Moderator, abeg help me put this for front page.... Mr seun abeg front page

Pls help me nairalanders, I have a big problem.... In details......

There was a lady I dated back in my ND days, we later broke up despite my great love for her... As in i sacrificed so much for this lady.... We broke up in January Cox she said she wanted a break.... But to my surprise that she went back to her ex boyfriend.... Later this year in September, she msg me that she stil love me. But before dt time, we have had a lot of disputes, insulted each other Cox I was hurt..... She said she wanted me back and she is ready to face anytin with me... She said this time, she has come to stay forever... I tod her that I am not interested and we insulted each other again.... 3 days ago, she msg me that she wana come 'n see me.. I agreed, she came yesterday, we reconciled, she askd for me back and I said Yes.. We shud try the relationship again... We had romance session but no sex.. Bcox we dnt want too...... She is now all over me..... But I am a kinda person that fears God, Weneva I commit a little sin, my conscience will never leave me unless I repent from it... I cudnt go to fellowship bcoz I just finished romancing a lady who is not my wife..... Till now, my mind isn't settled conscience is still panel beating me just bcox of 10 or 20 mins romance... Actually am not a Virgin, the first time I had sex in 2012, I hated myself, broke up with that lady Cox my mind neva rested.. Even till now, weneva I remember it, it saddens my heart...... But this lady, actually I tot she was a Virgin Cox we met in church but wen she told me her past, my hand fall and we are both believers . She has had uncountable sex with her first boifrnd that disvirgined her... Same with the second boifrnd, am the only one that hasn't had any tin like sex with her..... Shud I just tell her that am not interested in a reasonable way or keep pretending to love her and keep romancing till we have sexual intercourse till I later break her heart and keep getting bothered by my conscience... Cox I fear God so much... She wants me to b lying that I love her but within me, I no I dnt.. Only infatuation and aim of getting sex.... But am not ready for sex Cox I fear the Almighty... Pls advise me.... Pls front page Cox I am depressed right now.. Shud I continue dating and sinning or tell her the truth....... Christians and Muslims around the world, help me... Thanks

Simple. Forget her.......
If u dont love her as u would love ur youngest sister.........then forget her.

U shall not reunion with her in d first place since u no longer love her. But not withstanding a broken relationship is better 4 u b4 u go far.

Guy! Free the girl jare. Focus on what God has called you to do..not some sex-starved somebody

Zizaboni:
Moderator, abeg help me put this for front page.... Mr seun abeg front page

Pls help me nairalanders, I have a big problem.... In details......

There was a lady I dated back in my ND days, we later broke up despite my great love for her... As in i sacrificed so much for this lady.... We broke up in January Cox she said she wanted a break.... But to my surprise that she went back to her ex boyfriend.... Later this year in September, she msg me that she stil love me. But before dt time, we have had a lot of disputes, insulted each other Cox I was hurt..... She said she wanted me back and she is ready to face anytin with me... She said this time, she has come to stay forever... I tod her that I am not interested and we insulted each other again.... 3 days ago, she msg me that she wana come 'n see me.. I agreed, she came yesterday, we reconciled, she askd for me back and I said Yes.. We shud try the relationship again... We had romance session but no sex.. Bcox we dnt want too...... She is now all over me..... But I am a kinda person that fears God, Weneva I commit a little sin, my conscience will never leave me unless I repent from it... I cudnt go to fellowship bcoz I just finished romancing a lady who is not my wife..... Till now, my mind isn't settled conscience is still panel beating me just bcox of 10 or 20 mins romance... Actually am not a Virgin, the first time I had sex in 2012, I hated myself, broke up with that lady Cox my mind neva rested.. Even till now, weneva I remember it, it saddens my heart...... But this lady, actually I tot she was a Virgin Cox we met in church but wen she told me her past, my hand fall and we are both believers . She has had uncountable sex with her first boifrnd that disvirgined her... Same with the second boifrnd, am the only one that hasn't had any tin like sex with her..... Shud I just tell her that am not interested in a reasonable way or keep pretending to love her and keep romancing till we have sexual intercourse till I later break her heart and keep getting bothered by my conscience... Cox I fear God so much... She wants me to b lying that I love her but within me, I no I dnt.. Only infatuation and aim of getting sex.... But am not ready for sex Cox I fear the Almighty... Pls advise me.... Pls front page Cox I am depressed right now.. Shud I continue dating and sinning or tell her the truth....... Christians and Muslims around the world, help me... Thanks

When was the last time you had a proper kip?

'Cos you sound like you desperately need one, mate.

new twitter @cocoboy1738 .. Pls follow me

This love people just come here and post rubbish!

Asking disgusting and exasperating Stoopid questions.

Guy, go and die

tjark1:
This love people just come here and post rubbish!

Asking disgusting and exasperating Stoopid questions.

Guy, go and die

that's harsh...

tjark1:
This love people just come here and post rubbish!

Asking disgusting and exasperating Stoopid questions.

Guy, go and die

U die first.....

Just mark register and move on.


An innocent man will pick her up later till death do them apart. That's the trend across board.

@Zizaboni

You should NOT fear God. God loves you no matter what and you should love God. Does it not feel better to love God instead of fearing God?
Re-set your mind. God is good, fear is not.

S.ex is beautiful, joy, pleasure, intimacy, alignment, fun. Se.x is not dirty and it is not a sin.
Since you are quite young and not married it is better to be careful. You don't want to get anyone pregnant before it is time and you do not want to get any infections so I am in total support of you waiting but not because it is a sin or dirty but because you need to be mature enough to handle the responsibilities that may come along with it.

You don't have to end the relationship for this reason. Talk to the girl about it and if you two are compatible you can be together without sleeping with each other.

But most importantly, re-set your mind. God loves you endlessly so forget the crap you were taught that you have to fear him - it is much better this way and it will help you.

Acidosis:
Just mark register and move on.


An innocent man will pick her up later till death do them apart. That's the trend across board.

hmmmmmmmm

Zehner:
hmmmmmmmm

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Acidosis:

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Acidosis:
Just mark registefavor. move on.


An innocent man will pick her up later till death do them apart. That's the trend across board.

@ bold:

Some posters will start wondering why girls see sex as a favor

Innocent if only he did not indulge in such while single.

Zehner:

smh
That's the right thing to do dear

Everyman must strive to have a clean conscience towards God. Beware of young women that strategically sponsored into your life by the devil to derail you. Flee from such. However you must first repent from this that you gave done. Break the relationship and separate yourself from her....God bless you.

bukatyne:


@ bold:

Some posters will start wondering why girls see sex as a favor

Innocent if only he did not indulge in such while single.

Lol,

I've only stated a fact o. Whether or not we comment on this thread, the young man will end up marking that register, and certainly they won't end up together.

Over '90%' of relationships do not end in marriage. We only go to mark register.

Acidosis:


Lol,

I've only stated a fact o. Whether or not we comment on this thread, the young man will end up marking that register, and certainly they won't end up together.

Over '90%' of relationships do not end in marriage. We only go to mark register.

He obviously doesn't

@Zizaboni, you know what to do

boxymccoy:
Everyman must strive to have a clean conscience towards God. Beware of young women that strategically sponsored into your life by the devil to derail you. Flee from such. However you must first repent from this that you gave done. Break the relationship and separate yourself from her....God bless you.

Hmm... Flee from fornication........ Thanks man.... I will sort it out......

Acidosis, am not for register marking... So forget abt that.... I wil mark my wife register.... Bliv me or not..

Watch out for girls with this names bola,Juliet , Linda , blessing , they always keep going back to their EX I think dis should help

Zizaboni:
Moderator, abeg help me put this for front page.... Mr seun abeg front page

Pls help me nairalanders, I have a big problem.... In details......

There was a lady I dated back in my ND days, we later broke up despite my great love for her... As in i sacrificed so much for this lady.... We broke up in January Cox she said she wanted a break.... But to my surprise that she went back to her ex boyfriend.... Later this year in September, she msg me that she stil love me. But before dt time, we have had a lot of disputes, insulted each other Cox I was hurt..... She said she wanted me back and she is ready to face anytin with me... She said this time, she has come to stay forever... I tod her that I am not interested and we insulted each other again.... 3 days ago, she msg me that she wana come 'n see me.. I agreed, she came yesterday, we reconciled, she askd for me back and I said Yes.. We shud try the relationship again... We had romance session but no sex.. Bcox we dnt want too...... She is now all over me..... But I am a kinda person that fears God, Weneva I commit a little sin, my conscience will never leave me unless I repent from it... I cudnt go to fellowship bcoz I just finished romancing a lady who is not my wife..... Till now, my mind isn't settled conscience is still panel beating me just bcox of 10 or 20 mins romance... Actually am not a Virgin, the first time I had sex in 2012, I hated myself, broke up with that lady Cox my mind neva rested.. Even till now, weneva I remember it, it saddens my heart...... But this lady, actually I tot she was a Virgin Cox we met in church but wen she told me her past, my hand fall and we are both believers . She has had uncountable sex with her first boifrnd that disvirgined her... Same with the second boifrnd, am the only one that hasn't had any tin like sex with her..... Shud I just tell her that am not interested in a reasonable way or keep pretending to love her and keep romancing till we have sexual intercourse till I later break her heart and keep getting bothered by my conscience... Cox I fear God so much... She wants me to b lying that I love her but within me, I no I dnt.. Only infatuation and aim of getting sex.... But am not ready for sex Cox I fear the Almighty... Pls advise me.... Pls front page Cox I am depressed right now.. Shud I continue dating and sinning or tell her the truth....... Christians and Muslims around the world, help me... Thanks