Good people of Nairaland, I am currently at a crossroad to either let a girl I love go or to try more, I've been friend with this girl for a while (2 years), during which I've asked her out once and I got that most dreaded response ( NO). The response does not seems to affect our friendship negatively as I didn't have a change in attitude towards her, but about some months ago a guy asked her out and she made him understand that she has a boyfriend (Me) and I get to know this through a mutual friend with the guy. This made me decided to ask her out again but I still got the No response which left me with a lot of questions like is she playing hard to guy? Did she just use me to chase the other guy away? Or she is truely not interested?. Though I have decided to move on, but I am not sure if I am making the right decision. Your advice and recommendations will be highly appreciated.

Its possible shes really having a guy but just want to use you to chase away other guys or shes in love with you but playing hard to get... Since you people are friends, try tell her that you have found a new love. Exaggerate it to her to see her reaction, then her reaction will show you if shes really interested in you or not..





Good luck mr loverboy

pet4ril:
Its possible shes really having a guy but just want to use you to chase away other guys

NO, she doesn't.

or shes in love with you but playing hard to get... Since you people are friends, try tell her that you have found a new love. Exaggerate it to her to see her reaction, then her reaction will show you if shes really interested in you or not..





Good luck mr loverboy

she might love the guy but forming or pretending not to.

Op, this kind of ladies eh, you are wasting time asking her out. Just invite her to your house and make sexual move towards her. ( I am not telling you to rape or force her ) .

If the result of your move is positive, no need to ask her out anymore you guys are already in but if the result is negative, Forget asking her out and look for your date else where.

THERE ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT IF SHE REALLY LIKES YOU.................ASK ANOTHER GIRL OUT.

NO NEED TO THANK ME.

agarawu23:
NO, she doesn't.
she might love the guy but forming or pretending not to.

Op, this kind of ladies eh, you are wasting time asking her out. Just invite her to your house and make sexual move towards her. ( I am not telling you to rape or force her ) .

If the result of your move is positive, no need to ask her out anymore you guys are already in but if the result is negative, Forget asking her out and look for your date else where.

i disagree with you on if sexual move result proves negative..... It can only prove positive if the girl is a loose type because she may think the guy will see her cheaply if she agrees with his sexual oves..... The only thing is for the guy to tell her he is in kove with another woman and he can start faking calls..... I tell you the girl will becime jealous ifvshe really kove her and then he can ask her out

pet4ril:
i disagree with you on if sexual move result proves negative..... It can only prove positive if the girl is a loose type because she may think the guy will see her cheaply if she agrees with his sexual oves..... The only thing is for the guy to tell her he is in kove with another woman and he can start faking calls..... I tell you the girl will becime jealous ifvshe really kove her and then he can ask her out

if the move is positive, that doesn't mean the lady is cheap and I think it's childish for her to think in that direction.

Yes, you are right with your suggestion if the op can give it a trial.

But I just can't chase a lady that long sha, she be Beyonce?

agarawu23:
NO, she doesn't.
she might love the guy but forming or pretending not to.

Op, this kind of ladies eh, you are wasting time asking her out. Just invite her to your house and make sexual move towards her. ( I am not telling you to rape or force her ) .

If the result of your move is positive, no need to ask her out anymore you guys are already in but if the result is negative, Forget asking her out and look for your date else where.

Bro, I didn't even know you have sense, did you type this!??

Neva make d same mistake twice! Bone dah babe and toast a hotter babe dan her.. Thank me later

pet4ril:
i disagree with you on if sexual move result proves negative..... It can only prove positive if the girl is a loose type because she may think the guy will see her cheaply if she agrees with his sexual oves..... The only thing is for the guy to tell her he is in kove with another woman and he can start faking calls..... I tell you the girl will becime jealous ifvshe really kove her and then he can ask her out

Nah, some ladies don't really flow with the asking out thing, I've been there once. They just want you to become the boyfriend not asking.

For me I wouldn't want to fake anything for a lady, fake a relationship? even phone calls?? U gals too like play o

Its cos u r giving her attention. Ignore her n maybe she'll grab sense

Apart frm asking her out, y nt sit her down and ask exactly wat yu are to her.....or berra still ignore her for some time,behave like she doesn't exist and see wat her reaction will be.

engrkenny:


Bro, I didn't even know you have sense, did you type this!??

No! I vomit it

agarawu23:
No! I vomit it

Please get rid of your sectarian & political sentiments, thank me later

engrkenny:


Please get rid of your sectarian & political sentiments, thank me later

I don't understand why you people are easy to judge when you don't know their social life. Smh

Its cos u r giving her attention

agarawu23:
I don't understand why you people are easy to judge when you don't know their social life. Smh

Your comments here is the only reflection I have of you.

engrkenny:


Your comments here is the only reflection I have of you.

hmmmmm

Thanks for your contributions.

If your truly like her, my advice for you is:
''A patient 'dog' eats the Fattest bone.''
It's better you allow a girl make up her mind towards you, don't force her to.
Furthermore, guys should always enter a relationship that you know the GIRL Like/loves you more than you love her, this also takes patience.

Patience and perseverance is key to 'OTUOKE' heart!

ALT2:
Good people of Nairaland, I am currently at a crossroad to either let a girl I love go or to try more, I've been friend with this girl for a while (2 years), during which I've asked her out once and I got that most dreaded response ( NO). The response does not seems to affect our friendship negatively as I didn't have a change in attitude towards her, but about some months ago a guy asked her out and she made him understand that she has a boyfriend (Me) and I get to know this through a mutual friend with the guy. This made me decided to ask her out again but I still got the No response which left me with a lot of questions like is she playing hard to guy? Did she just use me to chase the other guy away? Or she is truely not interested?. Though I have decided to move on, but I am not sure if I am making the right decision. Your advice and recommendations will be highly appreciated.

Girls don't play hard-to-get for 2 years. When she meets guys she likes, she sleeps with them in a matter of days.

Yes, she used you to 'chase' the other guy away.

Women sha.. Causing Headache since the days of Adam

Olasco93:

Furthermore, guys should always enter a relationship that you know the GIRL Like/loves you more than you love her

Really Abeg me and person no fit play that kind rough play ooh

This is what my mates in the US Marine call FUBAR (fvckd up beyond any recognition).

My neegar, ur case of friendzone is what i called vip friendzone. She just used u to chase away the guy,simple!

I suggest u start getting laid unnecessary,drink to stupor, smoke adamawa weed, just feign unusual hostile change towards her, try to show her u dnt give two flying jet li fvcks about her anymore and........wait, u knw what, just ignore my advice and just move on.

This is what my mates in the US Marine call FUBAR (fvckd up beyond any recognition).

My neegar, ur case of friendzone is what i called vip friendzone. She just used u to chase away the guy,simple!

I suggest u start getting laid unnecessary,drink to stupor, smoke adamawa weed, just feign unusual hostile change towards her, try to show her u dnt give two flying jet li fvcks about her anymore and........wait, u knw what, just ignore my advice and just move on.

This is what my mates in the US Marine call FUBAR (fvckd up beyond any recognition).

My neegar, ur case of friendzone is what i call 'vip friendzone'. She just used u to chase away the guy,simple!

I suggest u start getting laid unnecessary,drink to stupor, smoke adamawa weed, just feign unusual hostile change towards her, try to show her u dnt give two flying jet li fvcks about her anymore and........wait, u knw what, just ignore my advice and just move on.