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Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by NiRfreak(m): 10:57am On Oct 21, 2015 |
slinkman:lol |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by IamforGod: 11:06am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Good points! But my major concern is why you had to give an example about ladies and nt give about guys. Are u saying guys are always faithful during distance relationships? Secondly, why are u rude to people commenting? you are the owner of the thread, I expect you to embrace any comment that comes either good or bad cos it thier opinion. 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by RAKITIC: 11:06am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Person wey go cheat go cheat if u like dey see urself every minute 3 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Jalubarika(m): 11:15am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Not enough reasons to leave my Emyress.
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Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by blessedly(f): 11:19am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Cutehector: distance shaaa. lest I forget you told me you would be leaving the country then..... how far? |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Acidosis(m): 11:21am On Oct 21, 2015 |
You have only described the gains of a socially constructed love, not the natural kind of love. Socially constructed love DIES with time, even if you live and bath together everyday. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by slinkman(m): 11:44am On Oct 21, 2015 |
Nina4u:no musician that i know of in nigeria will struggle to maintain a long distance relationship... but make i no spoil person runs sha... Even pikin wey dey secondary schl here don get CD oo.. shine your eyes.. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by koboko69: 11:50am On Oct 21, 2015 |
aktem: Stop giving ursef hope.....no man I repeat...no man in a relationship will say the bolded You just some lover sch boy who trusts his babe so much.... 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nina4u(f): 12:10pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
slinkman:i said hes a struggling musician ...hes not struggling to keep us together ...lol we know what we want .... |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 12:12pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
jearile:Hey,dat is i rolls with my guy!! d distance is so much,konji will hold him one day u knw |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by aktem(m): 12:12pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
uhm |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by vislabraye(m): 12:12pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
GahtU: Your parents case might be a few exceptions but don't blame the OP. What he's saying is factual. This is something that happens everyday. The temptation is very high for both couple when they are far from each other. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 12:15pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Cutehector:hope u knw thunder? |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 12:17pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
serendipityF:Babe nice one!!u deserve a medal!! 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
robosky02:Yea |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:sure,i did not! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by nairamaniac: 12:26pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
This is however from a pessimistic point of view. Only sense he made is that it shouldn't go on for so long. Truely, all those romance are missed in the relationship, but could be covered with lots of other forms of bonding by having ur spouse as ur closest friend/confidant. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by tope221: 12:28pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
GahtU: Parley. Truth, they say is bitter. So it's either u take it or u leave it! File!!! Don't touch it {in Dbanj's voice} |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Macgreat(m): 12:30pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Hmm! Spend your money on ONLINE BETTING Not on a girl someone else is EATING. Like this part. what a revelation! Op, You are senseful, carry on! 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by robosky02(m): 12:35pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
prettythicksme: we will soon .............. close ranks lol |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by sirmmykay(m): 12:35pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
hmmm! nice write up anyway bt I wnt u to knw dt if u cnt trust ur partner at her back then u will find it difficult to trust her even if she's closer to u. did u knw dt most breakup comes frm partners who lived together? wht did u have to say about dt. i'v been involve in distance relatnship nd till date we are still together, d only thing I we try nt to lack is constant communication. u talk of sex, romance etc, pls I s dt d foundation of a relatnship, I cnt remember d last time I had sex nd dt does not stop me frm living my life, mind u I reside in ABUJA nd my lady just completed her youth service in akure. Someone calls me frm akure nd told me my lady is d only he had met dt refuse to enter a pepper soup joint with him simply bcus she cn only do dt with me. wht I'm trying to say is dt dnt generalize ur conclusion simply bcus it happened to u. I appreciate d fact dt one should nt stay long nd also if u dnt knw where d journey is leading g to, dere is no need getting involve in it. shalom 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nobody: 12:47pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
robosky02:Really? |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by robosky02(m): 12:59pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
prettythicksme: taaaaaaaaaaaa see your mind lol |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by tope221: 1:03pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
sirmmykay: I live in Akure, & I know of a sleek banker in Alagbaka constantly servicing ur girl. I know u in person, & i graduated from d same Uni wt ur girl. I do not want to reveal anyone's identity here, but if u dare me, I will nt only reveal ur own identity, but I will also do dat of ur girl. Op is only advising u & ur there displaying how foolish u are. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Tnycee(m): 1:07pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
lol bro e be like say you dey listen to my call sometimes... Rapmoney: 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Nwocha12(f): 1:11pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
That is not true, everybody with different missions on what u want from ur relationship. Sex is not all u need to be sure that u love ur partner. Trust, faithfulness, understanding and love are the fundation of what I call mature and serious relationship. I am 101 percent in a distance relationship and is working out PERFECTLY. u just need to find the right person and let God do the rest, that is what we did. Though making plans already and please guys pray for us for successful celebration. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by vekanem(m): 1:17pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Tell them OP, Was serving some years ago and i met someone that was in a relationship, the bf will be calling and be professing love all the time at the same time nagging at every little thing. i just jejely put on my caring and loving skills and was doing the needful. You understand shey!!! My point is, its a no for me when it comes to distant relationship ,From experience , i wouldnt advise one, but if you feel you can handle it, good for you. i have lost 2 gf all in the name of distant relationship. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by tope221: 1:20pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
sirmmykay: Irrrrrrraaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnuuuuuuuuuu...............Abbbaaaaaaacccccccccchhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaa! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by drexx(m): 1:23pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
I stay in Benin, my girlfriend stays in uyo and we have been dating for three years plus now.....i met her a virgin and she still remians a virgin till now.....the love has not reduced a bit........even when I was not forthcoming, she held out and kept the relationship......one thing keeping her is the fact that she is so focused on her books,nothing interests her for now....you know a virgin when you are with one.....so no doubts |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 1:28pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
IamforGod:I wasn't rude to anyone o! Am a cool and humble dude. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by Rapmoney(m): 1:30pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
Tnycee:Lol bro! I nor sey listen to una conversation o! |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Guys Trying To Maintain Distant Relationships by drexx(m): 1:31pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
aktem:one of my hostel mates was dating a guy five buildings from my hostel but she would still come and have sex with me..........one day she was sick and the guy visited her in my hostel and couldnt go that night, she still sneaked out of her room to still come and collect......just buttressing your point that who would cheat would cheat |
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