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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by byvan03: 10:30pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
Until ladies tell me where they find this unusual men, I have no comment. Except the accident affected his brain and he couldn't remember having a wife or bedding one to conception, I really don't get what you are living with. It seems is more of a marriage of convenience, there is neither love nor friendship. If you knew the deal from day 1, then it will make more sense to carry your cross with pride. 5 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by coogar: 10:40pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
byvan03: these men aren't unusual! some men are genuinely turned off when their partners are pregnant. the attraction suffers an instant death till she puts to bed! that's just the way they are wired & i doubt it's got anything to do with love or friendship. the risk of any given man to cheat on his wife increases during pregnancy, even if he finds his marriage satisfactory. some men are severely afflicted with pregnancy symptoms. this type of men are ambivalent about pregnancy and the changes that go with it! |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by wonlasewonimi: 10:44pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar: Bros. Why you dey quote me na? E be like say Aunty marrymee know you wella. No dey face me tonight abeg. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by byvan03: 10:44pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar: If that's the case, then such marriage contracts should be reviewed and terms and conditions of affections put in place. This is unusual, can't get it up at home but get stoned to get it up outside, that is unusual. Casually walks away when caught? Who does that? It is unusual! This Phobia for preggy makes a man who isn't suffering from brain scramble deny his wife's pregnancy? That's usual? 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by JudgementHammer: 10:48pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
Lol. Uve not reach d point of being suicidal...commit suicide now if it will solve your problem. Every story has 2 sides. We've heard your side and no wise judge would conclude without hearing the other side. Perhaps u should meet someone u both know so he/she would hear both of u out. NL is not a wise place to come unless its not a serious issue. Period 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by coogar: 10:52pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
wonlasewonimi: except that you are aunty marrymeee! i will direct my wrath towards y'all. the powers vested in me allow me to do as i please. how dare you as a mere mortal question my decision making? of course, marrymeee knows me - i shtupped the woman that sired the bastard! byvan03: there's nothing unusual about it..... many marriages have suffered the same fate. mind, i ain't condoning his despicable action but there are some men who can't just stand a pregnant wife.
he's just being a dïckhead with the denial.... the crux remains he is not sëxually attractive to his wife as things stand. after she delivers, he will revert back to his old self. it's a temporary crisis. |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by byvan03: 10:57pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar: Well, Good luck to wify lying in the wardrobe like a piece of wedding suit waiting for its wearing turn again. No be only temporary crisis . 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by wonlasewonimi: 11:00pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar:Guy which of your injections did you miss? You think I don't have anything to do like you to be creating user Id all over the forum. You should be worried cos it seems she knows stuff about you. Asiri e o ni petu. 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
MarryMeee: Ermm this is very personal. Do you know oga coogar. To be honest, Peckham is now a desirable area, property prices are extremely high cos it's quite close to central London. Coogar please don't come after me oooo . 8 dey fear your cussed nor be small |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by tablu: 11:12pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
Mznaett:then what should we do about the women...lool |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by coogar: 11:13pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
fem29: where i go sabi tramp that works as a shelf attendant at tesco? shim keeps claiming to know me but it's a wet dream.
i can't come after you - you have diplomatic immunity. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by byvan03: 11:16pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar: |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by tablu: 11:16pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
aaronson:very pragmatic response! I like... 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
coogar: |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by byvan03: 11:18pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
I no even know Wetin I dey edit again, make I go sleep jare. |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by cococandy(f): 11:33pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
fem29:@bold, that's definitely not me. If you're sick about people that give men passes and excuse bullcrap, pls welcome to my world. I'm even sicker of it. What made me type that post after my initial one is because of what she said happened to him. Even taking viagra to go cheat outside means he's probably not just doing it because he has uncontrollable libido. I just feel like it signifies more going on with him. It's not like I don't know that if she was the one who was cheating for whatever reason (even if to preserve her life) no one will make excuses for her. And that kind of post would make me the evil feminist who wants a man to take back a cheating wife.People are full time hypocrites around here. You know like a full time job. It has even turned to a competition of who can mock the OP more. So instead of compassion for someone going through something heartbreaking, you see mockery littering the thread. Of course it's sickening but don't vent on me nne. I don't support foolishness. Or fighting for a marriage where you're fighting alone. I just see each situation differently. Hence my resolve to not base my opinion on what others will think but how I see the situation. And in this case I think if he's willing to work with her, they can make it work. Each case and its own peculiarity. No blanketing. 6 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by mygee33(m): 11:39pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
@op, what should be paramount in your mind now is on how to deliver your baby safely.. Pretend all is well and treat ur husband nice irrespective of ur perceived maltreatment.. dont allow nairalanders to talk you into believing your husband is irresponsible. if by tomorow he changes for good, would you still see him as irresponsible.. Remember pregnancy is associated with mood swings.. you might think you are not doing anything wrong now...wait untik you give birth... In all, a family that prays together stays together.. you have a role to play to keep your home.. no marriage is a bed of roses.. I wish you all the best. |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
cococandy: I know the 'feminist' bashers on this site wear one down and we kinda start modifying what to say to kinda keep them off our backs . I don't even see myself as a feminist cos I'm not really doing anything to advance the female cause, I just don't want to be treated like shite. But I don't want this woman to start second guessing herself. I don't even have so much of an issue with the cheating, it's how he is treating her in this very difficult and delicate time. 8 month pregnant is the most vulnerable you can possibly be. She needs to forget about what he is doing and whatever 'reason' he may have for doing it. Focus on her and baby. 5 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by cococandy(f): 11:55pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
Lmao at first paragraph. I see what you mean. On the contrary I enjoy the effect my posts has on them. Very much. I just don't want to deliberately be unhelpful to someone who I think my opinion might help just because I want to piss some mofos off. I just finished a class in psychological versus physical healing and when she said he was in an accident that left him with walking disability, it struck me as something that may be out of character for him. Of course I may be wrong. He could be a womanizer and she's just finding out. It left to her to see which it is and make her decision accordingly. fem29: 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 12:01am On Nov 14, 2015 |
cococandy: I just hope she will be alright. Such a sad story 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 12:04am On Nov 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Nah I just hate seeing their posts . They just rile me up and I know they are subjugating women in real life. Their wives and girlfriend's are suffering 1 Like |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by bukatyne(f): 12:12am On Nov 14, 2015 |
fem29: Not necessarily Not everyone practices what they preach. @cococandy: Such a beautiful work on this thread; kudos. |
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by cococandy(f): 12:14am On Nov 14, 2015 |
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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by wonlasewonimi: 12:21am On Nov 14, 2015 |
I told you someone is on your case tonight. Bro it's not me. You know me I no dey look face I no dey create id. Let me siddon kook and gather notes |
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