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How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by ebukaddon: 9:42am On Nov 01, 2015
1)She Stops Caring
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Women are wired to care about the smallest
details about their men and relationships. She
cares how many times you call and whether you
make time for her. She gets angry with you when
you forget those important dates in your
relationship and will make a big fuss about it. So
when your lady stops caring that you didn’t call
and when she doesn’t throw a fit that you forgot
all your special dates, then you have cause to
worry.
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2. Change In Appearance
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When you were dating, your woman went to great
lengths to look amazing for you and consistently
made your heart stop. But after dating for a while
or after marriage it seems that she doesn’t care so
much like before, which is normal. Has your
woman started again dressing a little more
special out of the blue? Does she suddenly seem
to pay extra attention to her appearance while
leaving to meet up her girls, more than when
going out with you? She may be out to impress
and catch the attentions of another man.
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3. Sexier Underwear
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When a woman is involved with someone new,
she often will go out and purchase sexier bras
and panties – because she feels sexier. There is a
pleasure women get in being appreciated as a
sexual being and will behave a little more sexier…
maybe she’s leaving an extra button undone on
her blouse or wearing her hair down instead of
neatly tied up. Maybe she has changed her
perfume (and that could go either way, stronger
to cover the scent of his aftershave or lighter
because he’s not fond of heavy fragrances). She
may also change the way she wears make-up for
similar reasons.
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4. She Just Won’t Commit!
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Most women want a man who is willing to
commit to them for life. They will drop hints if
not directly ask their boyfriend what his plans for
their future are. So if your woman is being dodgy
whenever you bring up the topic of the future of
your relationship, it may be a sign that she’s
cheating on you and has other options to
explore.
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5. No Interest Intimacy
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In a relationship the couple builds on intimacy
by having sex. If there is no more interest or urge
to have sex with you, it is obvious there are
chances of unfaithfulness. These are signs that
she has already engaged in sex with her new
found love.
.
6. Super Busy
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Can you pop by for a visit and maybe take her out
to lunch or dinner without making a formal
arrangement? Is she open and welcoming to such
a pleasant surprise from her man? Or does she
rush you out and postpone your spontaneous
gesture? Now, don’t sell yourself short. Make sure
you test her on this when she should be able to
go out with you. Think hard, is her schedule as
open to you as it used to be? You’ll know your
woman is cheating if she barely ever has time for
you claiming a busy schedule. A woman in love
will move aside a mountain just to spend time
with her man. But if she is constantly making
excuses why she can’t see you or dine with you,
then she is dining someone else.
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7. She will start having secret schedules
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The moment your spouse becomes secretive in
her schedules, it clearly shows that there is
something she is hiding. She could hide here
whereabouts and start having a lot of business
trips that care unexplained. If you find yourself
knowing less about her itinerary, there is reason
to worry.
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8. Increased Privacy
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Is your wife or girlfriend less likely to let you look
at her phone and does she keep it away from
you? Perhaps, she is using the vibrate instead of
the ring and even pressing the ignore option far
more than she used to. Is she giggling about
messages that she doesn’t share with you? Is she
texting more than she ever did before? Is there an
element of privacy she displays over her phone?
There could even be a second phone if the other
relationship is that significant. You can tell your
woman is cheating on you if she insists on
keeping her things private and doesn’t share as
openly as she used to.
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9. Avoiding the questions
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If your wife or girlfriend starts avoiding simple
questions that you ask her, there are high
chances that she is hiding some truth. Avoiding
questions is an obvious indication that she is
looking for a lie. The woman may also act
defensively if you persist with the questions.
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10. Acting defensively
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If your woman is cheating on you she is afraid of
getting caught; she will get defensive and anything
you ask or say to her will be taken as an
accusation. You can know she is cheating if she is
defensive about how she spends her time, who
she spends it with and when she refuses to
answer simple questions.
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11. Spending less time with your family or
friends
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If a woman begins to detach herself from the
family, there are strong signs that she is cheating.
There are also other women who will stop any
close relationship with your friends for fear of
showing off their guilt. The woman may be feeling
guilty and being close to your family or friends is
painful because symptoms of guilt may manifest.
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12. Frequent nagging
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Women who are seeing someone will tend to nag
as they shift away from the normal harmonious
communication. This is the time when a woman
will lash out and pick arguments at the slightest
provocation. It is considered as one of the ways
of justifying her deeds so that the relationship
can look like one that is not working.
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13. Sudden strange friends
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If your woman begins to have mysterious friends
that are taking most of her time, there are high
chances that she is cheating on you. It does not
matter whether it is a friend or a workmate but as
long as she is not willing to disclose more
information, it is a direct telltale sign that she is
cheating. As usual, it does not take a
psychologist’s mind or an expert to know if a
woman is cheating.
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14. She is now independent
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Being independent with you is one of the early
signs that should tell you something is not right.
The woman will want to share less time and
sensitive information with you so that you do not
discover her new ways. In some cases, she may
start using “You and I” instead of ”We” and this
is a clear indication that you are no longer part of
her future plans. These are actions that indicate
the woman no longer needs you in her picture.
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15. Carefully watch her eyes!
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When you are in public, dining, at a bar any
social function. Do you see her eyes darting
about more than usual… is she scanning the
room? If her attention to you seems less intense,
it probably is. Even if her new partner is aware of
you, she will always be “casing” the situation,
always trying to be prepared for the unexpected
encounter… Another sign to look for: You are
sitting across the table from her and the topic of
your feelings for one another comes up. Is she
looking you straight in the eyes hanging on your
every word – or is she looking down or past you
or maybe her gaze is glossy and unfocused. Her
sincerity towards you is in her eyes, especially
when she utters the phrase “I love you.” If she is
not looking you straight in the eye when she says
that, there could be a problem.
These signs are a clear indication that your
woman is cheating on you, or intends to do so. If
there is no cheating, the same signs may be a
suggestion that the relationship is not where it
should be, but don’t get paranoid unless there is
a combination of the above signs that make you
feel like something is wrong.
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Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 01, 2015
Advanced Version Ko, Revised Standard Version Ni angry Mtchweew!!!









Next Joor!!!
Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by falconey(m): 9:45am On Nov 01, 2015
hmmmm she doesn't need to exhibit all, just 2 or 3 would suffice before I dump her myself!
Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by ebukaddon: 9:54am On Nov 01, 2015
rexkexmilan:
Advanced Version Ko, Revised Standard Version Ni angry Mtchweew!!!









Next Joor!!!
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Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 01, 2015
ebukaddon:
ewu hausa joor
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Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 01, 2015
tell something!
Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by vjsmiles: 10:07am On Nov 01, 2015
link to the revised standard version? angry
Re: How To Know She Is Cheating On You (advanced Version) by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 01, 2015
You try sha...


Btw, anyone with a blue cotton tie?

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