Dyt:


Madam old woman
You are his woman and I am only asking you talk to him to come defend himself
Is that too much to ask of you?
Or are you feeling heart broken?

Caracta:


My dear...

This Nairaland ehn... I'm not even surprised at the accusations one bit. Not even a tiny bit.



@FrancisTony, good morning to you too

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

Caracta:
Whoops! Quite interesting.

Very very funny. What a shame! It's hard to stop laughing. I'm glad I didn't miss this thread.

FrancisTony:
Aww! Karma is b1tch... Juicy thread, I tell ya'.

GHoJes, thanks! I dey feel your born followers...

yoksy:
we got married in a church

Joy1706:
Kick his ass to the curb. He is useless as a husband and will be useless as a father. Not to talk of his infidelity. Mstchewww

ednut1:
pastors and imam self have problems in thier homes na. So y go to them. Okotie nd oyakilome come to mind

Funjosh:



Am so sorry, I be wan call u self but my finger forget to type Caracta

lastpage:


Stop manufacturing these SILLY AND MEANINGLESS stories, just to demonise men!

How can someone who has not been healthy for almost a year (Your words) be using Viagra?
How can someone who has not been having she.x with you for almost a year...... and you said you are pregnant?

this story is useless and shows how unintelligent the poster is.

Go back AND FORM A BETTER STORY... jusT maybe you go sell.

you didn't read her story very well. shove aside ur male ego, and ignore the way the story was composed, and put yourself in her shoes. ok..let's just say she has done something bad to him in the past but what kind of husband would show little or no concern for his wife to the point of denying her pregnancy? stop supporting evil

lofty900:
He's not healthy for close to a year but he has the strength to bang another gal with viagra. Stop pitying him, he doesn't deserve you.

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

coogar:


your current status is probably turning him off. how long gone are you? are you the type that looks clumsy, unkempt and spitting around when pregnant?

yoksy:
I've not really reached the point of being suicidal because I know my future is bright and the baby in my womb is more of a comforter to me. I have been married for close to two years now.

My hubby has not been very healthy for close to a year now, we just leave like roommates, hardly any sexual activity, but it was a blow to my face when I came back from church on Sunday and saw a pill of Viagra 100 on my matrimonial bed and when I checked his phone I saw his chat with a girl inviting her to his guest house and denying he is married.

After confronting him, there was no remorse not even an explanation. He is just pretending to be nice (meanwhile am heavily pregnant but he cares less, I care for my pregnancy and buy my babies stuff. Hee sometimes even tells me he is not responsible for my pregnancy)

Please, I need candid advice on what to do. thanks.

TheSonOfMark:


For some odd reasons, every moniker Darkened-rebel/Classsyala-bolas/Sharo-nnnn associates with end up being exposed and disgraced like himself.



Misssc-lassy, Vict-oriabee/Vickyb-ee, Nneka-123, Captainswag and now Coog-ar?

A case of fake attracting fake? Quite revealing!

hahaha! what's the news with captainsfagg. i'm interested.

btw, the issue here is not a case of fake moniker. coogar was exposed by his ex to be a fraud and a blackmailer. he threatens to expose his exes nudes if they don't pay him. he doesn't live in london, neither did he school there, like he claims. he graduated from OAU and is an internet fraudster aka yahoo yahoo. the list of his atrocities is damn long!

yoksy:
he has a broken leg so he always say he is not strong, I don't know wat caused it maybe it's his nature wch I neva saw we've not stayed 2geda we work in diff state but his condition is d reason he is not at his duty post. when I confronted him he told me notin no apologies but started acting as if he cared by asking me wat was wrong if I had discomfort due to my present state.

nasha1:
so some women wants to turn this to a gossip thread.Y'all idiots with no backbones,hiding behind the likes.
She doesnt want to associate with you losers,leave her alone.
edwife don't answer anyone.

Timbuktou:

You need to shut the fvck up and get Coogar to come speak for himself. You speaking for him is doing more damage than good to his reputation. And if he indeed has asked you to not hold brief for him, you need to respect that and let him come clear his name when he feels he's up for it. Stop talking for Coogar.

medoyin:



Loads of good husbands out there. Ask the woman questions, you will see where she "might" have got it wrong. I can see short courtship and they never got to know each other better.

Ladies, the point is, marry your FRIEND and don't rush into marriage under any disguise be it home, religion, age, money etc. Remember, you will bear the brunt if things turn around for worse..#mythought.

chizobamgbume:

Don't mind the silly ijiot. That's how they form gang of gossip offline.

Mznaett:
Those creature called "men"?? Fear them!

Cougar:


i just got back from the solicitor's office and i couldn't speak prior then cos someone banned me for whatever - i don't know anything about it.

my solicitor will get on this matter by monday and issue a cease & desist letter to the accuser for the libel or the slander as the case may be.

what irks the most is i can no longer say anything in public to defend myself now that a legal team has taken the issue on board.

feel free to contact me privately though to hear my own side of the story. my ban expires in 72 hours & i don't post with this one.

see you on the other side, bro!

5minsmadness:

.And everybody ignored this to have a go at the man.


This is a VERY SERIOUS accusation and not one to be taken lightly at all.

If there is anything I have learned on nairaland it's to always listen to both sides of the story. A man has a broken leg and is supposedly in pains but goes out of his way to buy viagra to have an affair. That means he can't get it up by himself. That means he is going out of his way to cheat on his woman. This is not some random infidelity. This is Malice. An act of vengeance. Something went wrong.


Op what actually happened between you two?

aaronson:
First off, ignore every persons who be telling you talk to God because, that's their way of not helping but think they helping. No God needed here, this is human behaviour and social psychology.


Human has this tendency to act childish and its called FIXATION in psychology, what this means in essence is before your hubby got married to you, he's been having sex with random girls and your marriage to him isn't an excuse not to continue.

Now, bare this in mind, He doesn't hate you but the love is hidden and shrouded by his fixated habit of extra marital affair. This happens because a man's brain only focuses on only a single task unlike the women's brain which is capable of multitasking. This is the reason, Women are good at keeping multiple partners in secret than men.

Enough of education, How can you remedy this situation at hand?

Run a psychological test on him and see if he still care about you, Since you pregnant, its a lot easier, when he's in the house, just pretend, how ?, break down in pain and ensure you continue in the pretence of excruciating pain till he takes you to the clinic so the doctor would really ascertain you fine and need rest. then when you both get home, make him understand he's the reason you broke down earlier and it was a post traumatic stress he's been putting you through, let him see your tears again at that point in time and watch his reaction and response after then.

Note- He might not quit that fixated habit of extra marital affair but I bet he would up the affection and care he has for you which was hidden.