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Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Pidggin(f): 10:48pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Orimili: I tried to help you, but if I don't have an idea of what you say during your dates there's not much I can do. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 11:02pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Pidggin: I mean, its not as if I voice record my dates and phone conversations. My text messages are all "good morning, how are you, I hope you're doing well." And she would reply likewise, of course, until she stops responding. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Pidggin(f): 11:04pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Orimili: Doesn't sound interesting |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 3:04am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Orimili:You need prayers, but you people in western countries have put God in your wardrobes and are living a 'liberated' life. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Nobody: 3:12am On Oct 30, 2015 |
Orimili:wow... So, are you interested in the proposed hookup? 2 Likes |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 6:06pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Pidggin: I don't know what would make me interesting |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by lastchild: 6:24pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Orimili:dude you have a spiritual problem |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by 5minsmadness: 6:56pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Orimili: ![]() |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Pidggin(f): 7:13pm On Oct 30, 2015 |
Orimili: Study people, find out the thing that interest them, talk about those things, tell them about your interests too, ladies like guys with good sense of humor so loosen up. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 11:14pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Pidggin: These are all things I do on a regular basis. She will stop responding eventually, no matter how much she appears to like me. Honestly, I'm not all that interested in dating anymore. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by petiteee(f): 6:50am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Bad breath? Body odour? Is it like dat with female frinds? Do u ve any ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by petiteee(f): 6:56am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Orimili:well if it werew me, I Wud definatly stop replying you. How Wud u send be such msgs almst everyday ![]() |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:55am On Nov 01, 2015 |
Before I continue... Please how old are you? |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by ogawisdom(m): 8:42pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Orimili: Ur problem is simple u act desperate n dt scares them away |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by ogawisdom(m): 8:52pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Orimili: By d way I hope u have a good job, a decent apartment and a good car ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Pidggin(f): 9:41pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Orimili: My apologies, did you notice I stopped responding after a while? You whine a lot dearie, I got bored, I guess this is the problem. You need to make yourself interesting. Hope I was able to help, take care. 2 Likes |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 11:53pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
ogawisdom: I don't act desperate at all |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 11:58pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
Pidggin: But you still replied, and your actions prove nothing but to antagonize even further. Sadly, I've been busy and didn't notice your futile stunts. Unfortunately, it doesn't help at all to throw blanket statements like "make yourself more interesting." Thanks anyway. 1 Like |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 12:01am On Nov 02, 2015 |
petiteee: Absolutely not. I get a lot of complements about my physical appearance and hygiene. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by lastchild: 5:43am On Nov 02, 2015 |
Orimili:do you believe in anything like a spiritual problem? |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by ogawisdom(m): 7:13am On Nov 02, 2015 |
Orimili: Go out and make more female friends at least 7 female frnds n talk to each once a week. After sometime like 3months down d line u can consider dating one of them. Act like u have a girlfriend arnd them and only need them for casual friendship. U give them too much attention and care n dts a turn off for ladies, a consequence of focusing on only one at a time. If u ve 7 or more u wont notice even if three walks away jst make more female frnds n stop being a looser. Am sure even bill gate will get turned down by some ladies so b a man n stop crying over nothing, u can't have every girl u want nobody does but u should at least have three out of ten, anything more than three in ten u r a ladies magnet lol. Again sharpen ur yarns if u kw wat I mean, learn scoping skills ![]() Try 7 or more at a time n thank me later. By d way I hope u ve put ur life together b4 looking for ladies and not some broke ass n never do well kinda dude. If this fails then those old men in ur village are at work with their African magic, go n see TB Joshua ASAP 1 Like |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by petiteee(f): 7:39am On Nov 02, 2015 |
Orimili:y dey come dey run fron u ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 9:25pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
lastchild: Yes, but I have absolutely no idea why it would be... |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by RoyalRoy(m): 6:12am On Nov 03, 2015 |
Orimili: Lol, there is nothing wrong with you. You only need to change your approach and attitude towards these ladies. Maybe you are the pestering type, calling them every minute and hounding their lives with messages. When you cramp a woman's space, she finds the nearest exit away from you. Its not yet a relationship really, so they get scared with your attitude and decide not to continue. Take time off to review what you do or say to them that turns "ALL" of them off. The solution to your problem is you!!!! Wake Up!! |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by lastchild: 3:49pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Orimili:www.nairaland.com/1923768/story-queen-yachikka-spiritual-wife This is the story of my life,create time to read it,if it didn't give you clue of who you are and what's happening to you then you have lost it |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Ama80(f): 4:51pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by iebanehita(m): 12:28am On Nov 07, 2015 |
Orimili: @OP, I believe by now you know humans don't reason alike. What your family and friends didn't see in the conversation that transpired between you and your dates can be pinpointed by someone else, of which Pidggin offered to help but you turned it down. You are guilty of hasty generalisation. From some of your reply, they are actually borne out of frustration. At this point, you have to unlearn all what you know about dating /relationship and relearn. I suggest you try out some advices given here, but this time, be creative about it. 1 Like |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by lastchild: 3:40am On Nov 07, 2015 |
Ama80:meaning? |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 7:29pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
iebanehita: Yes it is frustrating, and I suppose I can do what you are suggesting, but where do I begin? |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 2:48pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Update: I've just lost contact with yet another girl, even as I've tried to take others' advice on this thread. I'm starting to believe there's also a spiritual element to this. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by Orimili(m): 4:55pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
ogawisdom: It is definitely failing. I've already lost contact with another. |
Re: What Could Be Wrong With Me? by winar(m): 6:04pm On Nov 17, 2015 |
Do u live outside Nigeria? |
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