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Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by 123papas(m): 2:04pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
She recently had a fling with him. I don't want her anymore, I just want my kids all4naija: |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
123papas:That is understandable. But, you must get rid of her in a civilized way through divorce. It is not worth fighting, quarreling and killing each other for. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 2:17pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
daretodiffer:You are obsessed with female murderers! it is a problem. A big one. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 2:35pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Hi55: You should have posted your pix, after having 2kids its possible that you re no longer attractive, you have become complacent lazy and fat. Since men are visually oriented, your unattractive shape will definitely kill his sex drive, its also possible that your hubby is having his needs met elsewhere, shape up or shape out. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Artistree: 2:53pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
sabi99:I don't have to insult you na, doing so wouldn't tell you the full gist. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by alaskido(m): 2:54pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
After the Reggae, play the blues. Even your Boo self get a Boo. If you are loosing in a game, please change the rules. You said you assume there are no issues in your marriage. Assumption is the Mother of all Bleep UPS. Please you need to sit with your hubby and discuss this as no one in Naira land will be able to solve your domestic problem. May the Good Lord help you and give you the strength to overcome all marriage palaver. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by sabi99(m): 3:15pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Artistree:ok, thank u......u will av 2 follow me back |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Dav24(m): 3:32pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
two months without sex is too soon to make headlines, i can understand that your relationship with him was built on none stop sex of which without it, you are feeling miserable. Be careful on how you manage this situation before your husband will start calling you names. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Truckpusher(m): 3:41pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
IYANGBALI:That kain work. Who wants a rejected job? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Independa: 3:42pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
heardis:I think you need to grow up 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by sisisioge: 3:47pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Ohlordhavemercy! That dude is cheating. It doesn't end there o, he's in love with the other woman. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by FAJFARM(m): 4:00pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
queenfav: Too much African Magic" dey worry u. Change it to SuperSport now..mtcheww |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Nobody: 4:13pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
kinibigdeal:You head is correct. My advice is: are u born again? Prayer answers all things. The more you you listen 2 peoples opinion & advice the confused & u'll b mislead. In marriage divorce is not allowed except in d case of divorce. If you pray & seek God's presence he'll reveal 2 u reason behind your husband attitude. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by babysophie(f): 4:24pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Sunbellar:V u nt heard d word before ? |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by ELEYINJUANU(m): 4:42pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Woman stop justified urself, there is something wrong between 2 of u, go and kneel down to beg and ask for what is wrong. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Ayibaba1: 4:43pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
This is not strange my sister, not at all. You see a problem, but it is not a problem until both of you see it as such, and this is the reason talking it over with him is a must. Good communication is one factor most often missing in marriage. The man could be going through issue that you are not aware of, man's third leg is the most lazy part of his body, it is frightened by every little thing. But please, don't assume anything until you have talk it over with him. Men are also carried away at times with the feeling of I have given her every thing she needed to be comfortable. Most men don't see that aspect as one of the responsibilities they have to meet and satisfy at all time. Some men too are not really into sex, they can stay for long without it, it could be genetic or out of faith orientation. All these you will never know unless you discuss it with him. And never assume your case is rare, not at all. I am a married man and it is not every time I want to have it after three children even though my wife is still as young and beautiful as ever. So many other things take my attention and like I said, overshadow my mood. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by LastProphet: 4:45pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
thorpido: there is a lot to learn from what i said if you have enough experience to contemplate it. every human feeling has highs and lows and there is no feeling that remains CONTINUOUSLY HIGH ALL THE TIME! Please that is the message hollywood tries to sell and am telling you and any married person of over 10years here will tell you that. Some mornings you will wake up and wish you never even married - go and ask anyone that has a reputation for hard truths. Why the OP is thinking she has an issue is because of expectations which are not real. In terms of sex I have bee tired of my partner long long ago please, but i will not exchange her for the hottest kim kardashian BECAUSE OF OTHER VALUES SHE HAS THAT KIM CAN NEVER MEASURE UP TO IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD! So I expect a matured partner to understand it that the area of sex is on a normal decline and IT IS NORMAL!!!!!! But please there are exceptions to this sha, there are men and women with very high libido that must sleep with their partner everyday from what i heard, infact if the partner isnt around they will still sleep with something sha, but please if any television show is tellinh you that that is normal and is what all couples do then you are welcome to disneyland |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Sunbellar: 4:56pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
babysophie:Ah! Ah!! babysophie, but you are more than this degrading word of advice. Please don't make me believe you masturbate! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by pomsky: 5:29pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: [size=14pt]......trash talk![/size] 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by masqot(m): 5:34pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Your problem is communication. It's good to find a common ground in a relationship. You said he chats away. What were you doing? Cooking or busy with your children? Or office stuff. Give him some attention too. Show him you love him. Pick interest in some of his hubbies. Sex is not everything. Are you even romantic or it's the sex you always demand? Perhaps, you're boring for him. Make it like 'a duckling to the river". God on your side, you'll see the difference. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by babysophie(f): 6:21pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Sunbellar:I dnt mince or distort words jst to please pipul. I dnt join bandwagon,cos am too exposed for dt. Masturbation is neva a crime anywre except self-righteous pipul dt try to b judgemental. It's my opinion n am entitled to it. I wont change cos some pipul dnt wanna hear it. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by bidemilove89(f): 6:27pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
cold:Well u may never understand one basic fact that, nothing happens ordinarily. Everything happening in the physical is being control from the spirit realm. It takes the enlightened mind to understand this. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:28pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Estharfabian:Where is the place to seek advice then. I wager that she can get more valuable advice here because of anonymity and people can express themselves here without pussyfooting as opposed to politically correct advice she will get outside. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by FOREXMART(m): 6:42pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
No one knows your husband like you do, you should know what to do.....explore his soft spot, talking about it will just either push him further away or pretend just to please you but in his mind he's singing "bish don't kill my vibe". You don't want that. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by sniper1305(m): 6:48pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
W really can't blame d guy coz w dnt knw wat u are doin 2 him, besides some woman kitty-cat is as wide as lagos Ibadan expressway, hw do u enjoy sex wit such woman? Iv been with dat situation, I only enjoy sex with her wen am drunk so I was left with no choice dan 2 call it quit, I wil advice u 2 check ursef & ask him wat d problem was. His response may surprise u |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:52pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
dinachi: Totally disagree with you on your stance that she doesn't love him simply because she said she could kill, there was a cindition there---- if she found out he was cheating. It was a statement to underscore how hirt she would feel and its normal for any woman to feel same for a man she adores. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by awuf2008: 6:57pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
No smoke without fire, it is likely that you have done one of the below, May he caught with another person (Extra marital affairs) you are too nagging, habitual fighter, pessimistic in nature, workaholic, party freak or a chronic debtor. if you fell into any of this category, then that could be the cause of the problem |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by dinachi(m): 7:12pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
SpeedyConnect:I sympathise with your naivety! If you have ever been in love, it will be totally impossible for you to ever imagine hurting the object of your love let alone voicing it in a public forum. Take it from me, the Op is an evil woman who will not waste time in taking the husbands life if she as much as suspects he is cheating. I think the man is aware of her murderous insanity and that is why he stays as far away from her as possible to avoid being murdered in the night while he is asleep. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Macgreat(m): 7:15pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
kinibigdeal: This is it! this is your advice. take it. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Macgreat(m): 7:17pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
dinachi: This is serious. |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by Sunbellar: 7:19pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
babysophie:Alas babysophie, don't you think masturbation is synonymous to homosexuality/lesbianism, just that you are person doing it on yourself. Moreover, I thought that it's boys that normally indulge in such illicit act! |
Re: My Husband Denies Me Sex And Affection...its Killing Me by noholdsbarred(m): 7:23pm On Oct 20, 2015 |
Maybe there's something about your character that puts him off. He, probably, has complained to you about certain things but, maybe, you never took him seriously. There are a number of reasons a man would keep away from his wife. |
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