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A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Djicemob: 9:11pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Forget the talk,a relationship without a little money is a relationship on auto-pilot.Better put,it is like a car without brakes on a high way,sooner or later its gonna run into something and maybe crash! Not taking away the fact that a relationship without some kind of financial backing can/might/will actually work,it is a meagre 3 in 10 cases.Guys,ladies if you are in a relationship and money doesnt play any role in your relationship...marry eachother! Lol.i mean,It dont get no realer than that.Shout out to ya'll. MY REASONS 1.A relationship without money becomes boring In no time it becomes the same old routine,same old visit me i visit you,i love u i love you too,no spontaenity,no craziness,no 'it' factor,no getaways,no 'spoiling' of eachother and for the guys she runs off to a better,badder or a more 'romantic' dude (see number 3) 2.It would lack some certain spice Spice is the spice of a good relationship.Now brethren you'd agree with me that,with a little money you can spice up a relationship to a large extent. 3.You can be romantic with money Guys,Imagine buying surprise tickets to a place your partner loves and always dream about,imagine the look on her face when you make those dreams come true.Priceless right? 4.You are classy and highly tasteful with money Take this analogy for instance,Imagine a situation where your partner have always dreamt of owning a honda crosstour car.Now Imagine coming home one day with something better...say a benz S650,imagine the excitement,love and instant wetness your female partner would sudden feel. Crazy huh? Plus you are seen doing more classier things than the usual. 5.You can take care of your partner with it Your girl wants to buy new clothes you dont come to NL to create a thread on how your GF is a gold-digger,you treat your girl! When its raining and she's stranded somewhere you drive down there to pick her up. 6.Her friends and family love you While this cannot apply in all cases,in some other cases(lol) if you spoil your girl real good and extend the goodies to her friends and family,they are bound to love you and you are the topic on their lips.However you have to be a gentleman and a good guy to increase your chances. 7.You are regarded highly Your girl is proud of you everywhere anytime and people see you as a 'somebody' too (Gbagaun? I know) 8.You are in the driver's seat You both have some certain kind of control of your relationship.No poverty to drive you some place else atimes. 9.You are confident No exteem issues,you look people in the eyes when rolling with your partner,you are proud of yourselves...if nothing,you look beautiful and handsome with a little finance when flossing in the streets. 10.At the end of day,you can enjoy love. Moral Lessons Notwithstanding there are also many disadavantages when money plays huge parts in a relationship,as a matter of fact,i think there's no way you can fully ascertain the genuineness of a relationship with money or lots of it involved but... damn it! you are better off with it...some of it atleast,it comes in handy sometimes. Lets all be inspired to work hard.Guys,have your girl ever been 'stolen' from you cos of this darn thing called money? Now you get the picture! I've had a couple of experiences too but I think Its necessarily not a bad thing but a motivation to redefine yourself and work harder. Cc:lalasticlala 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Beesluv: 9:12pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Summer r/ship |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by INTROVERT(f): 9:12pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Nigeria boys will be like "but I have a bright future nah, even if I don't have money now"..... God bless you OP and like Sandra said if a guy dosent have money to spend on a girl he dosent deserve to kfcu... And for all you nairaland boys above 25 dating 16-21 yo girls and deceiving them for kfcu, your punishment in hell will be special. 3 Likes |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 9:14pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Ok. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 9:17pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
and after all these, she leaves you for another guy. how do you explain that? 1 Like |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Laveda(f): 9:17pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Good one. . . The guys here won't like this 1 Like |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by ClassCaptain(m): 9:18pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Let me go and Think of what to comment .. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by kossyablaze(m): 9:19pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Even the one with money is scam...Watch Flavour ft Phyno and M.I - Wiser 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by misspicy(f): 9:19pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
True talk...op read my mind |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by falconey(m): 9:21pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
INTROVERT: its not our fault, the 22 and above FANNY has lose form and slack. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by GJames(m): 9:23pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
I agree with the OP. This is the reason I have never made any attempt to woo a girl. Money first, girl later. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by otabuko(m): 9:25pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
it's alright...my shawty knows i have a bright future...she still stick with me.........the second poster said such thing...... |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Djicemob: 9:29pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Na this kind things girls like Dont also forget that a guy with lots of money to throw around might also be a potential player or bad person o. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Djicemob: 9:41pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
GJames:Thank you...this is exactly the reason for the thread |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by allytinted: 9:47pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
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Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
OP send me your account number abeg. You deserve small change to add more ingredients to your relationship for this write up. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by yemmit90: 11:07pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Unlike men, Ladies spend alot on themselves and other unnecessary flashy stuffs. Therefore, they will never be happy at where they lacks all these things(even if they pretend to be). Our culture too is not helping the situation. This is what many NL guys that call them gold-diggers fail to understand. |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by ideyhere(f): 11:15pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
More than 2 hours and this thread is still in page 1? Are NL boys on strike If the topic were 'why do ladies like money?' "ladies and guys with car", "only thing girls have to offer is their pussay", etc, they for don carry their mouth run this thread to page 20... 1 Like |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by virginboy1(m): 11:18pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
INDIAN,CANADIAN,TOGOLESE,BENIN,ENGLAND AND USA LADIES ARE SWEET TO DATE, THEY ARE NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY....THEY JUST NEED A MAN. Seriously many Naija babes need to REVAMP The money money mentality |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Wonder what kinda love y'all think money will give you, using money to build a relationship is like the lust you feel after se*x, it's vain and has no depth, so shallow when it's no longer coming u realize you only had a companion who was there to help you waste the money..... OP, if at all you really want a girl to love you, money should be secondary but not pushed to the background too coz it's important to sustain to an extent, we should be loved for who we are not how many zeros we have.... And all ya hungry girls quickly agreeing with OP, you also should be ready to offer more than just puss* to your man. PEACE# 1 Like |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
I think this is worth making front page. But in my opinion,I'd say it's different strokes 4 different folks. Having more than enough money to spend does not guarantee happiness nd the success ov a relationship. There are so many ways to spice a relationship without d guy necessarily being rich. The attraction counts a lot...there's got to be love and a desire to stick together. There are girls out there who can conveniently put up with an average guy without looking out 4 some rich dude to come whisk her away. There are just certain things fancy outings nd instant luxury do not make up for. Buh,if u're lucky to get a man who's got doz qualities u desire plus money,then that's just some good luck. It's all about individual choices nd preferences. No die-hard rules... I favour prospects,potentials...ambition....Again, I say..different strokes 4 different folks... #Philosopher Quëën# 1 Like |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by virginboy1(m): 11:24pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
GJames: Make money and lavish it on a girl. na wa ooo |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by daxlasaint(m): 11:25pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Am all for love but pls take a minute and picture this; a loving relationship between two people who have virtually zero naira between them... how "Happy and lovefilled " would that relationship be say two months down the line with the brokeness being an ever present cloud over it? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by virginboy1(m): 11:27pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: If only 80% of our girls could reason like you... Nice one Madam |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by ideyhere(f): 11:27pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
philcupid: Did you read the post to the end? |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
daxlasaint:I'm not talking broke here...I said average. What does being broke,in ur definition entail anyway? |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 11:39pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
virginboy1:Fank yhu,virginboy... |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by daxlasaint(m): 11:53pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Ok, average is reasonable ... thought you meant broke... my bad ... as for my definition of broke, hmmn... broke is when your income or available cash is insufficient to cover your NEEDS, much less your WANTS... e.g. my humble self, although I earn what the average nigerian will call a very good salary... after my NEEDS, am almost always broke (at least. By the standard of how buoyant someone on my salary is supposed to be)... |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by daxlasaint(m): 11:57pm On Oct 22, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: BTW best relationship I ever had was during the yrs my cash flow was substancially lower than it is now... 4 yrs of bliss but in the end I would be lying to myself if I say we wouldn't still be together and maybe married even ... if I had more money back then ( money ALWAYS counts) |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by rudebouy: 12:10am On Oct 23, 2015 |
OP, so therefore dose dont have money can go and die, abi? |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by rapmike(m): 12:33am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Won't agree totally with this, there are times when money presence or absence complicates things. For example if a lady abandons a guy because of money(or lack of it) and then 5 years from now the guy becomes rich nko? Makes no sense. But then if you are broke (as a guy or lady), relationship is not for you, at least take care of yourself and gather small. 1 Like |
Re: A Relationship Without Money Is A Relationship On Auto-pilot by Nobody: 12:45am On Oct 23, 2015 |
daxlasaint:Perfect definition... 2 Likes 1 Share |
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