1. You go overboard with gifts
Unless you are in a steady relationship with a woman, it is better to avoid lavishing extravagant gifts on her - especially on the first few dates. If you turn up with a gift-wrapped diamond brooch or an exotic arrangement of orchids for her when you barely know each other, more likely than not she will be embarrassed at your over-the-top gestures. At worst, she is likely to get suspicious of your real intentions and feel that you are trying to buy her affections. Even if she is the kind of girl who can be hooked only by attractive gifts, consider if this is the right reason you want to have a partner for. So keep it subtle on the first few dates and let your gifts convey your thoughts for the person rather than be an excuse to show off your finances.


2. You come off as desperate
At the other extreme of unattractive male behavior is a desperate attempt to make a girl like you. You probably have been told that women are looking for guys who are sensitive, responsible, financially responsible and with a sense of humor too. However parroting these lines before her and repeating ad infinitum about the times you agreed to babysit your nephew or take the stray cat to the vet will hardly convince a woman to be your girlfriend. Rather she will suspect that you are trying too hard to win her and this will put her off. Instead focus on expressing your qualities through actions; also women are more wired to emotions, therefore it is how you act and make her feel that will determine her interest in you.


3. You are too nice a guy
Sometimes men despite being supportive and giving in a relationship find it difficult to keep a girlfriend – if you are one of these, probably you are being too nice and letting yourself being taken for granted. In order to get a woman to like you, it is not necessary that you turn yourself into a doormat and accommodate all her wishes. If she wants to fix up a date at an hour’s notice and you have an important meeting fixed for the evening, by all means tell her that you are unavailable. At the end of the day what a woman is really looking for is a guy who she can respect and admire and if you constantly put her needs ahead of yours, you will come off as unimportant and hence forgettable.


4. Getting too close too quickly
Women on the whole like to be sure of a guy before getting intimate with him. So one of the most common reasons why they reject a guy as a potential partner is because he tries to get physical with a girl before she has given a hint that she would like him to do so. Brushing past against a girl repeatedly, groping for her waist/hand, or kissing on the mouth without being invited to, are common goof-ups by men who think that they will come off as being sexy and desirable if they try to get physical with their partners. In fact they merely come off as annoying and desperate.



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Does it apply to why I do not have a boyfriend?

Having in mind not to get a girl friend yet!

5. Just don't wana have one.

LifeIsGuhd:
Does it apply to why I do not have a boyfriend?

Read it backward, it will apply.



























































You don't have a b.f cos u r after money.

Check her latest thread.

My girlfriend school abroad while I school here

op I dnt do any of those stuffs you mentioned above but am still single

delectablegyal:



Read it backward, it will apply.



























































You don't have a b.f cos u r after money.

Check her latest thread.

Alright I will do just that

Btw... you call that latest? do you even have a calendar?

If perhaps you opened the thread you would know it's just a thread in response to some other thread created and that doesn't show my personal view on it

However! I will still stick to your advice

Not Confidence Enough/Having low self-esteem

Women who overlook physical appearance are hard to come by

I dnt hv any of those traits d op listed above bt am stil single
btw am kind of nice thouqh

I don't agree, cos am a victim and those are not the cause

LifeIsGuhd:
Does it apply to why I do not have a boyfriend?

lol

xtervaganza:
lol

LifeIsGuhd:
Does it apply to why I do not have a boyfriend?

. U dont v a boy friend?

Probably cos am not done being a player, or shud I say am used to playa playa kind of life, making it hard 2 kip a gal, and I think I nid God's help. pls don't gerrit twisted!

goldengunman:
. U dont v a boy friend?

Yes

They become unattractive after sex.

I don't have a girlfriend because I'm not into girls. I prefer mature women, not these indomie slurping bimbos strutting our streets

LifeIsGuhd:

Yes

i have some guys that needs gf, u can apply, wait o, what's ur selling point

LifeIsGuhd:
Does it apply to why I do not have a boyfriend?

Dats nt true if yr profile pix is true

delectablegyal:
1. You go overboard with gifts
Unless you are in a steady relationship with a woman, it is better to avoid lavishing extravagant gifts on her - especially on the first few dates. If you turn up with a gift-wrapped diamond brooch or an exotic arrangement of orchids for her when you barely know each other, more likely than not she will be embarrassed at your over-the-top gestures. At worst, she is likely to get suspicious of your real intentions and feel that you are trying to buy her affections. Even if she is the kind of girl who can be hooked only by attractive gifts, consider if this is the right reason you want to have a partner for. So keep it subtle on the first few dates and let your gifts convey your thoughts for the person rather than be an excuse to show off your finances.


2. You come off as desperate
At the other extreme of unattractive male behavior is a desperate attempt to make a girl like you. You probably have been told that women are looking for guys who are sensitive, responsible, financially responsible and with a sense of humor too. However parroting these lines before her and repeating ad infinitum about the times you agreed to babysit your nephew or take the stray cat to the vet will hardly convince a woman to be your girlfriend. Rather she will suspect that you are trying too hard to win her and this will put her off. Instead focus on expressing your qualities through actions; also women are more wired to emotions, therefore it is how you act and make her feel that will determine her interest in you.


3. You are too nice a guy
Sometimes men despite being supportive and giving in a relationship find it difficult to keep a girlfriend – if you are one of these, probably you are being too nice and letting yourself being taken for granted. In order to get a woman to like you, it is not necessary that you turn yourself into a doormat and accommodate all her wishes. If she wants to fix up a date at an hour’s notice and you have an important meeting fixed for the evening, by all means tell her that you are unavailable. At the end of the day what a woman is really looking for is a guy who she can respect and admire and if you constantly put her needs ahead of yours, you will come off as unimportant and hence forgettable.


4. Getting too close too quickly
Women on the whole like to be sure of a guy before getting intimate with him. So one of the most common reasons why they reject a guy as a potential partner is because he tries to get physical with a girl before she has given a hint that she would like him to do so. Brushing past against a girl repeatedly, groping for her waist/hand, or kissing on the mouth without being invited to, are common goof-ups by men who think that they will come off as being sexy and desirable if they try to get physical with their partners. In fact they merely come off as annoying and desperate.



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Number 2 is so ebudox....
desperado lomoyen!

halfrica:


Number 2 is so ebudox....
desperado lomoyen!

Your mention woke me up.. . I'm in panti

a girlfriend mba I have too many girlfriends.

EbuDox:

Your mention woke me up.. . I'm in panti

Here comes a glorified male whoore u welcome!

Continue ur stupidity from whr u stoped nl server missed ur virus nd fungal posts!

halfrica:


Here comes a glorified male whoore u welcome!

Continue ur stupidity from whr u stoped nl server missed ur virus viral nd fungal posts!

Virus and fungi?.. Are you a mycologist?

EbuDox:

Virus and fungi?.. Are you a mycologist?

No m ur latest disaster!

Chai if i was a mycologist i wud av flushed u out from existence !!!!

halfrica:


No m ur latest disaster!

Chai if i was a mycologist i wud av flushed u out from existence !!!!

Do mycologist flush out fungi?.. Prof Wendy Untreiner from Brandon University,Canada doesn't do that.. They only culture fungi

EbuDox:

Do mycologist flush out fungi?.. Prof Wendy Untreiner from Brandon University,Canada doesn't do that.. They only culture fungi

m not dododanwa o! Abeg

Pele ti e o happy for u!
Atleast u manage to kno sumtim sha

halfrica:


Number 2 is so ebudox....
desperado lomoyen!

na why u no gree for the guy?

delectablegyal:



na why u no gree for the guy?

He is fustrating me

halfrica:


He is fustrating me

did u ask him what he sees in u dat is making him go haywire? What was his response?