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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 10:40am On Nov 14, 2015
In counselling we love to hear from two sides for fair hearing

1. He is not serially active - how did you arrive at that? But he got you pregnant

2. You seem not to be saying anything you said to him .

3. You forgot that pregnancy makes you edgy and you gave him an impression the pregnancy is. Everything in your lives right now.


Call me if I could talk to you 08037828519
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by AprokoMan: 10:41am On Nov 14, 2015
BABE3:
does this bastard really wants me to post the messages her sent me last night threatening to post my nudes?

wanlasewonimi and ibime, see me see trouble?

cococandy, pls check your mail.


but why do you use coogar as ur dp? is he ur bf?
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 10:41am On Nov 14, 2015
Hmmm juicy thread, Orisirisi.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Caracta(f): 10:42am On Nov 14, 2015
Mynd44:

You abi?

Come let's meet up for lunch jare. This thread is dry

My dear...

This Nairaland ehn... I'm not even surprised at the accusations one bit. Not even a tiny bit.



@FrancisTony, good morning to you too cheesy

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Dyt(f): 10:43am On Nov 14, 2015
funlord:
grin grin grin

Na so na
Abi I lie?
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:43am On Nov 14, 2015
AprokoMan:

_Thesonofmark
I don't get this. Is there something I am missing?

Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by TheSonOfMark(m): 10:43am On Nov 14, 2015
AprokoMan:

_Thesonofmark
I don't get this. Is there something I am missing?


Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Teespice(f): 10:45am On Nov 14, 2015
Saturday morning entertainment.
laughing in spanish.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by AprokoMan: 10:45am On Nov 14, 2015
TheSonOfMark:

I don't get this. Is there something I am missing?



yea wink start reading from page 3
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by fexyrich(m): 10:45am On Nov 14, 2015
Mznaett:
Those creature called "men"sad?? Fear them!
Those creatures called women(Daughters of jezebel)Fear them even more..They can send a man to his early grave..







Op sory about ur experience,just keep praying for safe delivery and focus more on your delivery..By the time u have giving birth..Am sure he would come back to his senses..Also keep looking good,sexy and desireable and pray for him as well..
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by bellong: 10:46am On Nov 14, 2015
BABE3:


I have all the messages, the western union receipts of the money I sent him for over 3 years, evidence that he's uses stolen credit cards , and the posting of nùde threats. He called me 3 times last night. He was hoping I would answer so he can shut me down, but I didn't.


I will if I have to.

sorry o, OP.


You knew someone was using stolen credit card and you never exposed till things went down south?

In law, you are an accessory to the crime.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by IceDude(m): 10:47am On Nov 14, 2015
@yoksy........Some Nairalanders av already said whats on my mind. Dont av any advice to give again. Just wanna wish u safe delivery, takecare

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Mynd44: 10:47am On Nov 14, 2015
Caracta:


My dear...

This Nairaland ehn... I'm not even surprised at the accusations one bit. Not even a tiny bit.



@FrancisTony, good morning to you too cheesy
Old news and recycled unfounded rumors.

They had an offline relationship, they should drag themselves offline to talk about it.

So about lunch...PM me your number lets talk and do our own cheesy
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by ChristDeKing(m): 10:47am On Nov 14, 2015
aaronson:
First off, ignore every persons who be telling you talk to God because, that's their way of not helping but think they helping. No God needed here, this is human behaviour and social psychology.


Human has this tendency to act childish and its called FIXATION in psychology, what this means in essence is before your hubby got married to you, he's been having sex with random girls and your marriage to him isn't an excuse not to continue.

Now, bare this in mind, He doesn't hate you but the love is hidden and shrouded by his fixated habit of extra marital affair. This happens because a man's brain only focuses on only a single task unlike the women's brain which is capable of multitasking. This is the reason, Women are good at keeping multiple partners in secret than men.

Enough of education, How can you remedy this situation at hand?

Run a psychological test on him and see if he still care about you, Since you pregnant, its a lot easier, when he's in the house, just pretend, how ?, break down in pain and ensure you continue in the pretence of excruciating pain till he takes you to the clinic so the doctor would really ascertain you fine and need rest. then when you both get home, make him understand he's the reason you broke down earlier and it was a post traumatic stress he's been putting you through, let him see your tears again at that point in time and watch his reaction and response after then.

Note- He might not quit that fixated habit of extra marital affair but I bet he would up the affection and care he has for you which was hidden.
U ARE A GENIUS........

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by lastpage: 10:47am On Nov 14, 2015
yoksy:
I've not really reached the point of being suicidal because I know my future is bright and the baby in my womb is more of a comforter to me. I have been married for close to two years now.

My hubby has not been very healthy for close to a year now, we just leave like roommates, hardly any sexual activity, but it was a blow to my face when I came back from church on Sunday and saw a pill of Viagra 100 on my matrimonial bed and when I checked his phone I saw his chat with a girl inviting her to his guest house and denying he is married.

After confronting him, there was no remorse not even an explanation. He is just pretending to be nice (meanwhile am heavily pregnant but he cares less, I care for my pregnancy and buy my babies stuff. Hee sometimes even tells me he is not responsible for my pregnancy)

Please, I need candid advice on what to do. thanks.

Stop manufacturing these SILLY AND MEANINGLESS stories, just to demonise men!

How can someone who has not been healthy for almost a year (Your words) be using Viagra?
How can someone who has not been having she.x with you for almost a year...... and you said you are pregnant?

this story is useless and shows how unintelligent the poster is.

Go back AND FORM A BETTER STORY... jusT maybe you go sell.
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Mynd44: 10:48am On Nov 14, 2015
bellong:


You knew someone was using stolen credit card and you never exposed till things went down south?

In law, you are an accessory to the crime.
Buhahahahahahaha.

Abeg add cyber bullying to it

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by AprokoMan: 10:50am On Nov 14, 2015
sukkot:
carry your cross woman. who knows all the wickedness you did in the past to men. lol. we all have our cross to carry. just return to YAH and change your ways. make the commandments of YAH your stronghold

that was harsh. did u read the part she said she's heavy?

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 10:51am On Nov 14, 2015
Caracta:


My dear...

This Nairaland ehn... I'm not even surprised at the accusations one bit. Not even a tiny bit.



@FrancisTony, good morning to you too cheesy
Aww! Karma is b1tch...
Juicy thread, I tell ya'. grin


GHoJes, thanks!
I dey feel your born followers... tongue

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Rainmaker69(m): 10:52am On Nov 14, 2015
Sad story, but something tells me that if it's true, then there's more to this than meets the eye.
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by AprokoMan: 10:52am On Nov 14, 2015
wonlasewonimi:


Why would coogar send you this message? The coogar we know defends himself

the person chatting with you is coogar himself

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 10:53am On Nov 14, 2015
FrancisTony:

Aww! Karma is b1tch...
Juicy thread, I tell ya'. grin


GHoJes, thanks!
I dey feel your born followers... tongue

It isn't if you have good karma but obviously they were each other's perfect match. I wish for them to clean up their karma by facing the mess they have become.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 10:53am On Nov 14, 2015
Too much heArsays, Babe3 should provide proof or forever shut up or better still settle her ish offline. Something seems fishy about Coogar thou but am not sure this online shaming is the way to go. I'm sure Babe3 isn't a saint too aand I don't think a case of love gone bad is a criminal offence. All these talks of revenge porn, scam, stolen credit cards should be backed up with proof or be discarded as Old Wives fables.

And swaglover defending Coogar and being the Spokeman for the officially loudest Coogar who never backs down from an argument just doesn't make any sense. There is definitely more than meets the eye

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by GHoJes: 10:54am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:

Madam goan call your man to come defend himself tongue

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Sissie(f): 10:54am On Nov 14, 2015
Wow, this is serious.

No smoke without fire grin grin grin

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by ArchEnemy(m): 10:55am On Nov 14, 2015
coogar:


if everything you have said is true, he has shown he's not responsible!

i suggest you bring him to this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1582623/boys-night-out-discussions

we will teach him how to be a grown man
lol

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by 2weeks(m): 10:55am On Nov 14, 2015
nagging had gotten up to social media

smh


there is always another side of the story
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Sanchase: 10:57am On Nov 14, 2015
There are many ways to get to a man's heart. Communication is the key of sorting out problems. Limit the use of third party advice in your relationship, people will advice you do this and that but concentrate on understanding the factors that may have caused this. Confront him about it, remind him the baby needs a happy family. Ask him about the girls you think he is speaking with, possible communicate with a member of his family he is very close to speak to him.
Finally, its difficult to keep up with the excitement in the marriage in your condition but seduce him if you can lol.
All d best wink
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Sissie(f): 10:58am On Nov 14, 2015
bellong:


You knew someone was using stolen credit card and you never exposed till things went down south?

In law, you are an accessory to the crime.

Exactly, she is an accessory.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by apotek: 10:59am On Nov 14, 2015
BABE3:


I have all the messages, the western union receipts of the money I sent him for over 3 years, evidence that he's uses stolen credit cards, and the posting of nùde threats. He called me 3 times last night. He was hoping I would answer so he can shut me down, but I didn't.

I immediately messaged ibime and wonlasewonimi that he's beginning to threaten me and they said the same thing you said; to save the evidence in case things go south.




I will if I have to.

sorry o, OP.



you be mumu o.
you sent him money and nack him for 3 fecking years shocked

why the feck are you crying now? the guy no wan chop you anymore abi undecided

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by PresVA: 11:00am On Nov 14, 2015
Hmmmmm, alot going down here! ...Really teaching me alot!

We have to mind the info we dish out to people we meet here because when the opportunity presents itself, they'll use it against you. . Really bad!

See how adults are washing their dirty linens in public. ..shameful! !

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 11:01am On Nov 14, 2015
yoksy:
I've not really reached the point of being suicidal because I know my future is bright and the baby in my womb is more of a comforter to me. I have been married for close to two years now.

My hubby has not been very healthy for close to a year now, we just leave like roommates, hardly any sexual activity, but it was a blow to my face when I came back from church on Sunday and saw a pill of Viagra 100 on my matrimonial bed and when I checked his phone I saw his chat with a girl inviting her to his guest house and denying he is married.

After confronting him, there was no remorse not even an explanation. He is just pretending to be nice (meanwhile am heavily pregnant but he cares less, I care for my pregnancy and buy my babies stuff. Hee sometimes even tells me he is not responsible for my pregnancy)

Please, I need candid advice on what to do. thanks.
To b honest with U men r nt devils,dey av even stronger emotional heart dan women,Mrs U must av wrong him somehw when dating n he came for retribution n vengeance in marriage or U force or U r forced on him,imagine hw can a man make a vow to U in christiandom considering d Bible injuction in just 2yrs n went,it is repulsive n illogical,most men will nt stop frm loving U when U wrong dem when dating but dey will retaliate in marriage, go n check ur past where av U wrong him,d fundamental basis of d marriage was wrong,my advice is dat go n beg him seriously. My advice to all those young ladies out dree d result of ur dating n courtship is ur marriage,ur courtship will determine ur marriage,dating reprisal comes in marriage,LADIES DONT LOOSE UR VIRGIN N DONT ASK FOR MONEY AT D DETRIMENT OF UR MAN,ALWAYS SAY TANX N SORRY
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by emmacush(m): 11:03am On Nov 14, 2015
Don't know what to say, I'm hungry..

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