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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:17pm On Nov 15, 2015
pomsky:



[size=14pt]........since y'all come to NL for problem solving, y didn't u tell us b4 hitting on her? U didn't even first find out if she was in a serious relationship! angry[/size]

Every relationship is up for grabs.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by luvinhubby(m): 9:18pm On Nov 15, 2015
Foolish boy. angry
Date her - She rides you and will disrespect you among other staff and that will create a weak boss and dead business.
Marry her - Business partners and clients sees you as a blaady womanising unserious businessman not worthy of patronage.
Try ignore her - Your emotions will always run riots in the office and lead to poor and badly judged business decisions.

Fire her sharp sharp, a thriving business is better than emotional satisfaction.

Thank me later.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:18pm On Nov 15, 2015
DuchessLily:


Eyaahh.. So u can't reason, cos if u could, u would reason from the story that she is single

Itz true that you reason,but you should stop reasoning like a crayfish,thank you.
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:18pm On Nov 15, 2015
mudility:

so what would i have done?lol

Never ever be forward darling. Let her know you like her but keep a distance.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by lakeside30: 9:19pm On Nov 15, 2015
damocool:
End time



Bros how market,help me greet your brothers,Lasisi,hooli and rilwayne #endtime#
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by HARDDON: 9:19pm On Nov 15, 2015
MrsPhyno:

True. And u seem like a nice and honest person bros. There are only two things left to know. Is she single? Does she also like you? Love is not by force grin
Good luck sha I want an invitation to the wedding


3 very whack traits of guys that dont get it with Ladies: 1) Nice 2) Honest 3) Askin a gurl out in dis age... den d op added d extra special bomb shell of doing d askin @ his own bizness environ.

Op, here is what u just did: u made her lost respect for u as her boss.
Made her start watching her back so as to avoid u raping her( hence her been unconfortable) . She sees u like some1 dat wano use her n toss her( taking advantage of her) she is not even sure if u aint sleeping with d other employee already.

N bliv me, she has told her best frnd n probably d other employee about d incidence n they've had a gud laugh @ u! embarassed ( i just hate nice guys)


Instead of telling her, u shld hv applied d reverse engineering mode....buh u spoilt it already, so no need to school ur nice weak sorry a33.

How did u even plan it? That she wud agree n two of u wud start dating , then she does something terribly wrong u cant scold her yet d other makes a lil mistake n u up @ her throat? Think u can stand d tension?


WAY FORWARD: LET HER BE! ZONE ZERO.
Dont ever bring that talk up again, everthing goes back to status quo. boss - employee r/shp.
There r other gurls out there. dont sell urself short.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by mudility(m): 9:20pm On Nov 15, 2015
slightlyMad:
you dont tell her,
build it up by giving her more attention, be nice to her.
when you go out, but her meals if you can
let it roll for like a month.

then ask her out, she will not object
then spill the beans
the did has already been done. i know l messed up. i will just forget and languish in her love inside my heart.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by awesome11(m): 9:21pm On Nov 15, 2015
Anyss:


Not somtin permanent. Is a temporary arrangement

And would you be happy to be that lady he goes into the temporary arrangement with?

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by alterswerve(m): 9:22pm On Nov 15, 2015
kilode100:
Make person no disvirgin himself quick, na bad thing.

Op, go ashawo house relieve yourself when you're pressed, and you need to ride a horse.

My prayers are with you!

I'm disappointed.







Coming from a lady... Too bad







Did the OP talk about sex?









So if a guy tells you he likes you, it means he wants to have sex with you... Hmm... That's how you were taught.









Ooni lakaye..









So disappointing

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by DuchessLily(f): 9:22pm On Nov 15, 2015
sauceny:


Itz true that you reason,but you should stop reasoning like a crayfish,thank you.

Imagine!!! Does What u just typed make sense? *SMH*

How old are u?? 5yrs?

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:26pm On Nov 15, 2015
DuchessLily:

Does What u just typed

Tell me the truth,who taught you english¿

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by hotnsexy4christ(f): 9:26pm On Nov 15, 2015
mudility:

Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me., nah so when you sex her finish nah, your eyes go clear, then you will come back to nairaland and start telling us story that she is not your. Class, she can nopt speak , bla bla bla bla bla, abeg free the babe jor. If you know you are trully in love, then leave her for now, watch and monitor her, and if you are ok with her, then hang transformer and propose to her.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by alterswerve(m): 9:29pm On Nov 15, 2015
OP.. Observe a strict, but not unfriendly formal relationship with her. Let what goes on between you two be about your business and your business alone.

Yeah... You can be thinking bout her at night.. You'll get over it. Buh never let her know. Just take my advice and thank me... Soon
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Psittacus(m): 9:30pm On Nov 15, 2015
You just wan throw tantrum in your business. Business and affection don't mix. U can have it either ways but not both. Why can't u just pocket ur feelings and make your money. She's going to leave at d end of dis month, if she's d gurl claim she is.
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by mudility(m): 9:31pm On Nov 15, 2015
Speechless3:


Never ever be forward darling. Let her know you like her but keep a distance.
thanks
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by jide114(m): 9:32pm On Nov 15, 2015
There is a thin line between love an infatuation.
So you must truely know which one is on. And again we fall in love with people when we look at their good side but can we still love them when they show us their not so good side. Most atimes love becomes hate and regrets when we experience the unpleasant part of a person. I will advice you to build friendship and deep sense of conversation with her, this way you will get to know her inner personality more and she too know you more and if it works it doesn't matter that your worker becomes your wife.
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by spartan50(m): 9:33pm On Nov 15, 2015
mudility:

Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.
my brother it is wrong to date your staff. It brings disrespect.Look outside my brother or this girl might ruin your efforts or make you bbetter. Its both way
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by femmysin(m): 9:36pm On Nov 15, 2015
mudility:

Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.


Eeyah sorry my good friend, seriously I share your plight cos I have been in a similar situation. As much as there's no place one cannot find love, d work place os is a very wrong place to find one (whereas yours is more complicated cos she's ur employee, but the advice I would give you is if u truly love her give her time to decide and don't use her answer against her, if its positive, try get her a new job somewhere else and play your love with her outside ur business. Remember the ssaying don't miss business with pleasure mo matter what.
May God help you.
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:36pm On Nov 15, 2015
mudility:

thanks
always
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by mudility(m): 9:37pm On Nov 15, 2015
HARDDON:



3 very whack traits of guys that dont get it with Ladies: 1) Nice 2) Honest 3) Askin a gurl out in dis age... den d op added d extra special bomb shell of doing d askin @ his own bizness environ.

Op, here is what u just did: u made her lost respect for u as her boss.
Made her start watching her back so as to avoid u raping her( hence her been unconfortable) . She sees u like some1 dat wano use her n toss her( taking advantage of her) she is not even sure if u aint sleeping with d other employee already.

N bliv me, she has told her best frnd n probably d other employee about d incidence n they've had a gud laugh @ u! embarassed ( i just hate nice guys)


Instead of telling her, u shld hv applied d reverse engineering mode....buh u spoilt it already, so no need to school ur nice weak sorry a33.

How did u even plan it? That she wud agree n two of u wud start dating , then she does something terribly wrong u cant scold her yet d other makes a lil mistake n u up @ her throat? Think u can stand d tension?


WAY FORWARD: LET HER BE! ZONE ZERO.
Dont ever bring that talk up again, everthing goes back to status quo. boss - employee r/shp.
There r other gurls out there. dont sell urself short.
thanks for this bro. I have learnt my lesson the hard way. I would still prefer your suggestion to help others not to fall into this shlt.

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:39pm On Nov 15, 2015
mudility:

Please friends I need your help on the way forward.
The thing is that I think I have fallen in love with one of my female workers and it's driving me crazy.

I am running a sport betting shop and i have two female employees. Lately i have caught myself sleeping and waking up with the thought of her.

Am currently single and i love the qualities and character she possesses.

Three days back i told her how i felt about her and realy want to start something serious with her. Omo after i told her my feelings, she has been uncomfortable around me.

I told her yesterday that i noticed she is uncomfortable with what i told her. I told her i really value her services to my business and it's okay if she says no.

Honestly i do love her but don't really know how i will go about it anymore.

Please if you have been in this kind of shit before, let me know how you handled it. help a brother out please.
bros! Keep your prick one place undecided

If you are running your own business, you don't date or make advance with your female employee!

Cos you are looking like a rappist here. angry
This is sexual harassment here!

Cos once you can't hold your prick! You may use force to r ape them by tell them you won't pay their salaries unless they sleep with youangry


If you have sense! Stop it now!

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by joefranky(m): 9:40pm On Nov 15, 2015
Just calm down.Since u've express ur mind,just respect her integrity and watch how she will respond

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by stevedeey(m): 9:42pm On Nov 15, 2015
Women are like shadow; follow them,they run away,get away from them, they follow you....if she's meant for you, and you are honest, she will come for u!

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by jabojafa(m): 9:43pm On Nov 15, 2015
jst two ladies under u and u hv fallen for one already. U cnt really say its luv until u see d oda side of her. What if u were a lecturer who had access to so many female students nko? Dt mean u go wan na.ck all of dem? If out of every 2girls u fall for one den in a class population of about 100girls u go fall for 50 of dem?

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by MayhorE(m): 9:43pm On Nov 15, 2015
shocked, chai! U don enter one chance niyan o

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by jabojafa(m): 9:43pm On Nov 15, 2015
Except u r vry sure u will marry her in d next 12months, do nt proceed on dis mission. Dating ur employee is nt gud. It has both spiritual n physical implications. U may end up loosin ur respect amongst ur staff becos of dis singular act.
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by fredopareto(m): 9:45pm On Nov 15, 2015
noblemails:
she is simply having cold feet on giving u response... maybe she thinks u just want to play around and dump her... let her see the seriousness in you and start making moves to meet her people...
advicer...meet her pple ke,jst like dat

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Nobody: 9:45pm On Nov 15, 2015
free2ryhme:



You will never learn business and pleasure don't mix
thank you!

That's a very bad move to make in your own business,

You won't have that concentration and the more the passion for her! The more you will be tempted to use your employer power to get what you want and SACK her immediately.

This is an abuse
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by pman001(m): 9:46pm On Nov 15, 2015
my dear friend kindly erase dat thought from ur mind...one rule u must apply wen ur a boss is never allow anything come between you and your worker (emotional) cos it will definitely bring disrespect and ur buznis will suffer..

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Lilshegz(m): 9:48pm On Nov 15, 2015
Women r lik shadow. She will soon cum after u

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Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Tvegas(m): 9:49pm On Nov 15, 2015
Business and Romance is a toxic mix dont kill your business before its time . You need to be very careful. You could have been more diplomatic in making your intention known by asking her out on several dates and making her comfortable around you. Bluntly asking her out can be overwhelming.
Re: Help! I Am In Love With My Employee by Lewismartins69: 9:50pm On Nov 15, 2015
UnknownT:
lol. See question, make I come give am Belle for you?
he say na him wife they read well oo

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