dacovajnr:
Come off it Oga, you don't even know me...and my writeup doesn't depict cruel thought or aggressive tendencies..so baami you need to be watered for you to grow up...

Okies27:
. Have you taught or been with kids from different background?

Oliviaarims:
Lol..fanks.

mikkypel:


Then u tell the child it would be nice if he adds the weed to their soup at home.. Maybe that man's brain will automatically reset

Dyt:

henryhemon:


There are cultures that cannot be changed, I repeat I have never seen where just talking to a child who doesn't even understand a thing works. It only works after disciplining the child,you explain why he/she needed to be spanked.

ClassCaptain:

Pls Check PM.Very important !!!!

Valeree:

OK and other ways to discipline the child can include: making him skip a meal during meal time.
refraining him from playing with other kids during play time.
making him sit alone while in solitary confinement to think about what he has done.
confiscating his toys or play things until further notice.
sending him to bed early before the others.
No presents or sweets for him while u give to others ( nothing makes a child more calm than when he's being treated differently) it works, and more.
somebody also mentioned other ways to discipline a kid on this thread.

Mindfulness:


If parents fail to do their job, teachers won't help these kids by beating them up. The kids, whose parents fail, have been punished enough with such parents.

I am sure you would have achieved the same or better results with your cousin without spanking him. You applied a variety of methods to help him. The way I see it is that your cousin felt genuinely cared for in an appropriate way and this is what helped. You could have left out the spanking, used different disciplining methods, and you would see the child develop nonetheless.

freethinker01:
Hell to the noooo.
Rods are meant for animals n criminals nah.

henryhemon:


Nothing passes the message quicker than canning.

willuu:
i dont think it is right. Children should be respect as adult too. If beat them in public, it would hurt their feeling .I think teacher or parents should do in private when scolding the child.

Valeree:

true, but it wears off during a short period of time if you stop beating them.
when you use strategy, they just grow with it and become better persons as adults.. even behind closed doors.

Mindfulness:


What is your point?

BuddhaPalm:
No!

Maybe a light punishment, but no canes.

If you cane my kid, we go put leg for one trouser...

Okies27:
. My point is you don't know because you have never been there. If parents will do their work,teachers won't need the cane. But nowadays parents leave bulk of the work to teachers. I don't like the cane but it can be properly administered as a deterrent. Do you get the point now? If you still don't then you go need some lashes too....lol

JOOHEL:
A VERY TOUCHING STORY.
A little gal saw a dead cat on the road on her way back from school. She was so sad because she loved cats so she touched it, she touched it again, she touched it and touched it. She paused for a while den she touched it again. She went home to change into new clothes and came back to touch it again.She kept touching.. . As I told u earlier its a touching story.