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Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by smartigo: 11:06am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Setaje: truly, u no well. (pun not intended) 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by swaggprofessor(m): 11:11am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn:u r taking a stance and abiding to it bt yet u expect the ther to shift grounds abi?. continue to y your cry......... |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by anpaf: 11:11am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Religion is the greatest evil brought upon mankind by mankind himself. Even the Christians can't agree on the same version of their god. I have similar experience. Mine was that my Christian girlfriend left because I am atheist. She prefers dating her parish priest and his cook to dating a nonbelievers like. 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by modestdude(m): 11:12am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Mekky05:Don't mind the intolerant hypocrites. That's how one came to a Catholic Church One Sunday during Holy Mass and had the guts to be distributing invitation flyers and handbills for one revival programme. He would have smelt a rod if we are radicals and had handled him roughly. Programme your love to die instantly if and when you are non Catholic and meets a STAUNCH Catholic Lady, coz she will not shift grounds. Someone talked about Christian unity and I ask, where was that Unity when all these groups left the fold? They never gave that Unity a Chance and now want the "Victims" to give it a chance during marriage. Some of the reasons Catholics cherish catholic marriages is due to the fact that they seldom collapses. The doctrine stands against Divorce @ every little provocation or irreconcilable differences as we have gotten used to hear. Also with reference to the Passion of Christ, the Catholic faith presents suffering and hard times as part of life and test of faith in God rather than seeing life as a bed full of roses. This helps Catholic marriages a lot to truly stand in poverty and in wealth, in health and in sickness till death really part the union. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by 0coded80: 11:13am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Lawsimon:u can teach me my course. did u think am just talking without evidence. if u nid fact about how church emerge, p.m me, i will post d history 4 u |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Luckygurl(f): 11:19am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Setaje: I don't know why but I found myself LMAO after reading your comment... 4 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Nobody: 11:20am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn,I feel your pain. I am from a staunch catholic home too,only daughter of my parents,from Anambra and a brother who is a seminarian,to be a priest anytime soon. You can ask an Igbo person to know what it means to be an only daughter from Anambra. You are lucky she is from Imo as they don't really attach importance to tribe unlike most of my people (thou most have become flexible these days but it's really hard when you are the only daughter). Despite my parents wish for me to marry a catholic,my mum will always say 'A man who converts to another denomination for a woman is not a real man,that means he is not incharge'. To avoid making my parent's unhappy or marrying the wrong person just to please them or my mum calling my man a mumu,I went down on my knees in prayers,told God what I wanted....You can guess the rest. So my dear,it's really difficult for catholics but in my case,I really wished to remain a catholic. If your girl is willing to convert but scared of her father that doesn't mean she loves you less. Remember what our elders will always tell us that our marriage will not be successful without our parents blessing. That is her fear,I believe. Just Pray! Let God take control. 3 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by RuuDie(m): 11:21am On Oct 24, 2015 |
fammo: Before you marry, she doesn't "belong" to you; after you marry, she does! |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by sashaa(f): 11:23am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn:You write so beautifully. You will find love again 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Setaje(f): 11:24am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Luckygurl: Hehhehehehhe. Am sure its the thought of an igbo man wearing white garment ba? From the look of things, He is not living that church. I would automatically go and buy white garment to. Hiaaaaaaaan |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Drfinn: 11:24am On Oct 24, 2015 |
wagzyl: Dear Wagzy, Thanks for your advice. However, it will amount to an act of betray should I accept the old man's terms. furthermore, I me relay an incident. During one of her visits she had complained of how 'boring' my church service was. She longed to fellowship in the Catholic Church. I obliged on a Sunday. The emptiness I felt that day can't be expressed. Not surprisingly she felt same. That incident got me thinking deeply. You must understand that religion defies logic. You can't be logical and religious on the same plane. I have always seen myself as a liberal Christian. Perhaps, I need search a little deeper. Thanks. 4 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by modestdude(m): 11:25am On Oct 24, 2015 |
[quote author=george4CHRIST post=39306028]If she is truly your wife, she will come back to you. Before I got married my wife was a stunch Catholic while me a pentecostal. But she agreed to follow my own religion. So I believe love conquered everything. I don't think she was a Staunch Catholic bro. No offence meant. Was she a legionary, an altar girl, a Chorister, a Charismatic, a devotee of the Blessed Sacrament, a Lector, the Divine Mercy devotee, Confraternity of the body and blood devotee? Now that's what it means to be a STAUNCH catholic not just being a communicant |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by chee3078: 11:28am On Oct 24, 2015 |
gamaliel121:my goodness |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Mpanyi: 11:29am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Op, it's a pity. Issues with love are very difficult to deal with, at times very difficult to let go. But on the other hand, you love her because she was probably good mannered. One thing you can't take away from many catholic girls is that many of them appear worldly but are really godly at the same time. The church (catholic church) is a mother that inculcates good morals into her children. Have ever you been to confessional to confess your sin and hear the priest chastise or advise you? A good catholic knows he or she can't get this and similar stuff outside catholic. So see reason with her 2 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by DWJOBScom(m): 11:29am On Oct 24, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: i promise never to cross you man you too dangerous man a brother once hurt and found someone who is hurting and called and you came after him! that's deep man ******honestly i agree with you on the brainwashed $$$$$ thank you |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Nobody: 11:34am On Oct 24, 2015 |
collyno1985: No wahala |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by fammo: 11:38am On Oct 24, 2015 |
RuuDie:A woman who can't practice total submission as required b4 marriage will hardly do when you finally are together. This is the problem of many marriages in the world, accepting certain characters and conditions from a spouse before marriage even though you don't like them thinking you can change them when you finally tie the knot. Don't make the mistake of falling for such! The house of unhappiness, strife, quarrels it leads to, where divorce is the next door neighbour....A car dat didn't run 200km/h for you b4 you bought it won't do so after cash exchange hands! cheers |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by joba78: 11:38am On Oct 24, 2015 |
[/quote][quote author=Hannysmilez post=39299249]since you are not a Christian, you can't understand |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by modestdude(m): 11:40am On Oct 24, 2015 |
george4CHRIST:I don't think she was a Staunch Catholic bro. No offence meant. Was she a legionary, an altar girl, a Chorister, a Charismatic, a devotee of the Blessed Sacrament, a Lector, Sacred heart of Jesus and IHM devotee, the Divine Mercy devotee, Block Rosary devotee, Confraternity of the body and blood devotee? Now that's what it means to be a STAUNCH catholic not just being a communicant 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by chinchum(m): 11:41am On Oct 24, 2015 |
I doubt if this shiit happens with Yoruba Christians, the op is from ss and partner from se. Yoruba's have to reasonable extent won the religious divide war talkless of denomination war. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by crackhouse(m): 11:42am On Oct 24, 2015 |
The same happened to my younger sis after the man have spent more than 1year visiting my parents for their approval. The man is Anglican while my sis is catholic, condition was given to him that my sis will continue with his catholic faith and he accepted but before the traditional and white wedding the man converted and was welcomed in the catholic church and he even received holy communion on their wedding day and he is still catholic till date. As u can see it's good for one person to convert so as to live together happily after. it depend on u guys to know who will convert but if u like the girl so much u can convert it's no big deal. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by nasha1(f): 11:43am On Oct 24, 2015 |
miszeno: u are funny.it's the truth,by the time age come knock,nobody go tell am. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Ricswagger: 11:44am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Cutehector: do not be unequally yoked |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Lancier(m): 11:47am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn: Please pick up a copy of Volume 1 of the Grail Message. Read objectively with an open mind and you will get answers to your questions therein. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by jabojafa(m): 11:49am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Pidggin:my dear, a man is d spiritual head of his home. He is d pastor of his huz. How do u expect him to change church? It is d woman dt normally gives up evrytin for d man. Rememba d Op wz given two option to either change to catholic or he wud allow his wife n kids to be goin to catholic church. Bt he chose none. Some ppl wud hv pretended to accept d latter n afta d wedding he wud tell his wife no more catholic church in his huz. 1 Like |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Cutehector(m): 11:50am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Ricswagger:lol let's leave d bible out of this... This is marriage we talkn abt.. U hav someone who u knw u'l be happy living with for the rest of ur life, I dnt see any reason why religion should be a barrier in marryin dat person... |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by nasha1(f): 11:51am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn: You will be fine.I went trough something really hurtful too but i am glad i have moved on.Time will surely heal your wounds. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by rukkyland(m): 11:56am On Oct 24, 2015 |
There will be a lot of surprises on the last day. #people just intentionally sell out their happiness for one religious doctrines proposed by man# #so much confusion in the christiandom# |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by maryhaam(f): 11:59am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Cutehector:now am lost too,i know catholic even thou am a muslim but protestant or what,please explain. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by JuanDeDios: 12:03pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn:Poor folks stuck in the old ways of doing things and carrying religions they don't even understand on their heads. Truth is: no human being owns another human being. Her father has no right to determine the religious affiliation of her adult child or his grandchildren. So if his daughter converts to Islam to or disowns the church he will commit harakiri? Yeye. The younger generation better start putting these old men where they belong. |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by Mcbussy(m): 12:05pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Drfinn: Bro, I beg you in the name of God, do not follow that man's advice... This religion of a thing can be so bias. It is only God that knows His true servants. I am a social worker and I can recall a case where a wife dragged her husband to Counsellors at a ministry. She was Catholic and planning to separate from her husband. She laid all sorts of allegations on this man as her reasons for opting for separation. We had no choice but to send a letter of invitation to her husband. He showed up and said his own part of the story. He was not a Catholic when he married her, but he had to become a Catholic and sign some documents when he married her. After having 3 children years later, he chose to change church and this led to his inlaws' disapproval. His wife's sister who happens to be a nun and some other members of her family plagued the marriage, forcing his wife to agree to separate from him. If I continue all d twists in the story, u'll get tired of reading. So to cut the long story short, the law gave the woman custody of the children because of their young age. The man was only granted access to visit them. It would be like that until the family decides to come back together or if the children are old enuf to decide who they want to live with. My mother was Catholic, my father wasn't, yet they got married without such disputes. I wonder why our generation that ought to be more enlightened, more educated, more rational and logical still allow this extent of religious bias. Love should never come with conditions. 2 Likes |
Re: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by daveP(m): 12:07pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Hmm, the Catholics church and this stance is becoming extremely worrisome and burdensome. So if im no catholic, im an unbeliever? (jots a thing or two) Naijaboiy permit me to use your smiley- 2 Likes |
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