Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.

go and see a doctor

Dude above. Wetin doctor wan do for am. If d gal no gree den u gotta try n forget ha. Easiest way is to get a temporary distraction.

Turn her from employee to Oga Madam. It's as simple as that

Make person no disvirgin himself quick, na bad thing.

Op, go ashawo house relieve yourself when you're pressed, and you need to ride a horse.

My prayers are with you!

UnknownT:
Turn her from employee to Oga Madam. It's as simple as that

Correct advice!! After all OP and d babe are single

UnknownT:
Turn her from employee to Oga Madam. It's as simple as that

lol..please how will i go about it?

kilode100:
Make person no disvirgin himself quick, na bad thing.

Op, go ashawo house relieve yourself when you're pressed, and you need to ride a horse.

My prayers are with you!

Thanks for your prayers but i dont do olushos..

My brother nothing do you joor. Just don't tell her anything again after two weeks she no respond move on.

Anyss:
Dude above. Wetin doctor wan do for am. If d gal no gree den u gotta try n forget ha. Easiest way is to get a temporary distraction.

what kind of distraction will you suggest for me?

While this may be ok, according to Mafia Manager this is a business taboo. Quickly sort yourself out and take a decision before it adversely affects your business.

mudility:


lol..please how will i go about it?

lol. See question, make I come give am Belle for you?

Cholls:
My brother nothing do you joor. Just don't tell her anything again after two weeks she no respond move on.

Thanks for the advice

As lovely as a genuine love will seem if a employer falls for a good employee, I don't think I cn do it...if @ all I would date him I will leave the company first den we begin our romance outside the business I cnt even think of working in the same company with my husband let alone befriend my oga..esp wen he go hav to strafe

You call it a kind of poo? People find attraction anywhere. It is no crime! But as a boss, your business place is not your love garden. Once it becomes your love garden, and the love is wrongly managed, your business becomes the first casualty.

Lust or love? You need to filter it properly because it could be either. As for the lady, she is now uncomfortable around you. Two possibilities. One, she doesn't share what you feel for her. Implication. She could date you to get financial and workplace favours to the detriment of your business. Two, she probably sees a boss who wants to ride a 'disfavoured' ass. She might be right.

Use your conscience. Unless it is mutual, let her be!

mudility:

what kind of distraction will you suggest for me?

A gal frnd. Might be temporary. Works like magic

Smh

Which kin help you want op?

UnknownT:
lol. See question, make I come give am Belle for you?

ahan.. i will not impose my feelings on her just because am her boss. Infact i don't want suit of sexual harassment. I only made my feelings known to her as a gentleman.

mudility:
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Please friends i need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that i think i have fallen inlove with one of my female worker and it driving me crazy.

Am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employee. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she posses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she have be uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i realy value her services to my business and its okay if she say no.

Honestly i do love her but dont realy know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.

A good rule of thumb is to not sh1t where one eats.

she is simply having cold feet on giving u response... maybe she thinks u just want to play around and dump her... let her see the seriousness in you and start making moves to meet her people...

Anyss:

A gal frnd. Might be temporary. Works like magic

seeing a good girl hard me pass calculus. still finking were to find one.

noblemails:
she is simply having cold feet on giving u response... maybe she thinks u just want to play around and dump her... let her see the seriousness in you and start making moves to meet her people...

Do you mean i should meet her people?

A wise one (Vince Masuka) once said these powerful words:

"When it comes to matters of the heart, always follow your dïck"

Oga u put her in a really uncomfortable situation. Now if u do anyhow e go become another tin

Seriously tho, it's kind of inappropriate and irresponsible of u. Don't mix business with pleasure

BuddhaPalm:


A good rule of thumb is to not sh1t where one eats.

yea i have come across that but i thing there can be an exception to it. I do realy love her.

mudility:
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Please friends i need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that i think i have fallen inlove with one of my female worker and it driving me crazy.

Am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employee. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she posses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she have be uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i realy value her services to my business and its okay if she say no.

Honestly i do love her but dont realy know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.

Thats what U all say. When U screw her then U feel different

I don't see any Big deal here!

Why the fùcking fúck would you fücking fall in love with her? You fúcking dead in the head fûcker?

MrsPhyno:
Oga u put her in a really uncomfortable situation. Now if u do anyhow e go become another tin

Seriously tho, it's kind of inappropriate and irresponsible of u. Don't mix business with pleasure

I know, that why i told her not worry about my feelings that i value her service more to my business. But to be honest i have falling deeply for her.but it will not be a crime if a boss get married to employee na

mudility:

seeing a good girl hard me pass calculus. still finking were to find one.

Not somtin permanent. Is a temporary arrangement

Politicos:
You call it a kind of poo? People find attraction anywhere. It is no crime! But as a boss, your business place is not your love garden. Once it becomes your love garden, and the love is wrongly managed, your business becomes the first casualty.

Lust or love? You need to filter it properly because it could be either. As for the lady, she is now uncomfortable around you. Two possibilities. One, she doesn't share what you feel for her. Implication. She could date you to get financial and workplace favours to the detriment of your business. Two, she probably sees a boss who wants to ride a 'disfavoured' ass. She might be right.

Use your conscience. Unless it is mutual, let her be!

I will let her be. This is actually the first time am falling for my worker.