Stats: 3,190,083 members, 7,939,377 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 September 2024 at 01:12 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? (68052 Views)
Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? / Am I Really A Bad Son? / What Are Your fears Of Getting Married Or Being Married? Singles ONLY (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (17) (Go Down)
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar: Haaaa cooogaar... 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by 5minsmadness: 3:17pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
yoksy:.And everybody ignored this to have a go at the man. This is a VERY SERIOUS accusation and not one to be taken lightly at all. If there is anything I have learned on nairaland it's to always listen to both sides of the story. A man has a broken leg and is supposedly in pains but goes out of his way to buy viagra to have an affair. That means he can't get it up by himself. That means he is going out of his way to cheat on his woman. This is not some random infidelity. This is Malice. An act of vengeance. Something went wrong. Op what actually happened between you two? 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
@op... If your husband is rebuffing ur advances andd banging another girl inspite of his bad leg... then he is an irresponsible, pathetic son of a b1tch... nd it doesn't matter whether u spit or fart every minute... In cases like this, there is no single solution.. you should consider your welfare as well as dat of ur child before taking any decision.. Modified... if your husband actually says he is not the father of the unborn baby, then you've got bigger problems, you're not telling us the whole story.. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by yoksy(f): 3:35pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
5minsmadness:I've said all dat happened I equally Love sex but am taking it easy on him cos he complains he is tired n sick God in heaven bears me witness he has neva seen anything negative in me His only complain is no man should compliment me cos am married |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by yoksy(f): 3:41pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
njokusboy:it also baffles me him saying dat I don't know if he is just saying it not to take responsibility of babies arrival or what cos if we pray 2geda he commits d unborn baby n calls it our baby. I actually don't know where I have gone wrong n he has not told me |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by yoksy(f): 3:46pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
fem29:thank u n God bless |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by raumdeuter: 3:55pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
When he said " He is probably not responsible for the pregnancy, Why did he say that, what was your reaction and how was that incident resolved/concluded Maybe you should divorce him 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
My candid advice to u is to stop worrying yourself about all these now to avoid HBP... Your health and ur baby should top ur priority list for now... You are far gone to be stressed out... Do things that makes you happy... . Marriage comes with a whole lot of ish u know. When the baby comes he will have a change of heart... And I do hope his accusation is baseless... Keep shining dear... 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by crackhaus: 4:14pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
raumdeuter:I totally concur. Yosky, tell him to please get a paternity test if he is really in doubt...then go get your own sex mate to spite him. Afterall, a man with one bad leg can't be much of a threat physically. Then divorce him! 9 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by cococandy(f): 4:16pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
No pregnant woman should be treated that way. Not when they need all the love and support they can get. What's wrong with some people? OP if you didn't do anything to warrant the accusation, pls pay it no heed. Some people before they go out and do something bad, they rationalize and justify it in their minds any way they can so as to feel less guilty about it. him accusing him might be diversionary tactics to justify his own cheating which he's planning to go do. Goodluck with your baby. You're almost there. For now rest your mind no matter how hard it is because you don't want your blood pressure up at the risky stage. If you need to get away from him so that anger at him won't push you into over drive, pls do so. When you're done having your baby. Ask him if he's tired of the marriage. The worst way to spend your energy is in trying to stay married to someone who doesn't want to stay married to you. And the worst cheat to live with is one who's not repentant. You'd basically be giving the person a license to treat you as they wish once you start condoning their unrepentant philandering. If he's not tired and you aren't tired, then both of you can consider counseling. It seems you didn't know each other well before marriage. you said you never saw the bad leg until marriage, that means you guys never met until marriage. Maybe he's disillusioned with what he saw after meeting you. Hence the lack of sexual attraction. Time to rediscover yourselves and see if you can ignite sparks between the two of you. Provided he's willing to try with you. One person can't build a marriage alone while the other person is continuously sabotaging the union. Unfortunately he's not here and he's the one that needs talking to. More than you even. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by yoksy(f): 4:38pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
cococandy:thank u he had d accident last yr and we dated for close to 2 yrs b4 getting married it was only distant cos he works in d western part of d country while am in north central |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by raumdeuter: 4:48pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
crackhaus: Actually divorce him first before he even tries to beg or act nice No need for DNA unless you can get him to pay child support and get your own bedmate 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by cococandy(f): 4:56pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
yoksy: Accident you say? Hmm. So he hasn't always had the bad leg. Well that sort of changes things. At the risk of sounding like I'm making excuses for him (which i'd never do). When people go through life changing injuries especially ones that leave a disability behind, there are two kinds of healing to go through. Physical and psychological. Especially with accidents. Because it's sudden. One moment you're walking, the next you're in a wheelchair, limping or using walking aids. It can be hard to heal inside and come to terms with the disability. Maybe the physical healing has gotten as good as it can get, but the psyche still needs to heal. Because in his mind, he's less of person now that he's not full on his feet and active. Causing him to maybe seek validation in his ability to still attract women outside. (This is provided he hasn't always had a womanizing habit). If he has always been a womanizer, pls disregard this post. If not, then suggest counseling and therapy for him. The things we often overlook are sometimes the most important. He needs to be able to once more believe himself whole and complete. The fact that he as a young man (I assume) needs viagra to get it up again even with a new girl which is usually a turn on for most people shows that he's internally disturbed. I know it can be hard being the one to swallow hurt and pamper someone when you're in need of it yourself. Seeing as you're having a baby and all that All things said and done, if he's not willing to work with you, you know where the door is. Life is too short to live it in misery. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by thorpido(m): 5:01pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
yoksy:You both didn't really know each other and that explains why he's really not into you.The marriage is just about 2 yrs. He saying the pregnancy is not his just further explains the disconnect. Just take care of yourself and have your baby first.After you put to bed,re-evaluate your marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by vague: 6:16pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
yoksy: Aunty you are a learner put high blood pressure drugs or anti-depressants in his food and see if viagra can even save him! |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by edwife(f): 6:18pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
crackhaus: ![]() ![]() raumdeuter: ![]() ![]() Agents of divorce.... ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by 5minsmadness: 7:25pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
vague:Pls this is not funny in the least. You are advocating murder. The man will die. It's not funny or clever at all. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by raumdeuter: 7:43pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by SAMBARRY: 7:51pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
What is the difference between you and single mothers. Your his is more like a roommate and denying your pregnancy. Hiannnn. I don't have anything to say since some of the worthless men around are spewing garbage. It's easier to join the Nigerian army looking for the missing chobok girls IN sambisia forest than to live with Some kain men.tufiaaaa 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by wonlasewonimi: 8:17pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
MarryMeee: Lmao! This is going to be interesting. You sabi this guy pass some of us. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
MarryMeee: You sure u wanna do this? 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by HaneefahRN(f): 8:38pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
cococandy:Wonderful piece. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
yoksy: You are so welcome hun. Please make sure you get someone supportive to come and stay with you. You need positive energy around you right now to bolster you. Someone to lean on. It is not easy to bring another human into the world. Please if no one can come, I would suggest you go and stay with your parents until you give birth if possible. The Lord is your strength. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
cococandy: Coco to be honest I don't think she should be worried about trying to worry about how his phyche has been affected by his leg being injured etc etc. There is no excuse for what this man is doing. Imagine if it was her that all that happened to she would bloody get on with it. She would not sit around thinking of stupid shit to do to bolster her self she would simply continue to do whatever it is she has to do to make sure her family is alright . We really should stop giving men passes, it's bullcrap (forgive my french). I'm just sick of it. I've been through so much and I've had to go through it alone cos our hubby's always have a REASON for the crap they do. Poster please ignore this and maintain your zenith. I am venting 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by crackhaus: 9:39pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
raumdeuter:I think you're right... It's better she cuts him off totally and get herself a younger hotter dude, before letting him the opportunity to use his serpent's tongue to win her back. |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by crackhaus: 9:42pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
edwife: ![]() |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by raumdeuter: 9:46pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
crackhaus: Some men have fetishes for heavily pregnant women |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by crackhaus: 10:04pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
raumdeuter:Indeed, some men do... |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Anikishaya(f): 10:11pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
Sorry madam, just take him to the Lord in prayer and He will be a better person. Wish you safe delivery |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by coogar: 10:18pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
crackhaus: you guys are taking this sarcasm too far, why now? a man with one bad leg can't be much of a threat physically? he only needs his 2 hands to choke her to death. yosky....don't mind crackhaus & raumdeuter. they are being sarcastic! 4 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (17)
Soldier Gets Home After 8 Months To Meet His Wife 3-Months Pregnant For Her Ex / Why I Wanted To Kill My Husband – Mrs. Dede (Graphic Photo) / Photo Of The Day: Father & 5 Children On A Suicide Mission
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 80 |