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Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 7:36pm On Oct 27, 2015
Hi fam,i am 20yrs old and i must say that since i took charge of maself,i have never asked a girl out talk more of datin.
Why?maybe because i am more of an introvert or i fear a heartbreak which i heard girls are often the cause.#wait,thats what i heard oo...Left to me,i would never break a heart if i eventually get hold of one.
And yes,i decided to take a walk and capture this feeling everyone`s been talking about which i have never had.
How do i notice an honest or maybe good girl and what are the pros and cons of being in a relationship?
Please fam,take it easy with me as i just bade goodbye to depression recently......
NOTE..i know guys would say think about your future first,but i just want to know how it feels even if it just momentarily..Please all your comments are highly appreciated..
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by tbagjames(m): 7:39pm On Oct 27, 2015
Hmm....typing.
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by vizkiz: 7:39pm On Oct 27, 2015
love is a beautiful thing but It can also be the end of you when you get heartbroken. Let me call in a professional in this aspect
Cc: punkyveer tongue
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 7:41pm On Oct 27, 2015
Wetin you want make i talk now?
Abi na for my mouth you want hear say e don tey wey nyash dey back?

Just get your own girlfriend and your own experience cos everybody experience dey different...
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by agarawu23(m): 7:43pm On Oct 27, 2015
loftuscheek:
Hi fam,i am 20yrs old and i must say that since i took charge of maself,i have never asked a girl out talk more of datin.
Why?maybe because i am more of an introvert or i fear a heartbreak which i heard girls are often the cause.#wait,thats what i heard oo...Left to me,i would never break a heart if i eventually get hold of one.
And yes,i decided to take a walk and capture this feeling everyone`s been talking about which i have never had.
How do i notice an honest or maybe good girl and what are the pros and cons of being in a relationship?
Please fam,take it easy with me as i just bade goodbye to depression recently......
NOTE..i know guys would say think about your future first,but i just want to know how it feels even if it just momentarily..Please all your comments are highly appreciated..
try one first and start having experience because you can't graduate if you want to study our nowadays babes
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 27, 2015
vizkiz:
love is a beautiful thing but It can also be the end of you when you get heartbroken. Let me call in a professional in this aspect
Cc: punkyveer tongue



tongue
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by 14teenK: 7:55pm On Oct 27, 2015
OP...WELCOME cheesy
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by vizkiz: 7:57pm On Oct 27, 2015
PunkyVeer:



tongue

I didn't mention you to show us your tongue. Advice this young man joor grin
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by brandonobi(m): 8:13pm On Oct 27, 2015
searching 4 love at 20, y does it seem like there are more important things 4 u to focus on
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Ray360: 8:15pm On Oct 27, 2015
dear OP, At 20, There are better issues of life you should focus on rather than delving from one relationship to another. Nevertheless, If you chose to toss the romantic dice, be sure of what you want. Firstly, define what you want. what are the basic qualities you want your ideal woman to possess? assess yourself and be objective and pragmatic enough to define your weaknesses and strengths. true love grows when you see your weaknesses as strengths in another. Relationships these days has been bastardized and pathetically narrowed to a hedonistic game boys and girls play just for fun. are you in the first flight of guys who champion the spoilt mentality of fantasies? If you just want a girl that's slim, tall, fair, dark, E.t.C then you are not ready. Good luck!

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Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 8:19pm On Oct 27, 2015
agarawu23:
try one first and start having experience because you can't graduate if you want to study our nowadays babes
truly true...and like recently,i was having a convo with a female and she started talkin about her relationship and how shes jz dere for the money the guy gives her..that she dosnt mind him dating more than five girls..that lines really killed ma spirit..
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 27, 2015
brandonobi:
searching 4 love at 20, y does it seem like there are more important things 4 u to focus on
Bro i never felt one before...wanna know how it feels..
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Eniqurl(f): 8:21pm On Oct 27, 2015
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Dopeyomi(m): 8:27pm On Oct 27, 2015
niqqa I've been in this ur state before.. been shy will definitely make u stay off relationship coz you wunt have the courage to go After the opposite sex..


buh be real and be a Nice nd gentle guy.. soon ladies will come After u.. but not directly at times they do irrelevant things to get ur attention... at times they become very Nice to u through the way they act towards u.. and when ever u see the green light on, bro no dull am at all follow the babe yarn sharp sharp and u will know how it feels like to be dating..

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Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by brandonobi(m): 8:27pm On Oct 27, 2015
loftuscheek:

Bro i never felt one before...wanna know how it feels..
don't want to sound rash but anything u would find will be nothing but a fling, hardly wat u wld call love
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by brandonobi(m): 8:30pm On Oct 27, 2015
loftuscheek:

Bro i never felt one before...wanna know how it feels..
wat u would find is a fling, hardly wat u wld call love, the word is overrated
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Fembleez1(m): 8:58pm On Oct 27, 2015
Make I just read comments sha cool
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 27, 2015
Dopeyomi:
niqqa I've been in this ur state before.. been shy will definitely make u stay off relationship coz you wunt have the courage to go After the opposite sex..


buh be real and be a Nice nd gentle guy.. soon ladies will come After u.. but not directly at times they do irrelevant things to get ur attention... at times they become very Nice to u through the way they act towards u.. and when ever u see the green light on, bro no dull am at all follow the babe yarn sharp sharp and u will know how it feels like to be dating..


i sight u bro...tanks
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 9:06pm On Oct 27, 2015
brandonobi:
wat u would find is a fling, hardly wat u wld call love, the word is overrated
So i had rather stay focus..tanks man
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 9:08pm On Oct 27, 2015
Ray360:
dear OP, At 20, There are better issues of life you should focus on rather than delving from one relationship to another. Nevertheless, If you chose to toss the romantic dice, be sure of what you want. Firstly, define what you want. what are the basic qualities you want your ideal woman to possess? assess yourself and be objective and pragmatic enough to define your weaknesses and strengths. true love grows when you see your weaknesses as strengths in another. Relationships these days has been bastardized and pathetically narrowed to a hedonistic game boys and girls play just for fun. are you in the first flight of guys who champion the spoilt mentality of fantasies? If you just want a girl that's slim, tall, fair, dark, E.t.C then you are not ready. Good luck!
Noted...tanks man
Re: Please Guys,help Me Figure This Out by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 27, 2015
Ray360:
dear OP, At 20, There are better issues of life you should focus on rather than delving from one relationship to another. Nevertheless, If you chose to toss the romantic dice, be sure of what you want. Firstly, define what you want. what are the basic qualities you want your ideal woman to possess? assess yourself and be objective and pragmatic enough to define your weaknesses and strengths. true love grows when you see your weaknesses as strengths in another. Relationships these days has been bastardized and pathetically narrowed to a hedonistic game boys and girls play just for fun. are you in the first flight of guys who champion the spoilt mentality of fantasies? If you just want a girl that's slim, tall, fair, dark, E.t.C then you are not ready. Good luck!
Noted...tanks man..your big grammars tho

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