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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by lastpage: 7:20pm On Oct 31, 2015

sihom:

Hey, that was harsh and severely unfair to my gender.

Present day Naija makes it extremely hard for only one spouse or parent to handle all the expenses and bills that come with raising a family so women have to go out to work.

You just reminded of an argument I once had with my brother in law. When I was at University some cultists were expelled from my school one of them was a family friend (Tony)

My brother in law kept blaming Tony's parents insisting that Tony ended up the way he did because his parents didn't train/raise him well. Meanwhile he never lived with this family for one day to know this and had no basis for his assertions.

I asked my BIL if Tony's parents were supposed to leave their place of work, put their lives on hold and camp with us in school (on campus) just to monitor & supervise Tony.

My point - Parents do their best for their children but they can't be every where all the time or be with their children all the time. Only the Blessed Trinity can do that.

We live in an evil world sometimes misfortunes befall us and children suffer in the process and they suffer not necessarily because parents are negligent but because there are folks with twisted & evil minds.

I know parents do their best because I have nephews & nieces and I am like a LIONESS when it comes to them cos they are my blood, so imagine what lengths I would go to if I carry a foetus in my womb for nine months and successfully birth it.

Lioness will not even be a fit & proper description for me regarding the scenario above (if I have a child) Please cut parents some slack especially we women.

If we don't work to support you, you call us lazy with a sense of entitlement. We work to support you and we are called arrogant, idiotic, career women. Haba

Most of the things you wrote are correct but as a parent of grown-up children ...... who by the grace of God are turning out to be a blessing to me and my wifey,... l want to posit that "Proper training does not start at the level Tony was (Under-Graduate!)!
As a matter of fact, your "character and values/morals" are 90% formed by the age of 16yrs.

The time to start training your children "properly" is from a very early age where you impact VALUES, MORALS AND THE LOVE OF GOD ( note: l did not say "FEAR" wink

into their hearts.
Follow-up by leading an exemplary life in their presence as well because children "copy" more, that "listen" more.... to their parents!
You just have to practice what you preach if you want them to take is as their character.

Even the Bible said "Train your child, and he will give you rest...in your old age"!

What l have seen is that most parents neglect the most important "formative years" of their children.... only to come back later when they have made all the money they want, to try to "buy character, values and morals".... with money, for their children.
It just doesn't work.

Once the "foundation is good", all you need is just "maintenance", to keep the building looking good for a long time.
But if the foundation is bad, ..its a lost cause because you can only take a Camel to the river, you cant force it to drink!
An adult child does not really listen that much.
(Relate this to a child and you will know what l mean).

I also think Fathers have the "majority of the work/role to play" and wish some mothers will understand that they can halve their trouble/effort, ...if they allow their husband to do the "extra work" but what with the level of "Single Mothers" nowadays, that seems impossible!

If were both parents are together, its still a 'struggle' , not to mention where the child has no father-figure.

It is also important that a child has someone he looks up to, better his/her parent.

God help our children.

Lastpage

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by 4nobody4every1: 7:25pm On Oct 31, 2015

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by chaziroh(m): 7:27pm On Oct 31, 2015

Who knows how long this has been going on. God help us

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by kinibigdeal(m): 7:27pm On Oct 31, 2015

edwife:
Very terrible and disgusting,jeez!

I hope after the person behind the camera finished filming her,they dealt with her accordingly.

I hate nannies,never had one.

It is well

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Pidggin(f): 7:28pm On Oct 31, 2015

I just watched the video, am in shock. The Nanny should be imprisoned for years. She has destroyed that little girl's life, so sad. I wonder why ignorant people are blaming career women for this. The Nanny didn't have sex with the child inside her house, she had it outside the house, meaning she knew it wasn't safe for her to do it there. You can't imprison a child at home, neither can you be with a child 24/7 if you want the child to be normal. The Nanny could also be a next door neighbor, a friend's older child, or anyone else you trust. Parents can try, but there's only so much they can do.

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by ekemini606: 7:29pm On Oct 31, 2015

I speak to all career women. This is all your fault. You no longer know your place in society. All you crave is to be equal with men_ as if its some kind of competition.

Your career now comes first before your children. What a shame!

This money is has been overrated for no reason. Many now believe that all I have to do is make money and send my child to a good private school. The school can't do it all. The family has a role to play in all of this.

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Beremx(f): 7:29pm On Oct 31, 2015

Video please!

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Allosaurus: 7:32pm On Oct 31, 2015

I don't think there's anything wrong here. She was only trying to feed the little girl with brea.st milk since the mother's own is flat cool

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by yomi007k(m): 7:32pm On Oct 31, 2015

Dyt:
I just saw the vid
That house help is evil

I am a career woman
I drop my son off in the morning
And makes sure we see, talk, play gist laugh every evening

Some people are just devilish
I will surely almost murder someone

Madam abeg nor murder person ooo...

Dem go say u use am do blood money ni oo...

...May ur enemies not tempt u.

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by tsdarkside(m): 7:33pm On Oct 31, 2015

IndianaJay:
This one was probably abused as a child then went ahead to start abusing other children.

hmmm........its the truth...you molest a child at young age,the child will grow up to molest other children too...na so this homosexuals and lesbians dey recruit their ranks......

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by mrphysics(m): 7:34pm On Oct 31, 2015

wabuk:
I have d video with me if u needd let me knw

thanks for sharing, mothers need serious parental care sensitization

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by kaboninc(m): 7:35pm On Oct 31, 2015

lastpage:

Most of the things you wrote are correct but as a parent of grown-up children ...... who by the grace of God are turning out to be a blessing to me and my wifey,... l want to posit that "Proper training does not start at the level Tony was (Under-Graduate!)!
As a matter of fact, your "character and values/morals" are 90% formed by the age of 16yrs.

The time to start training your children "properly" is from a very early age where you impact VALUES, MORALS AND THE LOVE OF GOD ( note: l did not say "FEAR" into their hearts.
Follow-up by leading an exemplary life in their presence as well because children "copy" more, that "listen" more.... to their parents!
You just have to practice what you preach if you want them to take is as their character.

Even the Bible said "Train your child, and he will give you rest...in your old age"!

What l have seen is that most parents neglect the most important "formative years" of their children.... only to come back later when they have made all the money they want, to try to "buy character, values and morals".... with money, for their children.
It just doesn't work.

Once the "foundation is good", all you need is just "maintenance", to keep the building looking good for a long time.
But if the foundation is bad, ..its a lost cause because you can only take a Camel to the river, you cant force it to drink!
An adult child does not really listen that much.
(Relate this to a child and you will know what l mean).

I also think Fathers have the "majority of the work/role to play" and wish some mothers will understand that they can halve their trouble/effort, ...if they allow their husband to do the "extra work" but what with the level of "Single Mothers" nowadays, that seems impossible!

If were both parents are together, its still a 'struggle' , not to mention where the child has no father-figure.

It is also important that a child has someone he looks up to, better his/her parent.

God help our children.

Lastpage

Hmmmm...

Lastpage giving "exemplary counseling"...

I imagine how your kids will feel when they "follow" you on Nairaland!

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Daresh(f): 7:36pm On Oct 31, 2015

ekemini606:
I speak to all career women. This is all your fault. You no longer know your place in society. All you crave is to be equal with men_ as if its some kind of competition.

Your career now comes first before your children. What a shame!

This money is has been overrated for no reason. Many now believe that all I have to do is make money and send my child to a good private school. The school can't do it all. The family has a role to play in all of this.

I don't think you realise the situation we are in right now. The economy is so bad that BOTH parents must work. A friend pays rent, school fees , car bills,how will she do all that sitting at home? Her husband cannot provide for the family so she must sit at home and watch her kids die of hunger? This is 2015, the rules that applied ages ago no longer apply.

FYI women are equal to men in every way. We are even smarter.

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by nattty(m): 7:36pm On Oct 31, 2015

Joel3:
op. can you upload th video on send6.com so we can download.

Bad guy, u 1 use style watch mojo...lol

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Collinsiweadi(m): 7:39pm On Oct 31, 2015

Pls posting dis image in NL land will n't do much here, dis video should be taken to d police even human rights organization. So dis girl doing dis inhuman act b taken away from civilization. Before she spread lesbianism to d younger generation.... D police should trace d video...

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by GBAGAAUN(m): 7:40pm On Oct 31, 2015

This thing happen to me too when I am small. My anti use to give me her toto to lik but I don't like the smell

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Nobody: 7:42pm On Oct 31, 2015

ekemini606:
I speak to all career women. This is all your fault. You no longer know your place in society. All you crave is to be equal with men_ as if its some kind of competition.

Your career now comes first before your children. What a shame!

This money is has been overrated for no reason. Many now believe that all I have to do is make money and send my child to a good private school. The school can't do it all. The family has a role to play in all of this.

There is a simple solution to this, you can stay at home with YOUR children. wink

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Nobody: 7:43pm On Oct 31, 2015

Daresh:

I don't think you realise the situation we are in right now. The economy is so bad that BOTH parents must work. A friend pays rent, school fees , car bills,how will she do all that sitting at home? Her husband cannot provide for the family so she must sit at home and watch her kids die of hunger? This is 2015, the rules that applied ages ago no longer apply.

FYI women are equal to men in every way. We are even smarter.

I offered a solution to his problem. Don't mind him. Such cases with nannies are isolated cases, not the order of the day. There are millions of wonderful nannies out there. People like to generalize. If we go by this logic, we should keep our children away from their fathers, uncles and aunties because there have also been cases where they abused a child.

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by florence15(f): 7:45pm On Oct 31, 2015

Getting outta hands..

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Zico4real(m): 7:46pm On Oct 31, 2015

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by AprokoMan: 7:47pm On Oct 31, 2015

this topic reminds me of firsteva....that ho was probably abused as a child. now she lives on menstrual discharge

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Nobody: 7:48pm On Oct 31, 2015

lilmax:
And when she starts practicing it, then they will come up with "lesbianism is normal and natural "

Nanny? I don't blame her I blame the idiotic mother aka career woman, smh

Absolutely, "lesbianism is normal and natural" to any adult that chooses to live an alternative lifestyle. It has nothing to do with this picture.

Don't blame this rape and molestation on alternative lifestyle and for Gods sake stop making and/or supporting draconic laws that punishes a select group of lawful citizens.

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by whizzyjohn(m): 7:51pm On Oct 31, 2015

Mmmmm imagine at that age

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by AprokoMan: 7:52pm On Oct 31, 2015

missKiffy:
She just want to ruin the life of this little girl

yeah...the same way your aunt ruined your life

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 31, 2015

lastpage:

Most of the things you wrote are correct but as a parent of grown-up children ...... who by the grace of God are turning out to be a blessing to me and my wifey,... l want to posit that "Proper training does not start at the level Tony was (Under-Graduate!)!
As a matter of fact, your "character and values/morals" are 90% formed by the age of 16yrs.

The time to start training your children "properly" is from a very early age where you impact VALUES, MORALS AND THE LOVE OF GOD ( note: l did not say "FEAR" into their hearts.
Follow-up by leading an exemplary life in their presence as well because children "copy" more, that "listen" more.... to their parents!
You just have to practice what you preach if you want them to take is as their character.

Even the Bible said "Train your child, and he will give you rest...in your old age"!

What l have seen is that most parents neglect the most important "formative years" of their children.... only to come back later when they have made all the money they want, to try to "buy character, values and morals".... with money, for their children.
It just doesn't work.

Once the "foundation is good", all you need is just "maintenance", to keep the building looking good for a long time.
But if the foundation is bad, ..its a lost cause because you can only take a Camel to the river, you cant force it to drink!
An adult child does not really listen that much.
(Relate this to a child and you will know what l mean).

I also think Fathers have the "majority of the work/role to play" and wish some mothers will understand that they can halve their trouble/effort, ...if they allow their husband to do the "extra work" but what with the level of "Single Mothers" nowadays, that seems impossible!

If were both parents are together, its still a 'struggle' , not to mention where the child has no father-figure.

It is also important that a child has someone he looks up to, better his/her parent.

God help our children.

Lastpage

As usual, an excellent post that I can't fault whatsoever. This is as a Father of 5 offsprings, the oldest who is at Stanford University.

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by saasala(m): 7:57pm On Oct 31, 2015

Mindfulness:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXmDWfNafio

Thanks... I watched the video

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Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by justpeehay(m): 7:57pm On Oct 31, 2015

blur...i aint seen shi t. plx what is appun dia tru tru?

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by AprokoMan: 7:58pm On Oct 31, 2015

Pidggin:
I just watched the video, am in shock. The Nanny should be imprisoned for years. She has destroyed that little girl's life, so sad. I wonder why ignorant people are blaming career women for this. The Nanny didn't have sex with the child inside her house, she had it outside the house, meaning she knew it wasn't safe for her to do it there. You can't imprison a child at home, neither can you be with a child 24/7 if you want the child to be normal. The Nanny could also be a next door neighbor, a friend's older child, or anyone else you trust. Parents can try, but there's only so much they can do. The society maketh a child, learn to correct kids, even if there are not yours.

who would imprison the person that abused the nanny? I don't see anything wrong with the pictures as there was no flesh-to-flesh contact...the little nanny was only trying to satisfy her libido and the little girl wasn't aware of what was being done to her. to her, it was a mere cuddle from a loving nanny

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Collinsiweadi(m): 7:58pm On Oct 31, 2015

Looking at d environment were dis act was carried out. I ask myself do d parent of dis child hav d financial power to pay for nanny? .....in Summary is Dat porn video should be band in niaja

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by AprokoMan: 8:00pm On Oct 31, 2015

ekemini606:
I speak to all career women. This is all your fault. You no longer know your place in society. All you crave is to be equal with men_ as if its some kind of competition.

Your career now comes first before your children. What a shame!

This money is has been overrated for no reason. Many now believe that all I have to do is make money and send my child to a good private school. The school can't do it all. The family has a role to play in all of this.

would you rather prefer a housewife who's liable to fvck the next door neighbour when hussy ain't around?

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by Bobopupa: 8:00pm On Oct 31, 2015

@ Motherbee, would be nice to hear ur thoughts on this.

Re: Dear Parents, in whose care have you left your child? Pics! by 9jaflaver: 8:01pm On Oct 31, 2015

Jackeeh please send me the video to my email:- 9jaflaver@gmail.com thanks

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