WhoBeThisMan:
I have tried talking to her, it seems like the more I talk the more I arrogant and disrespectful and abusive she becomes

You know what to do, you just need validation. If you're this unhappy during courtship I wonder how marriage will be

A broken relationship, is a million times better than a broken marriage.

hmmm

mitchew naija with fake stories...

yatch360:


Its after u have finished selling the aso Ebi u are seeking for advice...

Go n tell ur friend to come n tell his side of d story.



Becos we can authenticate from u.

Abi u dey dere?

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

i thought its your friends story.

Abiiiii

Seun should look for a way in which some msg will be delete by any body u are in love love dey shark u now APC lie in quote ur friend story and u need advice

WhoBeThisMan:
pls just advice, ignore who owns the story

Ayoemrys:
your own life is worst compare to the girl

Thank you special adviser..

Babamide:
That love sharking u would send u to hell. Pastor warned u and told u there is no going back. You think u can come and start running one month to the wedding? U are joking. Send us time, date and venue; WE WOULD BE THERE.

To do wat? Force him

I no be expert oooo but me thinks rushing into a relationship after a messy one made the love to shark your friend. He didn't go into the relationship with a clear state of mind, prolly wanted to 4get about the ex as soon as possible but biko! I no be expert oooo na my own opinion sha

It's a good thing she's showing her true color now. I do tell people something. For the same sake of love that nearly blinded me, I was thinking the girl I was in love with will love me one day,thank God I regained consciousness and today am a happy man. It bugs me that we didn't end well,but at the same time I know she's gonna remember me for something.
Women are complicated species. But she has shown you her true color even before marriage,dont u think that if you two get married, for the sake of small financial instability, she may f*uck some other guy outside,and even do super worse things than you didn't expect? I mean she's a human being, expect even worse. All I'm saying is you be quiet,dont say anything, just be on the quiet and looking side. If you eventually get fed up with everything,my brother get someone that values you. Marriage isn't something u joke with before u go just die off.

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

if a masquerade promises to dance and then decides not to dance again, no one can arrest or sue him.


decode it

Bongiboy83:
According to my ibibio brothers take mboko... run 4-40!! Marriage cannot be endured in this century. Please don't be afraid to start again. I wasn't afraid to walk away and start again and I am glad I did. Married my booboolicious boo. And I am very happy!

even boobolicious boo marriage sef takes a lot of understanding talkless of this one that looks funny from the start.

@ OP: am sure you already know the answer to your own question. the writing is on the wall for you to see. go buy a good nike running shoes and run for your life.

You said your friends and family advised u and u ignored them. Is it when nairalanders that you don't know, advise u that u will accept?. You know what you want.

pryme:
I had a friend once that has been in a r/ship for 6 yrs but as the days goes by the gal became more and more of a b*tch, yes my friend had his own short comings but the gals own was worse, there was even a time the gal went as far as slapping me friend (that's to show how bad it was), anyway I told my friend to call of the r/ship cos he complains most the time about this gal, her insults, her arrogance, and stubbornness, But my friend said he can't (yes the gal was beautiful - that was one of the reason he could not let go), he said to invest 6yrs in a r/ship is not easy to let go like that.

you won't believe it took the guy 3yrs to call off the r/ship, and this was because the gal traveled to be with her parents for some time.

Today the guy is in love with another gal, not as beautiful as the first one, but this new gal makes the guy laff most of the time, it's like life has just started for him cos there something now in his life that make life worth living.

There was a time he nearly shade tears when he remembers how he nearly end up marrying the other gal. He now sees there are good gals in this world one should not waste his future with one that will only bring unhappiness.

Aha. With this one, the ex and her friends will go round saying the guy dumped her after 9 years of relationship; and summon Karma to dish it cold to the guy.

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

And the love is still sharking you?



A pity your life because you haven't seen anything yet.


Just 1/10 and you're complaining. When She give you 5/10 that one na die be that.



Call off the fuck1ng wedding if you want to see the next 20 years.

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

Na wah oooo. You don enter one Chance

WhoBeThisMan:
pls just advice, ignore who owns the story

Wait till the D day when the Pastor will say "Is there anyone in the congregation bla bla bla....."
Just raise up your hand and refer the Pastor to this thread

BIDEEN:
Marriage is to be enjoyed not to be endured, so do the maths.
My 1naira

Marriage is to be enjoyed and endured,do the maths as well
My 2 Naira.

op there is more to come when you eventually get married. marriage comes with challenges; how do you think she will cope when see face such? you are yet to say 'yes i do' so do the right thing.

OGA you still have opportunity to flee from her now before its too late

You obviously can't stand her behaviour. Please run before it will be too late.

This kind of asking for help is laughable. What you are asking us to do is to advise you if you are to jump inside fire that you can see by yourself with your two eyes. For me, you don't need anybody's advice to jump or not to jump inside a fire. This is not a dicey situation, so you don't need a rocket science to decipher what is needful.

The love still dey shark u,that is why ur asking what to do,even with expenses so far made and card printed can't be quantify to ur family happiness, u have made mistake by not taking advice from family and friends, but u can remedy the situation depending on the pains ur already passing through now by applying the ideas behind the proverb IS BETTER TO BE LATE,THAN BE A LATE.

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

You have to walk away. Yes it may hurt. But you'll love again. Don't think she'the right person for you. There are some things that can be worked out or managed in a relationship- looks, tribe, culinary skills etc but some are real killers. This is a killer.

With ur last sentence I want to deduce that u are not yet man enough to marry how much more d lady in question. This is what nowadays boys face when they defy all sound advice because they sometimes think with that in b/w their loin. Pls back out before u call ur innocent villagers names

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

Call of the woman if you think you can't cope. But remember no woman is Flawless. 80%of women says harsh things, things that they don't mean when they are angry.

First talk to her about how her words hurt you and see her reaction. If she's sorry and apologize, I see no reason why you shouldn't go ahead with the wedding.
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We all make mistakes sometimes and we need other people to correct us!

Ayoemrys:
go ahead and marry her if u realy love her,dnt mind her bad side,we all have weakneses,treat her wit care,am sure she's gonna realize her bad side n change

You do have a point as I believe in the power of love to heal and/or work out stuff in relationships. But I also believe it can only do so much. There are some issues that won't cut it. In fact he may have to sever the relationship for the sake of love. Ever heard of crimes of passion? Prevention is better than cure. Before e go beat am die by mistake due to her bad mouth and attitude.

mumu who com be ur special avicer here

pryme:
I had a friend once that has been in a r/ship for 6 yrs but as the days goes by the gal became more and more of a b*tch, yes my friend had his own short comings but the gals own was worse, there was even a time the gal went as far as slapping me friend (that's to show how bad it was), anyway I told my friend to call of the r/ship cos he complains most the time about this gal, her insults, her arrogance, and stubbornness, But my friend said he can't (yes the gal was beautiful - that was one of the reason he could not let go), he said to invest 6yrs in a r/ship is not easy to let go like that.

you won't believe it took the guy 3yrs to call off the r/ship, and this was because the gal traveled to be with her parents for some time.

Today the guy is in love with another gal, not as beautiful as the first one, but this new gal makes the guy laff most of the time, it's like life has just started for him cos there something now in his life that make life worth living.

There was a time he nearly shade tears when he remembers how he nearly end up marrying the other gal. He now sees there are good gals in this world one should not waste his future with one that will only bring unhappiness.

That your friend resemble you sha! Lol, just messing with you man. Kudos to the guy for having it in him to walk away. These are laudable reasons for walking away, not over some literacy shiit but then I guess its different strokes for different folks.