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Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 5:51pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
[b]Good day all, Have to hide my identity in here, because am a popular poster of encouraging words on this site..Am a Cool guy, graduated 3years ago,currently am an engineer and very established in life, but am Just 29years old...I Met a Lady 2month ago,she is very pretty,good looking and charming..I hide my identity and my background identity toward her, i just appeared to be a simple guy to her just to see if she will like and welcome me just as i am and not what i have in life. It Happens we started dating, but i didnt take her to my house during the 2months we where dating, i always give excuses on that...But a day came i took her to my house, we made love, but i did struggle seriously with her to wear a protection, which i later won over her in doing so...But as time goes by she found out who i was really and from a known source of my little achievement in life, Since then she has been on my neck mounting much pressure on me that if i truly love her i should impregnate her, that she is not asking me yet to marry her..I thought it was a Joke from her, but this threat continues..Today she came out so bold to tell me If i dont impregnate her, then she will know that i dont love her and she will call the relationship off, she will never forgive me in life...This is a lady i just met 2month and a week ago, i just started building my feelings for her, dont even know much about her, her real past life.. now she is seriously demanding me to impregnate her or call off totally the relationship...The truth is i can never bear a child outside wedlock and am not even matured enough to start planning for marriage, i discuss all this to her, but yet my sermon never sank into her..She has Giving me a dead lock from Now till 12midnight either to comply or i call it off officially myself...Pls No insult, your responsible advice and comment will show how matured you are in life.[/b] |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by tellwisdom: 5:55pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
You are a foolish engineer who cant even put words down for people to read without one stretching his eye brow. Buy me beer and i will help you. ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by GbovoLee(m): 5:56pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Wat the poo is "pregnant her" OP.. Well as an engineer u claim to be u should know better that u've stumbled upon a desperate woman..RECEIVE SENSE and do wat is right..its up to u and wat u want 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by babseg(m): 5:57pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks: call it off not a wifey material 3 Likes |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 5:57pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
tellwisdom: Thanks for the insult..it shows your level of iq 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by misspicy(f): 5:57pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
break it off naw,abi ur village witch dey follow you? 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Advice you on what exactly? "Pregnant her" if you want or break it off. The word is IMPREGNATE btw. Just saying. Back to you, POPULAR? ![]() |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Sanmel(f): 6:04pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Hmmmm |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:08pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:. Thanks for your correction..If that's what you can only see there 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by christinie(f): 6:10pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Suggest that you wanna go for a pregnancy/HIV test with her and watch her reaction. 2 Likes |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Shebarh(f): 6:12pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Op wat kind of advice do you want ![]() ![]() |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:13pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
misspicy: Must tell you i did have respect for you in here, but you commenting in such manner just prove that you arent different from other kids in here |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by babseg(m): 6:14pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by joseph1832(m): 6:14pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
OP, can't you even ask yourself simple questions? How come she's pushing for you to impregnate her when she know your standing in life? Why didn't she push for all this when she thought you were just another guy?. Dude, if I were you, I'll say goodbye to her, its a known fact that some girls of today have this taste for guys who are okay to the point that when they see one, getting him to get them pregnant is their number one aim, because even though he doesn't marry them, having a child (1st child) for him means a steady income, especially if the child is a boy, then property comes in handy. 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:15pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
christinie: Thanks much for your wise words, may you be a blessing to your home and generation..the truth is just what if i did that and she pass through the test, what will now be the conclusion..Not just ready to have a baby now outside wedlock |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks: You said it so many times, so yeah, it's pretty much hard to miss. So are you really planning to impregnate this stranger? I can't believe you're conflicted over something so simple. Tell her to take a hike. Who does she think she is dishing up ultimatums about something like this? |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Melahou(m): 6:17pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
i command you to receive sense now...thought engineers where smart tho... ![]() hope you are not water engineer sha 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:17pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
joseph1832: God Bless You bro..You words are reasonable and good |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by misspicy(f): 6:17pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks:sorry ![]() |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by babseg(m): 6:18pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: i think the only advice op needs is to tell his mum. i think his mum would definitely slap him silly and takes him for deliverance |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by delishpot: 6:20pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
You are not too young to start a family if you found the right one but, that girl clearly isnt the one. She lacks self respect and a person without self respect is a ticking time bomb |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:20pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
misspicy: Am sorry for my harsh remarks toward you |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:21pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Melahou: Thanks for your abnormal comment |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Nobody: 6:21pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
![]() a lady ask u to impregnant her because she learnt you are a little above board,is the gurl that dumb ![]() Whatever happen to taking laws into her own hands,mtheeew btw i dnt even believe,my instincts told me you arent what you are claiming to be ![]() |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:22pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
delishpot: I appreciate Your words |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by delishpot: 6:23pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks: Welcome. She wants to snare you for all we know she may be pregnant right now and wants to hang it on your neck. Time is moving fast and she wants to hang it before it starts showing and you will know it aint yours. Be careful with her. |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by POWEROFPEACE(m): 6:24pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Make sure you carry out pregnancy text on are before you do anything with her. She might just be few weeks pregnant for another guy. If she is this desperate Op, then you got to watch your back. |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Nobody: 6:25pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks:your writeup tho,are you sure you are an engineer ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by misspicy(f): 6:25pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks:its okay buh i never said anytyn that deserve that 1 Like |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Abmbanks: 6:26pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
POWEROFPEACE: Thanks so much Brother, People like you are a blessing to this present day Generation.. |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by Nobody: 6:28pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Abmbanks:ntin is abnormal abt his comment. |
Re: Matured Advices Only Please by AfroKnight: 6:29pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
My friend delete that babe fast. Which kind mami water babe dey force guy to give am belle? Very suspicious. |
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