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IamLEGEND1:
only if her mother has taught her one or two skills.

but e be like say I don watch diz film...

Sins of the Mother- starring Jim Iyke, Tonto Dike, Patience Uzwokor

JustTara:
Sarcasm or for real?

falconey:
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falconey:

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Estharfabian:
why do you Quote yourself?

falconey:

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Jollyjoy:
Inasmuch as i will accept that a child should not be purnish for the parent sins i dnt think the child will be different especially in behavioural areas and moral values...


Op i dnt think all will go well considering what the father in law revelation entails,.

Something might happen it the future and the inlaw might be like i knew it,she has aborted all the children in her womb,or i knew it,she is a very immoral lady without proper upbringing,things like this can escalate into bigger issues...


But if they guy trust the lady and somehw feel she is different frm her mum,what is he waiting for?

PunkyVeer:


I went to school with this girl whose mom drank so much. It embarrassed her that her mom was always drunk to the point where I think she subconsciously vowed never to be like her mom. Indeed she turned out different, because she's now married to a pastor & is very religious. So sometimes having bad parents is a good wake up call for the children, to never go down the same path their parents took.

Jollyjoy:
you will agree with me that the adge like mother like daughter is to some extent true but that does not mean all daughters are like their mum..


The lady might be different,read my last paragraph but there are children, daughters particularly that are like their mum in terms of moral values while others stand out,it all comes down to who the lady really is from the point of view.

JustTara:
True talk. Some people say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. That might be true but so many people just aren't open minded enough. Later they'll be claiming educated.

Jollyjoy:
you will agree with me that the adge like mother like daughter is to some extent true but that does not mean all daughters are like their mum..


The lady might be different,read my last paragraph but there are children, daughters particularly that are like their mum in terms of moral values while others stand out,it all comes down to who the lady really is from the point of view.

PunkyVeer:


I do agree but there's always an exception to every rule. Bottom line, he thought of marrying her. Meaning, she must have good qualities regardless of where she grew up in.

What I've noticed about people who grew up in dysfunctional households is that they tend to mature earlier than others, because most of them basically raise themselves due to the lack of parental care. They become responsible people. I remember my friend used to return from school & act as a mother to her two younger siblings. She cooked, cleaned...which I think prepared her for adulthood. It's not all bad. Diamonds are dug from dirt after all.

Jollyjoy:
this is not applicable to all since i also have one who is an exact replica of the mum but in behaviour and moral values,

she is involve in so many immoral vices that merely seeing her will give you an inkling of who the mum is..

That does nt mean your point is void tho....

We are all different...

PunkyVeer:


True again. They either follow the parent's footsteps or go the complete opposite direction, hence we shouldn't be so quick to judge this poor girl.

PunkyVeer:


True again. They either follow the parent's footsteps or go the complete opposite direction, hence we shouldn't be so quick to judge this poor girl.

thecollector:



Hey u good yea? I sent u an email. Kindly check

PunkyVeer:


I saw it but my pm thing is not working, sorry. I can't access any messages

thecollector:


Okay could u hit me up here. Wanna ask a few.
Thecollector1111@gmail.com. I'm waiting up

PunkyVeer:


Lol, but I can't compose messages either on my NL account. I've heard other people complain of the same thing as well. Shoot away & ask. I'm waiting too

thecollector:


Lol. Okay don't use nairaland. U got an email righ? Just copy the address and send me a mail from ur email. I wonder what u gonna say now? Lol. U would be extremely smart to get outta this one lol

PunkyVeer:


No, I won't even attempt to worm myself out of this one. You got me! All I have is personal email, but I don't know you, so I can't use that either. What's so private that you can't ask me here? I'm afraid it'll have to wait until my NL email situation is sorted out.

thecollector:


Okay. Just wanted to avoid the prying eyes of the cyber bullies out there and I understand ur position as well. It's okay. Ur cool