ahnie:
Wallai ki bani dar'ya.

Nxt time,ki nema yaran anguwa ku su bashi mari.se dena duk hali shashasha hanu shi

Haaa mama na.ki yi ah kuri,zan yi upload around 8pm...kin ji?

Deezou:

Ban ga zino ba fa!

how is my lil alh doing?

Me gida na,ya daina irin duke ni yanzu fah.

missmalachi:

Nxt time,ki nema yaran anguwa ku su bashi mari.se dena duk hali shashasha hanu shi

yaya baby?lafiya kalon ko.

@blessedtwins pls and pls don't go back to that house....your dad needs to stand by you seriously at this time. Family members should help sort you out with money and a place to stay since your dad's place is not conducive.

Ladies pls say no to physical anf emotional abuse, i personally will never encourage a woman to stay with an abusive man....if u live to tell the story it will still demoralize u for ever. Also as mothers lets teach our boys from their little age to be kind and compassionate to all humans, teach your sons to be the kind of man you want your daughters to marry.

#saynotodomesticviolence

ahnie:
Me gida na,ya daina irin duke ni yanzu fah.yaya baby?lafiya kalon ko.

Mu gode ma allah.ki chi gaba dey adura kari ye koma hali di.

Ni ba baby lafia mu ke

Blessedtwinz z distraughted now.the best she can do for now is a temporary separation.....blessedtwinz pls reply your mentions.

@ cherrymum - May God keep you and your LO. He will give you double joy for your sorrows past.

Pls can I just ask some silly questions, and feel free to answer or decline, I won't mind one bit.

Did you have any inkling before now that your hubby had this attitude? i.e. Rapist? Did you see anything in him to make you suspect he had fathered several kids from outside? Or are you just naturally not a suspicious person, i.e. Someone who believes the best of everybody and in all situations?

I suspect your hubby is a phsychopath. They are able to lead different lives with different people without any iota of suspicion and unfortunately, there is little anyone can do to change them except God himself intervenes.

Anyways, I am happy that you are happy with whatever decision that you have taken. That's the most important thing. Finding happiness and strength within yourself notwithstanding the storm that is raging in one's life. It is well with you and your LO. God bless.

ginababy:


U see! U r fit 4 dat post oooo. Abeg I vote u wt both hands.

No even try am, dat I dey do am no be say I like am o, I'm just pleasing my man, I need to give am overdose na cos of later.

sometimes i wonder why some men turn to monsters,the man didnt even mind if his baby is going to die he just concentrated on dealing with the mum...pls dont go back there oooo to avoid storie that touch.i do respect women that take a walk from a bad marriage and surport them anyhow i can because they are brave.i hate hearing sob story abeg.

Toh

missmalachi:
Mu gode ma allah.ki chi gaba dey adura kari ye koma hali di.
Ni ba baby lafia mu ke

allah go diya

ahnie:
Just imagine.when my husband was turnin me into his punchbag,i complained,some mamas from this thread,sent hate mails to me abusin the daylight outta me.80%of marriage suffers this same assault things

Can you imagine! Hate mails kwa! For what?! If God has blessed you with a wonderful marriage, may His name be praised. If not, may His name still be praised.

Min

My dear,let me not mention names.my home has bn peaceful for some months now.i pray it stays that way.but aside that,i keep 2jobs,and even hav a side petty business.in case of any royal rumble

cherrymum:



Can you imagine! Hate mails kwa! For what?! If God has blessed you with a wonderful marriage, may His name be praised. If not, may His name still be praised.

My dear Kimoni, thanks. Same questions everyone asked me cos I'm a very detailed person. But just like you rightly described a psychopath which he truly is. I had my suspicions o but trust me, there was always a "reasonable answer" for every question.

@ blessedtwin, a big hug to you, I pray God strengthen you! I pray He will put you through at this difficult time. Am so short of words but won't stop praying for you.

Cherrymum, my prayers with you too! I thought it's only in African magic that we hear stories like this. I hope you av made your researches and confirm all dis allegation? So it won't be some badbelle playing smart, with my profession I av seen o! My heart goes to you as you prepare for ur baby's arrival, God will strengthen and make it easy for you.

This world is wicked ooooooooo

Pweetiebabe:

this yur 32 nor be hear oooo

ahnie:
this yur 32 nor be hear oooo

No mind Me jawe i posted wat i was ment to post on the ttc trend here so i ve to replace it with something else.... Cant wait to come join u mamas

twingirls:


No even try am, dat I dey do am no be say I like am o, I'm just pleasing my man, I need to give am overdose na cos of later.

I will lyk 2 b lyk u wen I grow up. Hw I wish I hav a mind lyk urs. Na me n my blanket d marry dis days, even inside heat, just 2 kip dh away.

@all my dota requires surgery to get better and I don't plan to return
Kimoni I am not suspicious person naturally.although I noticed se.x has never really been consensual.I often happens while I sleep and I wake up to find my undies have been removed just got to continue with it.my dad said he suspects he is either mentally unstable or takes drugs.my fone has bn destroyed so all contacts lost.just had to get another fone I had abandoned prior .this isn't the first time this exact scene played out
ahnie hate mails keh
The other option is getting a room for free if getting money fails.d little I have now I need to purchase hospital list needs and a bed with mattress and also to maintain us till I can start work.my foetus was distressed to some extent despite the fact that I didn't struggle with him.but she's ok now.it only the perpetual headache that has refused to go

Its well with you@cherrymum

Oya sabi mamas....let the fund raising start,no matter how small.where z iya atinuke,when she is needed most?zaynie

blessedtwins:
@all my dota requires surgery to get better and I don't plan to return there.however paying for surgery and renting a room is taking a financial toll.I can't do both.240k get me a room self contained gets me a place easily accessible to the hospital I use.
Kimoni I am not suspicious person naturally.although I noticed se.x has never really been consensual.I often happens while I sleep and I wake up to find my undies have been removed just got to continue with it.my dad said he suspects he is either mentally unstable or takes drugs.my fone has bn destroyed so all contacts lost.just had to get another fone I had abandoned prior .this isn't the first time this exact scene played out
ahnie hate mails keh
The other option is getting a room for free if getting money fails.d little I have now I need to purchase hospital list needs and a bed with mattress and also to maintain us till I can start work.my foetus was distressed to some extent despite the fact that I didn't struggle with him.but she's ok now.it only the perpetual headache that has refused to go

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@blessedtwins, it is well with you.
The pains women go through in the name of marriage. And it is these same men that will come and sweet talk you o, be so nice and all lovy dovy while trying to woo. God will reward us. Please like someone said, let us all try to raise our boys never ever to hit a woman for no reason and to care for women. Ki Olorun saanu wa o.

@blessedtwins, I will advice u go to ur pastor. If at all he is married wt kids n his wife is understandable den u dnt hav a problem. Go n make a home wt God under ur pastor's care. Money, accommodation, feeding n encouragement will nt b an issue at all. Hw I wish we fellowship in dsame church na drag I 4 com drag u go my pastor's house because I ova sure of wat his family can do.

@Blessedtwins,the Lord is ur strength.Focus on u and ur daughter for now. God will heal her. Congratulations to all new mums that just delivered,your LOs will bring more blessings to your home.To all TTC mums hang in there ,God will do it very soon.

cherrymum:
My darling sister Blessedtwins. Right now, forget about your hubby and focus solely on your daughter and getting her back on her feet. Later you can come back to sorting out hubby issues.

My dear men are 'wonderful' beings and what can we do but 'thank' God for creating them.

During my ttc days, I thought I had one of the most wonderful men in the world walking with me. I was always thanking God for giving me such a great man. Only for me to wake up a few months ago to policemen in the house arresting my very own 'gentleman' for raping his gf's sister. He also had six other kids from other women outside. That I didn't die that day is the grace of God.

I'm back to my parent's house o. Patiently waiting to receive my LO in a few weeks. Praying for my child always. Family is truly the greatest gift of all.

My dear, go the your dad's house clear one room and keep your child safe. Pray for her always. When she's better you can discuss going back to your matrimonial home.

As for me, I no dey go anywhere sha o. I don tanda for here gidigba. Can't live with a monster.

Team November for sexy delivery mehn!

bravo! I love ur courage sis.some women r there suffering in silence in d name of 'I don't wanna quit my marriage'.
May d gud Lord cont 2 b wif&lead u aright. may d arrival of ur little one bring forth goodness 《hugs》

ahnie:
Just imagine.when my husband was turnin me into his punchbag,i complained,some mamas from this thread,sent hate mails to me abusin the daylight outta me.80%of marriage suffers this same assault things

my sister, don't mind some hyppcrites while others are simply ignorant of wat sm ppl may b going fru&they cant jst shush their mouths.
it is d person in d shoes dt knws d pain o. Yoruba will say that when u're attacked, u also retaliate in defence. stay strong &focused sis. tis well

blessedtwins:
Good morning e sisters.Eminya congrats.
On Sunday nite around 11pm when many were sleeping,I was been assaulted by my husband.Before now my dd has had health challenges and has been admitted on and off since middle of October.her latest admission ended just this Saturday night.Alas by 9pm on Sunday whilst sleeping she started vomited every 10mins.i gave her plain water ORS , lemon water even breast milk at seperate intervals but she vomited them all.then she started stooling.by the 8th vomit I told my husband please let us take her back the hospital he said no.my dad who has a medical background now called to say you need to take her if she had vomited more than three times.at this point it was already ten.

dont wanna say more, others av.bt pls stay strong 4 ur baby's sake as she's all u've got nw. may d Lord be wif u&dont hesitate to seek further help frm ur e-sisters
11Chro 14:11; Ps 44:26

Congratulations to Eminya & other mamas that just offloaded, ur LOs shall be a blessing to ur households.
@ Blessedtwins, my prayers are with u. Hugs!

blessedtwins:
@all my dota requires surgery to get better and I don't plan to return there.however paying for surgery and renting a room is taking a financial toll.I can't do both.240k get me a room self contained gets me a place easily accessible to the hospital I use.
Kimoni I am not suspicious person naturally. although I noticed se.x has never really been consensual.I often happens while I sleep and I wake up to find my undies have been removed just got to continue with it my dad said he suspects he is either mentally unstable or takes drugs.my fone has bn destroyed so all contacts lost.just had to get another fone I had abandoned prior .this isn't the first time this exact scene played out
ahnie hate mails keh
The other option is getting a room for free if getting money fails.d little I have now I need to purchase hospital list needs and a bed with mattress and also to maintain us till I can start work.my foetus was distressed to some extent despite the fact that I didn't struggle with him.but she's ok now.it only the perpetual headache that has refused to go

I am sorry but i find this quite difficult to swallow. Didn't you feel anything when he mounts on you?And how on earth where you able to live with that?

Sorry everybody,I use to be here more often in the past but after reading from the sideline for months,i had to post.
My heart goes to anyone going through difficult times but just know that when the storm is over,there is sunshine.It might take months,years but there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

ginababy I can only communicate online.phone was destroyed.how do I tell my pastor?by d way I once reported him to the church and they said I should just hide when he starts.
I just thot of selling off a brand new car.he bot it in our names.if I could get a buyer asap I would be good to go
A penny for your thots