fatahtalks:
our daughters r too young for marriage but they r not too young to sleep around.

mubarakopeyemi:
Thanks for the Enlightenment. Jazaakallah Khayran.
But unfortunately very few can abide by this that you've explained above.

omusiliyu:
Jazakallahu khaeeran

Geesarki:
Jazakallahu khaira Jazaa

personal59:
Jazakhallahu khairan

Tczar:
Op Jazakallahi khaerran

olaitan9291:
subhanallah!
Jazakunmullah khaer.
May Allah (subhanahu wa ta'la) reward you abundantly,
Increase your knowledge and faith in him.
Salaam aleikum waramatullah wabarakatuh.

usmanbaba:
Jaza khun khairan.... Pls I need a Hausa muslim lady for a relationship, my bbm pin 331938FA. Allah's knows d best!

olawaleqaasim:



If you don't date or court, the number 1 thing that would spur your interest towards marrying her would be because of her religion and thereafter, the genuineness that you REALLY want to marry her and not just use and dump (no offence meant, just explaining).

Marrying someone without the kind of courtship that we know today goes a long way to tell that this person I'm getting married to has a 60% chance of marrying me for who I am and not possibly an angelic figure.

It isn't a matter of meeting someone in a day and marrying such person that day all in the name of no courtship, no; only that Islam has procedures WHEN YOU ARE READY TO GET MARRIED. A lot of us want to enjoy the companionship of the opposite sex WITHOUT accepting the responsibilities of legal spouses, that is what Islam detests.

The danger in having a longterm companionship is the risk of committing fornication, which is a capital sin as far as Islam is concerned.

To think of it, if courtship is the solution to getting married to the wrong person, why then do we have breakups here and there?

I'm married and i am happily married, nothing brought myself and my wife together other than knowing that she is a muslim and a human being. She has her deficiencies and I have mine. We cope with each other like brother and sister and know how to manage our communication. We got married in August of a year and I met her the December preceding that August. What else could have made us marry like that if not the INTEREST to marry.

MrOlai:


Wonderful!

May Allah(SWT) reward you for this wonderful piece. Jazakumullah khaeran.

LuckyLadolce:
JAZAKUM

personal59:


Brother u don't need to court or date before marriage the prophet says marry for religion sake that's the best for u.


Our great grandfathers nd grandfathers never court mostly na arranged weeding nd they never divorce

MrOlai:


Was iyaakum.

LuckyLadolce:
I want to put it (ur article) on my blog and make reference to you. i hope am free. salam alaykum

MrOlai:


Na'am. It's okay.

LuckyLadolce:
Thanks. jazakum

MrOlai:


Wa iyyakum.

jamst2:
huh! Op,you see it is the society that is corrupt that makes it look bad with a 'dirty mind' that when a girl & a boy are friend then it is mean to be 'sex relationship'

So,does it mean that the opposite sex should see themselve as enemies? No...we must understand that friendship is what brings people together with good intention.

Good intention is what matters...@op,do not get the message wrong that islam forbid friendship with opposite sex...no,the opposite sex isnt our enemy.just make sure your intention is clean & pure for Allah's sake

Wa Allahu a'lam (Allah knows best)

Mc4larin:



You gotta be kidding me!
So if your dad calls you and tell you "I have arranged a lady for you to marry". What will be the first thing that will come to your mind? You better stop deceiving yourself

maryhaam:
really

Rilwayne001:
Well, I have a girlfriend.

daridex:

that was then.....looking at how things are right now, people are shadows of themselves...many are fair weather.... so its better you know your spouse too well before jumping into hell

dragnet:
I hope you don't mean this in the real sense?

personal59:


Oga mi it takes a life time to know someone all u pray for is taofeek from allah forget all this all u need to know is how groom the person is in the knowledge of islam and the akheeda the person av but claiming to know my brother forget if I really want u nd I also love u I can pretend for u till u marry me bt wen we start leaving together then u knw who I am

maryhaam:
really

olawaleqaasim:


I truly laughed when I saw 'Arabian' religion. The moment it is Arabian it isn't Islam. Islam is worldwide, there is nothing Arabian about it. It is applicable everywhere except where isn't created by Allah.

Humblebloke:



...... I understand your plight,about a year ago.... I was a muslim too.... I still speak arabic,I love the language.


Its not an arabian religion.....originated from arabian land, an arabian man was the main character...... Texts are written in arabic which is the language allah loves the most.... Stories are basically about the arabian way of life...



You bought their culture and neglected your own culture....it's .really pathetic

You should try going through the history books......

The other middle eastern religion.....christianity..... has got more adherents.....its ''worldwide'' too

daridex:
op. if we didnt date or court, how i go marry am

jazakallah khair

Humblebloke:



...... I understand your plight,about a year ago.... I was a muslim too.... I still speak arabic,I love the language.


Its not an arabian religion.....originated from arabian land, an arabian man was the main character...... Texts are written in arabic which is the language allah loves the most.... Stories are basically about the arabian way of life...

You bought their culture and neglected your own culture....it's .really pathetic

You should try going through the history books......

The other middle eastern religion.....christianity..... has got more adherents.....its ''worldwide'' too