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Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by NiRfreak(m): 12:06am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:It is just a reality we have to understand and live with...... 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nina4u(f): 4:17am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Its not nesseserly true ...although i been there done that it ran out in the sand ..however i met someone new..but im in las vegas usa ..hes a musician in Lagos .. We talk every day on the phone ..we video chat ..message eachother ..there has to b trust ...and ofcause make plans to see eachother as soon as possible ...and making plans ..it can work ..but u gotto trust eachother ..and comunicate ...for me is a big issue because he got fans ... Preformans ...can i handle that? I voiced my fears and he has put me to ease ..but we shall see . 6 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by aktem(m): 5:35am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Every relationship will sooner or later bcom a distant relationship, even if u guyz ar in dsame skul,what if u want 2 go 4 ur NYSC&she's still in 200l,300l or 400l,what ar u gonna do abt dat?..or maybe u guyz stay in dsame location @home&she's studying in a different higher institution, wont u guyz eventually go 2 ur respective skuls?.I'm in a long distance relationship(although nt dat long) bt i'm nt passing tru any emotional torment cos "babe wey go Bleep anoda guy go Bleep am,even wen u dey dsame hostel"&even in dis 21st century,most relationship is just like u're playing a game.I have my future 2 focus on than thinking if one babe is cheating on me,if she like,make she cheat&wen i'm ready 2 marry,i knw what 2 do.Guyz,just make sure u ar nt a loser in any relationship u engage in,datz d REAL DEAL. 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by mylora: 5:46am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Couldn't agree more with the op. All his points I subscribe to in toto. The dude who said that his parents lived apart for the first 16 yrs of their marriage didn't understand that the op wasn't talking about marriage! The other guy can still ask to find how many relationships NYSC has killed even as a temporary separation. Distance.. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:24am On Oct 21, 2015 |
mylora:Some persons who don't have the slightest experience of it do not know the unnecessary pains and wasting of time this situation can bring until they experience it. Thanks! 7 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:29am On Oct 21, 2015 |
aktem:Thanks for your opinion. Now the issue is not overruling cheating from a relationship where both of you are physically present. People cheat even if they are physically present but what am saying in essence is that the high level of jealousy, cheating and lack of trust that distant affairs bring is not worth it! You will soon realize it! 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by blezzy080: 6:32am On Oct 21, 2015 |
I came all d way to say.. Thumbup 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:32am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Nina4u:'You have voiced your fears and he has put you to ease' Really? Let's just hope he has really 'put you to ease' because people misbehave when the other person is not physically present!!! After all, why are they not physically present? Out of sight is out of mind my dear! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:34am On Oct 21, 2015 |
blezzy080:Thanks! May God replenish your pockets for embarking on the journey to this thread! What means of transportation did you use? Airplane, car, bus or keke? Anyway, na joke I dey. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nina4u(f): 6:35am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:we r making plans ..thing is we never met face to face ..but we video chat every day ..talk on the phone every day ...we want to be together and when u feeling r that deep ..nothing can stop you from beeing together ....thanx though i aprishiate .. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by malele(m): 6:35am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Leave that frustrated goat. 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 6:43am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:If the question I asked is worthless that also makes ur post a worthless one. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:47am On Oct 21, 2015 |
StephanieEzeh:Ok. I know you on NL as a controversial person who open threads and make comments to ridicule the male folks...please yourself!!! 5 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:48am On Oct 21, 2015 |
malele:Hehehehe I wonder for am o! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 6:50am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Nina4u:You are welcome! Lalasticlala, rocktation... 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Cutehector(m): 6:53am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney ma nigga, nice one... 3 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 6:53am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Controversial? Don't make me laugh pls |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Cutehector(m): 6:58am On Oct 21, 2015 |
People just go into rships nowadays just to ease boredom.. I was askn a frnd of mine who "got so used to chattin with me" this question, what do u want frm me? Cuz ur always wantin to chat wit me and all that... Why done we get to see, u knw, get physical and all dat, na him d babe refuse oo... I had no other option dan to terminate the frndship cux I was startin to like her so much already... No matter what, chats and phone calls will always end up becomin boring... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nina4u(f): 6:59am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Wetin u dey una sabi ehhnn? Wetin b lalasticlala ? First time i hear am ..lol |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 7:02am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Cutehector:I see you my guy |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 7:03am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Nina4u:Na person name na! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nina4u(f): 7:05am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:whos nane? |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:18am On Oct 21, 2015 |
aktem: . . . . you just made a massive point man ! 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:21am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Cutehector:. . . . could that be estherfabian, (I can be blunt sometimes) |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:24am On Oct 21, 2015 |
op u couldn't have typed it better meeeeeeehn so many truths/facts listed there bro, remain blessed and for the male youngin's out there FOCUS on your future and goals because you might realize that the times and efforts you invested in a girl might later turn out to be a waste of time. Have your fun, have your love or gf but NEVER lose your focus because of her. 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:24am On Oct 21, 2015 |
it's more intense for My type that loves like crazy ! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Cutehector(m): 7:25am On Oct 21, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:ha! Pls oo... Abeg... I duno wat ur talkn abt... 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:26am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Cutehector:. . . . I've seen you a couple of times getting all lolly polly with her here. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Cutehector(m): 7:34am On Oct 21, 2015 |
PrimeMinisterr:lol I don't thrive in distant friendships.... And I'm so tired of chats.. They become so boring. Recently I stopped chatting with some cool chics I met on nairaland because I figured out that they don't have any plans of meeting in person... One thing I noticed in life nowadays is this, people only chat because they are bored, not because they wish to see you in person. Even if one party plans to meet the other in person and hopes things will get to the next level from there, the other person may not feel the same way.. So it just gets useless... Nwadays, I prefer meeting more of real ladies dan makin female frnds online... 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:40am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Just gerraout here mehn with dis shit u wrote!so men don cheat abi?dey cheat pass devil self |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 7:43am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Distance relationship rock i am used to it&i will never cheat on my boo even tho i do giv him go ahead to fuvk !!!It's a matter of understanding&trust! 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Sammywalex(m): 7:43am On Oct 21, 2015 |
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