I have been dating this guy for the past 3yrs, we love each other but am the type of no sex before marriage. Although he agreed but he still makes some move whenever am with him which i alway decline.
My problem is that i know he need sex which i dnt want to give and i dnt want him to cheat on me nd i dnt want to be selfish by denying him and i dnt want to break his heart.
So my fellow nairaland, your advice is needed on how to break up with him without hurting him much.
NB: it is my friend that need d advice not me

Chai op. So u wanna brk up wif a guy dat has been gud, caring, loving #donno bout faithful sha# to u for 3 years jus cos he make advances? Mak I tell u now if afta 3 years he doesn't Mak advances to u den somtin is wrong. Its either u r not highing him or him na gay. Beta catch sense oh cos today na Sunday n plenty sense dey fly for air yakpa. Its jus normal dat he shuld be aroused and want to satisfy his urges. If u brk up jus cos of dis ehhhh,,,,, unless there's anada issh.

Anyss:
K

any advice

U said you luv each other, so why do u wna break up? Uve invested 3yrs in d relationship. Making advances for sex isn't gud enough reason for u wanting to end it. Pls talk things over wit him nd concentrate on your affair so long as d luv is still there. Breaking up isn't in ur best interest.

Anyss:
Chai op. So u wanna brk up wif a guy dat has been gud, caring, loving #donno bout faithful sha# to u for 3 years jus cos he make advances? Mak I tell u now if afta 3 years he doesn't Mak advances to u den somtin is wrong. Its either u r not highing him or him na gay. Beta catch sense oh cos today na Sunday n plenty sense dey fly for air yakpa. Its jus normal dat he shuld be aroused and want to satisfy his urges. If u brk up jus cos of dis ehhhh,,,,, unless there's anada issh.

u said it all..
this one na woman no be girll

Doesn't matter how it's done, a break up is a break up to me. The end is the same.

Tell her to just break up with him because I don't think there is such a thing as a less painful breaking up method. I think faffing around & trying not to hurt their feelings, not only is it a direct insult to their EQ but it's also a waste of time. Get to the point & get out, that's how I'd like it if someone was breaking up with me.

hummerwise:
u said it all.. this one na woman no be girll

In Zoya's Voice "tnk u tnk u tank u". Lols I bet u don't watch I Do. Right?

My sister break up with him joor nah by force ni. Abeg give am chop o.

Call Him Tomorrow Morning, and Tell him That You don't see you two having a future together, he should try to understand.....or better still whenever u visit him next, if he cooks indomie for you and doesn't put egg,,u fit start the quarrel that wud lead to break up.

Teebashy:
I have been dating this guy for the past 3yrs, we love each other but am the type of no sex before marriage. Although he agreed but he still makes some move whenever am with him which i alway decline.
My problem is that i know he need sex which i dnt want to give and i dnt want him to cheat on me nd i dnt want to be selfish by denying him and i dnt want to break his heart.
So my fellow nairaland, your advice is needed on how to break up with him without hurting him much.
NB: it is my friend that need d advice not me

what is it with girls nd "no sex" till marriage? if u dont want sex, date an impotent or date a guy u wld neva c till wedding day...

iranu

Prayer and communication is the key...

The first step in solving a problem is; admitting you have a problem..

The dude Is your boyfriend admit it

justified19:
what is it with girls nd "no sex" till marriage? if u dont want sex, date an impotent or date a guy u wld neva c till wedding day...

iranu

uncle, u don vex

Anyss:
Chai op. So u wanna brk up wif a guy dat has been gud, caring, loving #donno bout faithful sha# to u for 3 years jus cos he make advances? Mak I tell u now if afta 3 years he doesn't Mak advances to u den somtin is wrong. Its either u r not highing him or him na gay. Beta catch sense oh cos today na Sunday n plenty sense dey fly for air yakpa. Its jus normal dat he shuld be aroused and want to satisfy his urges. If u brk up jus cos of dis ehhhh,,,,, unless there's anada issh.

hmmmmm.....tru talk

Is this a counter thread to the one created by a guy earlier?

Is this a counter thread to a similar topic created by a guy earlier?

Is this an esteem-boosting counter thread to a similar topic created by a guy earlier?
Is there a hearty way to end a relationship where at least one party still burns with the original love? I would simply say break up when you have rationally observed that a relationship adds no value to your wellbeing.

You have to be selfish and brutish at times in order to pull out of a worthless love relationship. Tears? Heartbreak? Not new. They will always move on.

You can't make an omlet without breaking the egg dummy!


Take some guys, beat him up, and tell him to his face. "I'm done with your punkass"

Done deal. You don't have to thank me

Teebashy:
uncle, u don vex

I vex o..if u no wan sex, no enta relationship..simple

Politicos:
Is this a counter thread to a similar topic created by a guy earlier?

it is nt oooo

justified19:
I vex o..if u no wan sex, no enta relationship..simple

noted sir

Politicos:
Is this a counter thread to a similar topic created by a guy earlier?

You just spoke my mind

u bin dating for 3years without sex right?
u wicked. walai, 3years without nothing and u want to break up now. 3 whole years!!!!!

Generalpapiiii:
u bin dating for 3years without sex right?
u wicked. walai, 3years without nothing and u want to break up now. 3 whole years!!!!!

Take it easy now uncle

Teebashy:

it is nt oooo

Anyway I have provided something for you.

Rukkydelta:
You just spoke my mind

I was on the said thread. Anyway that's their way here in Romance section.

Teebashy:
Take it easy now uncle

lol. but seriously its not fair

Politicos:

Anyway I have provided something for you.

yp......tanx

Generalpapiiii:
lol. but seriously its not fair

life is nt far......but am nt d 1

Lols! #nosexb4marriage. so three good yrs d guy endured wt u n uav d ordersity, temerity and mind to quit? I wish u well in ur next relationship cos he didn't deserve u! get a guy like me as ur next and everyday u ll crave 4 ur ex as such a gentle man! u don't jst love him! jst gv me his number, I ll call him n tell him 2 leave u alone nd I ll also give him a very mature gurl he could date wt sense!

utenwuson:
Lols! #nosexb4marriage. so three good yrs d guy endured wt u n uav d ordersity, temerity and mind to quit? I wish u well in ur next relationship cos he didn't deserve u! get a guy like me as ur next and everyday u ll crave 4 ur ex as such a gentle man! u don't jst love him! jst gv me his number, I ll call him n tell him 2 leave u alone nd I ll also give him a very mature gurl he could date wt sense!

bros, u don vex

Teebashy:
life is nt far......but am nt d 1

lol. true, I almost 4got