4ubootyman:
This is a question for all to ponder on;

Leave all your biases and ur religious justification and let's face the real world we are in. For all my single men never be cajoled to thinking when u get married ur babe will spread that leg d way she does now on request (married men can attest to this).

Before my wife n I got married the issue of sex never came up we were so compatible everytime we wanted we had it. She was even learning to give head and it didnt seem like a problem cos I was willing to teach. Fast forward to now we r married.....hmmmm! The idea of Mouth Gig is a forgone story, she has said her own, she doesn't like it and it's somewhat degrades a lady (oboi my eye open wide, like I have just been scammed) the things I hear now during sex is..."it's hurting", "I'm doin this because of you" "can't you just hold me", "must it be tonight?". I leave the woman as I don't want to seem pushy. Sometimes I talk my way thru, buy gifts n all but when I stay in my closet alone....I just know I have been scammed. What next do I do not to hurt her?

There is a girl down the road, at work, social gathering etc that is liking the guy...and the girl knows I'm married, but just for the spirit of adventure and the small financial gains she throws jab at me, (me wey konji wan finish). I take it up from there...we talk exchange numbers she only has my watsapp contact and shit starts happening. At the end of the day I am satisfied I get home my wife puts up an excuse and it's fine by me and everybody moves on happily.

Don't crucify ursef with what d Lord says "we all know" and ask for his grace. Ladies what do you think about this situation. Married men I know u r all having a situation like this so chill n read. Single men...just pray say this kind thing no hit u cos u can never preempt it.

Jollyjoy:
Hmmm

op what happened to you ironing things with her,am sure she will change,dialogue is very important, if tables were to be turned round am sure you would have file for divorce but if you must cheat then make it private....

What you dnt know cant kill you,remember to use protections sha...

4ubootyman:


Blive me I don't even store their number...just bam and go. Very private ush

classicB:
Some women tend to change after marriage cos they feel like they have arrived, even worse after having kids cos they transfer most love to their kids negleting their husband on his own. I cannot blame you for having a side chick, but pls dnt stop loving your wife and dont ever bring your side chick to your house talkless your matrimonial bed.

pinceprinz:


He owns d house and d bed I feel.

4ubootyman:
This is a question for all to ponder on;

Leave all your biases and ur religious justification and let's face the real world we are in. For all my single men never be cajoled to thinking when u get married ur babe will spread that leg d way she does now on request (married men can attest to this).

Before my wife n I got married the issue of sex never came up we were so compatible everytime we wanted we had it. She was even learning to give head and it didnt seem like a problem cos I was willing to teach. Fast forward to now we r married.....hmmmm! The idea of Mouth Gig is a forgone story, she has said her own, she doesn't like it and it's somewhat degrades a lady (oboi my eye open wide, like I have just been scammed) the things I hear now during sex is..."it's hurting", "I'm doin this because of you" "can't you just hold me", "must it be tonight?". I leave the woman as I don't want to seem pushy. Sometimes I talk my way thru, buy gifts n all but when I stay in my closet alone....I just know I have been scammed. What next do I do not to hurt her?

There is a girl down the road, at work, social gathering etc that is liking the guy...and the girl knows I'm married, but just for the spirit of adventure and the small financial gains she throws jab at me, (me wey konji wan finish). I take it up from there...we talk exchange numbers she only has my watsapp contact and shit starts happening. At the end of the day I am satisfied I get home my wife puts up an excuse and it's fine by me and everybody moves on happily.

Don't crucify ursef with what d Lord says "we all know" and ask for his grace. Ladies what do you think about this situation. Married men I know u r all having a situation like this so chill n read. Single men...just pray say this kind thing no hit u cos u can never preempt it.

missbronze:
Truthfully, to be having constant intimacy is tiring. Is a big task. Even as a gf that goes to her bf's place for the weekend, she will be counting for the weekend to be over. talk more of a wife, whom it is now a duty for her and she must do it.


Any man that wants to side chick, in order to reduce my duty, should feel free. as long as I won't know.


Life is not about intimacy abeg.

4ubootyman:
Married men I know u r all having a situation like this so chill n read. Single men...just pray say this kind thing no hit u cos u can never preempt it.

IamLEGEND1:


what is this one saying

the day women will liberate themselves from this illogical thought process is the day the world Will truly be a better place for everyone.

but you kind of redeemed urself partially by saying he is free to keep a side chick to unburden you...

classicB:

It is no longer a HOUSE, the presence of a wife in a HOUSE makes it a HOME.

missbronze:

My dear, I have said my own. you mustn't like my opinion.

missbronze:

My dear, I have said my own. you mustn't like my opinion.

Joy1706:
I understand where ur coming from. My husband refuses to give head no matter how much I beg and plead. Coming down to the main act now, he has become very lazy in bed, cannot go for long and he doesn't make any effort to change.
There is this new guy that got transferred to my office....a total hunk. My God!!!!! He asked to buy me a drink one day after work. One thing led to another and......*shudders* . The guy can give head for Africa. I ca*e so much I couldn't walk after.

A week after, we went on another date and we did the main deed. Gosh! The guy is hung like a horse and.....*blushes*. Lemme stop here abeg. Can't get enough of him.

I still love my husband. Whenever he feels up to it, we get down. If he doesn't, well, his assistant aka my side guy does the job. Everybody is happy. I don't really feel guilty after all he pushed me to it.

royalpearl80:
@op please thread softly oooo......i believe my man will never have a reason to think of something like this talkless of even attempting it

cooker:
i understand you konji wan finish you married men cheat we all know that do not flaunt cheating in wife's face take care of your wife and children but if your wife cheat please forgive her she is only human like you if you lucky your wife might not cheat praise her if men can take care of their wives it will be difficult for their wives to cheat never flaunt cheating in your wife's face it might backfire one day

Joy1706:
I understand where ur coming from. My husband refuses to give head no matter how much I beg and plead. Coming down to the main act now, he has become very lazy in bed, cannot go for long and he doesn't make any effort to change.
There is this new guy that got transferred to my office....a total hunk. My God!!!!! He asked to buy me a drink one day after work. One thing led to another and......*shudders* . The guy can give head for Africa. I ca*e so much I couldn't walk after.

A week after, we went on another date and we did the main deed. Gosh! The guy is hung like a horse and.....*blushes*. Lemme stop here abeg. Can't get enough of him.

I still love my husband. Whenever he feels up to it, we get down. If he doesn't, well, his assistant aka my side guy does the job. Everybody is happy. I don't really feel guilty after all he pushed me to it.

4ubootyman:


We r in d same predicament. I give head for Africa and my wife don't want non of that. For her to even give that's a nono. It's unfortunate how that guilt just walks away and most times I just knock my sef back. Its dangerous to have just one partner b4 feelings start getting into it.

daretodiffer:


Can I have a side man to help fufill my sexaul fantasy if my husband is incapable? I still love him tough. I can do anything for him