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Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by mikesinger: 3:53pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
I met Precious (not real name) and we started dating around early April 2015, which was a semester ago in my school. We are both from average backgrounds. All through out the previous semester, she was always at my rented apartment off campus (like couples life ) although she has her own apartment which she shares with her sister. We do everything together; walking to school, eating. playing, enjoying etc. As the guy, i was catering for both of us from my allowances and money i earn from jobs i do for my clients online so i was rarely broke. We didn’t have much, but we had enough. Throughout a whole semester, i never could prove that my girlfriend had a bank account, she never talked about visiting the bank or atm, neither did i ever see any ....... Read more--->>> http://www.mokgist.com/please-advice-me-my-girlfriend-is-wrecking-me/
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Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by LORDDICE(m): 3:55pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by IamLEGEND1: 3:58pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
ping me when dem post the story for here 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by eyeon(m): 4:05pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
A guy too stingy to share a complete post; I doubt can take care of a girlfriend as much as the guy has just said... #MyOpinion |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by libertyfather(m): 4:10pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
eyeon: How do you want him to continue taking care of his girlfriend? You sha read it saying some money he make online, anyway as for me the link is too far, I can't risk it |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by eyeon(m): 4:14pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
libertyfather:So you know this one? |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by CharlyNick: 4:20pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Follow your Instincts........ |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by Tallesty1(m): 4:28pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
I don't want to read more. |
Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by meimoks(f): 4:45pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
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Re: Please Advice Me : My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me by fadjnr(m): 5:08pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Throughout a whole semester, i never
could prove that my girlfriend had a
bank account, she never talked about
visiting the bank or atm, neither did i
ever see any bank sms of any sort on
her phone (I just got to observe, i
wasn’t checking her phone due to
suspicion).
At a point i had to ask her if she
wasn’t a ghost, because she had no
financial record that i could pick upon.
But all these while, she uses money to
do some stuffs, which i didn’t give to
her which made me know that she
receives money.
There was no problem at all until this
semester, when i stopped doing online
works due to my academics, and then
due to the fact that she stays with me,
my allowances no longer have impact on
“our” expenses. Now its always like
whenever i am broke, then she’s broke.
There ain’t no remedy of no sort. The
allowance for one person is been spent
by two, the foodstuff for one person is
been consumed by two and now its like
we are living from hand to mouth.
Although at countable times, she has
brought some bit of foodstuffs from her
house for us, we always remained
broke until i get money. Now whenever
she receives money, she plans it and
pays all manner of church dues,
association due, department and faculty
due, dues for church vest etc. Whereas
when i receive money, i get foodstuffs
and other necessary things we would
need, thereby neglecting my own bills
and “dues”. She even always indulge
me on what to do with the money
because she’s always aware when i get
money but i do not always know about
hers.
Recently i tried confronting her on the
issue, and she was kinda “lackadaisika”,
telling me that i am the guy and its my
responsibility and all that.
Truth be told, i love this girl, but she’s
wrecking me financially (at least for
now), what can i do about it? Is she a
wife material? Say i become fortunate
in future, can i still pick her? Am i
being irresponsible? |
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