Mznaett:
This is a very serious matter

In as much as I know the truth believe me I won't blame the girls/ladies for this act at all

Reasons being that these girls could be in need of something now..ok lets look at it from this perspective: As a student from a humble background,she needs a certain amount to solve her problem and since her parents are not bouyant she decides to meet a guy and now he agrees to bail her out on a condition..and yes he would'nt want to use any kind of protection with her and on the long run she becomes pregnant.

Now,considering where she comes from do you expect her to keep it? Especially if d dude does'nt want it?

That's rubbish........ What happen to doing menial jobs? Girls that do such are lazy..... They have the mentality that a man must give them what they want, its a poor orientation..... Most especially those rag tag girls that ask for recharge cards.....before you see a homely girl.....it takes a while.

FTBOY:
that's the problem.........mummy's pets like u can't differentiate the good girl from the bad one because ur not exposed to the world (no pun intended). dude, u can tell from my moniker that i fvck a lot. and since i started fvcking bitches i've only met a virgin once.........and i refused to tamper with her hymen coz i'm not sure i have a future plan with her. but this girl would suck me like a pro till i cum in her mouth. in her next relationship, her guy wouldn't be able to tell her past life since she's still a virgin.
now i'm not saying you can't find a decent girl, but it's very rare. and decent can only be defined by the guy involved ....i mean, what is good for me may not be good enough for yu. for instance, my current girlfriend is decent to me....but i'm not her first and i can't tell if she has had abortions in the past. no girl would ever tell u that

No girl would ever admit she had an abortion but who gives them the money to remove it.
My guy, decent us seeing a girl that can cook, respect you and advice you about investments.....please, tell me this 21st century girl/ladies how many would advice you about investment purposes? Parents go as far as pushing their wards to get pregnant for their boyfriend because they want grand children or want to shed down responsibility.
I have seen single mothers of 19, 20, 21 and 22........ The way we are going in this country.... I smh...... Married men chase schools girls, go to yabatech, Unilag, mapoly and Uniport and see the number of abortion committed monthly........
I blame both parties....the girl should insist on no CD no straffing.....but they want bbc-body-to-body Contact.

onstelly:

Do u really know what 90% means
Op you can't be serious

Babe......sex is everywhere..... With just recharge card, taking her to a good eatry, having a comfortable abode, having a ride and lying you will get sex.......
I went to read in Yabatech and saw two young couples enter a mosquito net,I thought they were fast asleep and I notices movements and moaning. It not the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth.....babe countless time or is it the ones that happen at the b/stop or motor parks an garages. I forgot Ay, a lecture in Yabatech that must sleep with you before passing his coursecourse in Art department (Industrial design).....

PHLastborn:
No, but really, op is absolutely right. In our emotional moments when we go into moments of Truth, most of the girls I've spoken with attested to the fact that they've had abortions before, some will be so sincere to you that they will even tell you they've had like 8-9 abortions.
It's not a false presumption, I attest and concur to this fact, no sense berating the op because the revelation puts you in a bad light. Accept the single fact. Naim make Oyinbo better pass us, they concur to the fact that they are promiscuous, they are gays, they sleep with their parents, siblings etc, but here we will swear to the high heavens that we are not what we are.
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!

You last statement show how hypothetical we are as a people.....my ex have committed abortions for me but the girls commenting on this thread would claim holier than thou.......thumbs up for you.

engrkenny:
It's scary to accept this, and more fearful, the fact that abortion is illegal and our girls go through unregulated back channels to procure abortions. Personally I think more liberal legislations, social freedom and less hypocrisy would help alleviate this. No need pretending to high heavens while unthinkables happen in dark rooms.

Good reasoning.

ideyhere:
And these same guys shouting would be the first to say "baby please let's do it raw...you know it doesn't feel good with condom...I promise I won't come inside you." Mtcheew

I am happy you are hitting the nail on the head. Yes, guys share in the blame. What's the way forward? The rate of abortion is alarming.

teasel:




This is what happens when one is unfortunate to be born into poverty. You end up being brought up in ghettos. An environment where some omo alatas will excitedly open their legs for some random plumber for less than a dollar. An environment where illegal abortions are carried out by your next door neighbor. One were you never have access to anything good, not even women.
It's a sad life, I know.
You had better get your lazy bums out of that place before you start breeding. I'm not sure Nigeria can survive another generation of dumb males.

Bros, even the girls that live in highbrow areas commit abortions......#fact!

goodfornothing:
This is no joke at all. As long as she's no longer a virgin and up to 20 years of age and with no child, she must have had at least one abortion. Fvck religion and moderate dressing, none of these girls is a saint. Including my sisters. There's an abortion clinic close to where I live. Words can't explain what my eyes have seen. Some are even as young as 15. Guys, we're not safe. And I dare any girl to challenge this!

90% is on the high side. The girls that come to the clinic close to your house are the ones that are either two or three month pregnant while some other girls take drugs such as oxcytocin for a pregnancy that is less than a month.

prettysolid:
As a woman I take your assumption as an insult. This is how we keep tarnishing our Nigerian image with silly talks like this. Just imagine nationals from other countries reading this. Dont you know you are painting every Nigerian girl and even your own born or unborn daughters, already in a bad image.

National from other countries commit abortion because it is legitimate or has been passes into law.

naughtynaughty:
k. Meaning if ur present gf is pregnant,pls don't even suggest abortion for her o

My present girlfriend is just like me and is totally against abortions. We are very careful when playing our game. So the issue of abortion will never surface in our relationship.

Mznaett:
This is a very serious matter

In as much as I know the truth believe me I won't blame the girls/ladies for this act at all

Reasons being that these girls could be in need of something now..ok lets look at it from this perspective: As a student from a humble background,she needs a certain amount to solve her problem and since her parents are not bouyant she decides to meet a guy and now he agrees to bail her out on a condition..and yes he would'nt want to use any kind of protection with her and on the long run she becomes pregnant.

Now,considering where she comes from do you expect her to keep it? Especially if d dude does'nt want it?

What you are saying is like giving fellow girls like you encouragement to get pregnant all in the name of problem solving. Even if unfortunately she gets pregnant and inform the owner of the child of it and he rejects it, that does not mean that you should kill the child. Supposing if she did not get pregnant but instead contracted a deadly STD what happens then. So please stop the encouragement and advice fellow girls to be more careful and not to kill their future children nothing their young age.

boxer022:
My present girlfriend is just like me and is totally against abortions. We are very careful when playing our game. So the issue of abortion will never surface in our relationship.

I hear

guilt is troubling op;dont worry ur daughters will bear d consequence

artisticallyart:

I am happy you are hitting the nail on the head. Yes, guys share in the blame. What's the way forward? The rate of abortion is alarming.

The whole thing is a thing of the mind...whether you believe abortion is a sin or not. All I know is that if 90% of Nigerian girls have had at least one abortion, 99% of Nigerian guys have gotten at least one girl pregnant and had the foetus terminated. So for sycophants like the OP who still has the guts to say he loves to phuck, well, a hard truth is that when that pregnancy is terminated, it isn't just the lady's child but the two of yous'. So my guys, check how many of your kids you've also killed before apportioning blames...shalom

artisticallyart:

Babe......sex is everywhere..... With just recharge card, taking her to a good eatry, having a comfortable abode, having a ride and lying you will get sex.......
I went to read in Yabatech and saw two young couples enter a mosquito net,I thought they were fast asleep and I notices movements and moaning. It not the first, second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth.....babe countless time or is it the ones that happen at the b/stop or motor parks an garages. I forgot Ay, a lecture in Yabatech that must sleep with you before passing his coursecourse in Art department (Industrial design).....

You are kinda saying the truth yes but the percent is a Lil bit on the high size
And coming to the lecturer own and he is still a lecturer in that school abi, the student should clap for themselves, obviously they are ok with it

Majority of girls these days hate condom, last four girls I dated hate it that they beg to do it without condom if I ask them their answer is it is sweeter without it.
I always insist on condoms or no sex, disease plenty no be few hours enjoyment will lead to lifetime regrets but not every guy can reject the offer and not everybody know the withdrawal method or what to do after they cum inside

though am a woman but i ll tell u that the op is not far from the truth cos recently i was in a midst of friends as in friends i truly trust only for an argument about this abortion issue to come up. i swear i was shocked frm what i heard,they told me that as far as they are concern aborting a baby b4 it is 3 month ain't a big deal that many women does that this are pple who dresses more innocently than i.though i didn't continue the argument but cos it was 1 versus 5 but i had a serious reflection that day. by God's grace even me @ 25 haven't had d reason to do an abortion cos i know is murder.once again i believe that the fruit of sex is a child moreso oneday this sex go stil tire u can ask ur parents. case closed.

Yet another lost soul

It is always difficult to accept the TRUTH in this part of the world......

"This is the truth. Take it or you leave".......

Mznaett:
This is a very serious matter

In as much as I know the truth believe me I won't blame the girls/ladies for this act at all

Reasons being that these girls could be in need of something now..ok lets look at it from this perspective: As a student from a humble background,she needs a certain amount to solve her problem and since her parents are not bouyant she decides to meet a guy and now he agrees to bail her out on a condition..and yes he would'nt want to use any kind of protection with her and on the long run she becomes pregnant.

Now,considering where she comes from do you expect her to keep it? Especially if d dude does'nt want it?

Sorry what are you saying?...or what have you written here?...so you're telling me because a girl comes from an humble background so she has the freedom to date guys,hve unprotected sex in return for money?...are their hands/legs cut off?...can't they work to earn for themselves?..see, i'm a graduate and by the grace of God, i'll be going for my NYSC come this month end...even since I resumed first year, i've been the one fending for myself...I worked all through to earn my cool money...from photography to interior decorations and to events planning...see, the Fact is, Most of these ladies are lazy...that's just the plain truth!...take it or you leave it!...and i've also come across hustling girls who take the pain/s to go through stress and fend for themselves....i have a colleague with whom we both graduated and I can say it anywhere she worked for her money while we were both undergraduates!...so don't come here to say''because they come from humble background"so they can engage in social vices!...that's stupid!!!

Ever since pre-marital sex became a lifestyle and nomore a sin,i have never involved myself in this type of argument

duchess25:
though am a woman but i ll tell u that the op is not far from the truth cos recently i was in a midst of friends as in friends i truly trust only for an argument about this abortion issue to come up. i swear i was shocked frm what i heard,they told me that as far as they are concern aborting a baby b4 it is 3 month ain't a big deal that many women does that this are pple who dresses more innocently than i.though i didn't continue the argument but cos it was 1 versus 5 but i had a serious reflection that day. by God's grace even me @ 25 haven't had d reason to do an abortion cos i know is murder.once again i believe that the fruit of sex is a child moreso oneday this sex go stil tire u can ask ur parents. case closed.

Ask all your female friends/gossip allies the question and tell them to give you an honest answer. That you haven't done abortion even at 25 doesn't mean my argument isn't true. You're probably among the 10%

cechic:
even if u have a girl who u deflowered possible she might sleep with someone or might have slept with someone behind your back and still undergo abortion and Please who are the virgins... the women who stuff substances in their virginal claiming to be virgins

It's the same thing. If you're not her first, she has probably aborted before. And even if you're her first, another man can be ramming her behind you. Although, I'm sure they're still virgins

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teasel:

Take responsibility for your actions. Stop being the typical Nigerian male dog.
It's sickening.

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MrCork:



^^^^^side efffect of rejection. ..ediiiiooot boy!

Mad man

prettysolid:
As a woman I take your assumption as an insult. This is how we keep tarnishing our Nigerian image with silly talks like this. Just imagine nationals from other countries reading this. Dont you know you are painting every Nigerian girl and even your own born or unborn daughters, already in a bad image.

You make so much sense. The Op didn't think and is still not thinking

for me am marrying a virgin in future no matter hw many galz i don bleep

Certainly you have got few pregnant yourself, proof us wrong

So u neva abort b4? I think say u hard ni and dey straf wella. E show say u just dey form naughty ni

naughtynaughty:
Wow..tnkGod u said 90percent not 100percent. Am 22 and ave neva been pregnant. And den if I shuld eva get pregnant b4 25 aw abort! Yes I said it. Plus pls don't blame those ladies, they didn't impregnate demselves. Plus y bring a child into dis world to suffer when u cannot even cater for him or takia of him. Its advisable to abort wen dey r not yet formed asin btwn d first few months

It's sad when a black man doesn't appreciate black women. I've never seen white men bash white women. If you as a black man has something negative to say about a black woman, write it down and give it to your mom! Smh

In a world where racism is prevalent the black man will still bash a black woman. It's appalling! She's on natural hair, she's on weaves, she's loose, she's ugly, she's a gold digger, she's this, she's that! I'm tired of the constant bashing of nigerian women. Get a life op and any other guy that supports u!

ideyhere:
And these same guys shouting would be the first to say "baby please let's do it raw...you know it doesn't feel good with condom...I promise I won't come inside you." Mtcheew

looool, on behalf of men out there....we're ssorry na conji dey cause uss to say things like that

seunayeni:
looool, on behalf of men out there....we're ssorry na conji dey cause uss to say things like that

Yeah I know...but I just want you guys to cut we ladies some slack. We too are human and suffer conji too