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Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by achinaboy(m): 6:00pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
DReaper:low self esteem is what am smelling,,it could havebeen a problem,if what you saw was man to man ssshit,but that is not the case,so give him a break |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
OP, You claim You love him but Does he Love You If he loves, He won't be doing those funny stuffs. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
achinaboy: I dont like putting my relationship details in limelight but I need people's serious opinions as I don't want anything to cloud my sense of judgement. what I saw was really not good. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by achinaboy(m): 8:16pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
DReaper:ok me as an adult have to make up my mind now and give an advice,,if what u saw, is,was, ppporn about man and woman, or flirting towards women,or secret date with woman married or single ,sister,,that is way of life for most single or married,not a big deal,although it could be in some cases, but with time,thing could be better,,again you may be too young to be so worried about men and there tricks,,S000000,, as a prophet, if what you saw is or was anything concerning ggay porn site,.dating site, flirting site,,or anything cocerning child pporn site,,,,sister me,,,dump dump this guy this night, and that is the only advice you need. 1 Like |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 9:19pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
vizkiz: we are thinking of marriage not play thing so why the privacy. 1 Like |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by 4everGrand(m): 9:52pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
DReaper: U have fallen in love, its very obvious and its a shame. If u were walking in love, u woulda known that this relationship is not what you should be in for more than u have been. Look at urself thinking about marriage, contunu ehn. My 2cents, gerrrout of this thing u call a relationship cos its not looking good. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by 2sex(m): 1:44am On Oct 29, 2015 |
4everGrand:the OP will definitely not respond to post like yours. She only respond to those that are in with her thought... |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by xtervaganza(m): 8:04am On Oct 29, 2015 |
F what you posted here I believe he loves you I used to be like that but I later changed. It's a gradual thing |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Squad4(m): 9:08am On Oct 29, 2015 |
2sex: Listen, if a couple cannot agree on a thing, it better left to be. If she holds the view that she has to have a right to my account and i don't share that view then it has to remain the way it is. I do not have any desire whatsoever to snoop through her accounts, why? Because that's her personal space even though we are dating. I really struggle to wrap my head round your reasoning, no matter what you feel or think the issue here lies with the OP requesting for access to another man's property. Would you give your GF the keys to your 2012 BMW just because you are now together? Would you give up watching football because she likes telemundo? There are things that would never change and girls have to understand this; if he is with you that means he wants to be with you, if you don't like him enough the way he is then quit the relationship, its not do or die! |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Squad4(m): 9:10am On Oct 29, 2015 |
DReaper: You went looking, you found something! Why don't you quit, because that the only thing you can change, you cant change him and its only going to continue. Take a decision, quit pussyfooting around! |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
2sex: it's not true. I will leave if it doesnt work out. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 8:42pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Squad4: we are not just dating. we are courting. we are thinking of marriage. this thing didn't just start, a dirty message started it. pls If you were me, what would you do. put yourself on reverse, not like a guy, like a girl. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by 2sex(m): 9:08pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
DReaper:Okay. You don't deserve to be disregarded and never let anyone have a chance at that. 1 Like |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by 2sex(m): 9:12pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
DReaper:leave that guy with his ideology. People like him promote promiscuity because they are not clean and in the end they breed all manner of events in their home. Why should you marry someone who can't be committed to just you? There too many problems to tackle in life and that I can't be bothered about chasing another woman and for what? |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 9:16pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
xtervaganza: I want him to change. but how do I know when he has changed. sometimes I feel he has but something else pops up that is less messy and like you said it gradual and it takes a long time for something else to come up. how do I get to know when he is clean. i felt I should ask him for the passwords, not that I would be doing a regular checkup but I don't want any secrets between us because I know he doesnt want that too but he keeps doing things like this. I don't even know how it sounds saying it. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by xtervaganza(m): 11:15pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
DReaper:i understand how you feel. It's kinda frustrating but something in me tells me he will change. And I don't think you should ask for his password else he will become too smart for you to catch him. What my miss did then was to check my phone whenever I dropped it. She would check it and not get angry, it might be up to a week before I know. One thing she did was to show I wrong I was with love. I woke up one day and felt making her sad is not worth it 1 Like |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Nobody: 12:46am On Oct 30, 2015 |
xtervaganza: I kinda of did that but he made it into a huge deal and said I was snooping when he was not looking. and it got me thinking I should ask him for the phone when we are together, maybe once in a while but I haven't tried it yet. |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Squad4(m): 8:35am On Oct 30, 2015 |
DReaper: You are still going round this matter! He cheats with chats, or with phone calls and probably/possibly is sleeping around...the problem is not you checking his chats or he actually doing the things you suspect, the problem is that you don't trust him and baby trust me you can never trust him ever; because he will not change. Make a call now...quit or accept it all and go ahead. People are more likely to remain the same than change! |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by emma4foli: 9:10am On Oct 30, 2015 |
@OP, I think men need privacy to an extent.... I detest it also when my bae constantly check my phone even when I know she won't find anything.... BT u didn't specify d kind of dirty things.. is he a scammer?? fraudster? cheat.... b explicit enough when seeking advice.... |
Re: The Secrecy Is Killing But I Love Him. by Abiababe(f): 10:05am On Nov 04, 2015 |
My dear, all these are signs he's not for you. If u get married to him, it would be worse, currently am in the same situation, i felt he will change since hes settled but its worse, i pray everyday not to contact any disease and I can't get out, I have to leave with it. |
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