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So I don't know why I always feel offended when a stranger, complete stranger feels the need to pay for my lunch, or recharge card. Just because you feel that's what you have to do to get me to talk to you, or listen to you.

I don't know if they feel every girl is ebinna, I never chop..

Today I refused to talk to a man who paid for my lunch, because I really wanted him to know paying for my lunch wouldn't make me any nicer to you. And this is someone I was already being nice to before he even paid for my food. Like that wasn't enough, after eating his lunch, he sat in the parking lot and waited for me to finish eating and I'm sure I stayed 10-15mins after he left, before he drove towards, again just to show off his car...

This happens to me like all the time..

Why do guys think its only when they show off money that girls can take them seriously? Its annoying tbh

Pple like u love assholes

I'm an asshole
Can we meet?

You should have talked to him atleast,you never know when you will come by Bill Gate

naw if guy wey no get moni com try hin luck win u, during d race u go say hin no get money, say na poverty go kill am, now where emeka or bassey wan show off fr u, u go say..u no wan dey cheap to any stranger cus hin pay fr ur lunch, wat do women really want

commitcrime:
Pple like u love assholes
I'm an asshole Can we meet?

lol, she gon be dating shii

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Confused being

pTomz:
lol, she gon be dating shii

I don't date.

I want just 2 things from opp sex

Sex and more sex

commitcrime:


I don't date.

I want just 2 things from opp sex

Sex and more sex

you da man pluck em 1by1

pTomz:
you da man fvck love

Love is expensive
Sex is free/cheap

so if not money, what else will a guy show that'll attract a lady and make her think he's serious?
is it not one of worth that takes a woman and satisfies her needs??


I don't understand you females sef.
If he doesn't have money, "he's irresponsible and broke and so he can't be taken seriously".
If he has money, "he's showing it off and he thinks that'll make me take him serious"

What exactly do you people want??

pTomz:
naw if guy wey no get moni com try hin luck win u, during d race u go say hin no get money, say na poverty go kill am, now where emeka or bassey wan show off fr u, u go say..u no wan dey cheap to any stranger cus hin pay fr ur lunch, wat do women really want

GBAM!

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Love is expensive Sex is free/cheap[/quote
hope u took ya medication dis beautiful evenin

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Bae!
No in the mood for banter so go elsewhere

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Bae!
Not in the mood for banter so go elsewhere

commitcrime:
Bae! No in the mood for banter so go elsewhere

boo m also nt ready fr it buh it seems ur high on gin

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I totally get You! I hate the idea of a random guy Buying me stuffs, paying for my taxi, Or just doing anything that has me thinking I Owe You...it's insulting to my personality,...Like sorry! I can pay for those, thankyou...""


Guys think they could just buy anyone off coz they have a few paper in their tiny wallets...Those ostentatious Attitudes give me this repugnant feeling! very contemptuous!

Estharfabian:
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I totally get You! I hate the idea of a random guy Buying me stuffs, paying for my taxi, Or just doing anything that has me thinking I Owe You...it's insulting to my personality,...Like sorry! I can pay for those, thankyou...""


Guys think they could just buy anyone off coz they have a few paper in their tiny wallets...Those ostentatious Attitudes give me this repugnant feeling! very contemptuous!

you jez dy preach

Come on now... He's probably just being a gentleman and trying to make you feel at home.
You're the one reading meanings into his actions. You ladies should learn to appreciate us sometimes, you're not the only one who loves being treated well.

LaurelP:
Come on now... He's probably just being a gentleman and trying to make you feel at home.
You're the one reading meanings into his actions. You ladies should learn to appreciate us sometimes, you're not the only one who loves being treated well.

GBAM! one calabash of brukutu for you!

Mchew

Estharfabian:
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I totally get You! I hate the idea of a random guy Buying me stuffs, paying for my taxi, Or just doing anything that has me thinking I Owe You...it's insulting to my personality,...Like sorry! I can pay for those, thankyou...""


Guys think they could just buy anyone off coz they have a few paper in their tiny wallets...Those ostentatious Attitudes give me this repugnant feeling! very contemptuous!

AMEN!

SOME hoes are confused beings WALAHI...if u show off your wealth they bhave like don't care (trying to form "i am nt a gold digger") , if you no get money then they leave u cause ur broke...Later when their yansh starts getting wrinkles they'll start begging for HUSBAND

obiorathesubtle:
you jez dy preach

You would've just told me to tell You what "Ostentatious" And "contemptuous" meant...


Rather than disgracing Yourself...

LaurelP:
Come on now... He's probably just being a gentleman and trying to make you feel at home.
You're the one reading meanings into his actions. You ladies should learn to appreciate us sometimes, you're not the only one who loves being treated well.

Truth is, you don't need to flaunt cash to be a gentleman. After you people will be crying that girls are gold diggers. When you flaunt cash, its girls with long throat you'll attract.

When I walked into the place, he said something nice to me, like a genuine compliment, and he speaks well and he went on to ask a few questions and I was being really nice to him. If he had asked for my number at that point or after, I'd have given it to him but the moment he started with the money show off thing, I just lost interest.

Really, I see your point, he could have bought the lunch because he's trying to be nice(though I still think its unnecessary) and not to show off, but why did he feel the need to show off his car?

Estharfabian:
You would've just told me to tell You what "Ostentatious" And "contemptuous" meant...


Rather than disgracing Yourself...

you just called me dumb?

*sigh*

Wow. You sound so smart and educated. I wonder what ostentinatatious or contemtatious means?? I can't even spell em right. Anyway. If I disgraced myself, I would like to apologise to myself on your regard. Thank you so much tho.

Women will always complain! Aaarrrh Aarrhhh. If them nor do Osho-free for u, you go say village people at work. Dem do, you dey complain. I give up

obiorathesubtle:
you just called me dumb?

*sigh*

Wow. You sound so smart and educated. I wonder what ostentinatatious or contemtatious means?? I can't even spell em right. Anyway. If I disgraced myself, I would like to apologise to myself on your regard. Thank you so much tho.

LoL! hey! that was Pure sarcasm...

Was just kidding...

blessedfavoured:


Truth is, you don't need to flaunt cash to be a gentleman. After you people will be crying that girls are gold diggers. When you flaunt cash, its girls with long throat you'll attract.

When I walked into the place, he said something nice to me, like a genuine compliment, and he speaks well and he went on to ask a few questions and I was being really nice to him. If he had asked for my number at that point or after, I'd have given it to him but the moment he started with the money show off thing, I just lost interest.

Really, I see your point, he could have bought the lunch because he's trying to be nice(though I still think its unnecessary) and not to show off, but why did he feel the need to show off his car?

OK I get your point there on the car part. But the truth is that many guys have been made to believe that with money, all things are possible. Maybe it has been working for him where other ladies are so he believed it would definitely work on you also not knowing that you're different.

Don't write him off just yet, he might prove to be a great friend afterwards.

Estharfabian:
LoL! hey! that was Pure sarcasm...

Was just kidding...

Lol. Yea, I'm a very sarcastic bastard, most of the time.

Yea, I know you were kidding, romanceland has made everyone aggressive. So it's cool! Have a nice evening/morning

obiorathesubtle:
Lol. Yea, I'm a very sarcastic bastard, most of the time.

Yea, I know you were kidding, romanceland has made everyone aggressive. So it's cool! Have a nice evening/morning

now, I feel bad....

Likewise....

LaurelP:

OK I get your point there on the car part. But the truth is that many guys have been made to believe that with money, all things are possible. Maybe it has been working for him where other ladies are so he believed it would definitely work on you also not knowing that you're different.

Don't write him off just yet, he might prove to be a great friend afterwards.

Lol if we ever meet again.