did i throw an insult

daveP:
haba now! I get you, dont take it personal. Where exactly did i throw an insult now

Not you, the bashing thread I see here everyday is really annoying

How you dave? Been a while