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I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by comoestas: 3:44am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Hello, I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun. 6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week. I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand. Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me. I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out. Nairaladers, how do I end this> 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by raayah(f): 3:47am On Nov 16, 2015 |
If you want to make it clear to him that its over, you have to tell him EXACTLY what he did to turn you off in the relationship and why he cant fix it. You cant sugar coat anything, you have to have specifics. You have to tell him that attraction works in a certain way and once its gone, its gone. You cant get it back by hanging around each other. stop stringing this poor guy along. 47 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Raiders: 4:26am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Your man must have a very low self esteem for he to want you back after you cheated on him 228 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by daben1(m): 4:29am On Nov 16, 2015 |
I'm sure the guy is broke for now, after now you'll come back begging to reap where you did not sow... Your story is even annoying 237 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Realist5: 4:45am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Don't go back...he's set for a disastrous revenge on u. 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nature8(m): 4:52am On Nov 16, 2015 |
It's obvious that you don't know what you really want.. A guy that truly love you for you to the extent that he even said he doesn't care if you're seeing other people.. A guy you cheated and he still wants you back, well I just pity the guy sha.. I just pray that God will give him the heart to forget you cos you don't deserve him at all.. 114 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 4:52am On Nov 16, 2015 |
WHY DIDNT YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM BEFORE CHEATING ON HIM ![]() OH GOD..GIRLS WHY.. 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by agarawu23(m): 4:56am On Nov 16, 2015 |
[size=14pt] Raiders:[/size]thank you. This is what I am expecting to read 41 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Truckpusher(m): 4:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
comoestas:He's not yet done with your puccy and I can assure you that when he's done he's going to dump your ass for good maybe it might just be when you're finding the relationship quite interesting. ![]() Real niggas don't forgive a cheating woman - They will be biding their time until when it's time to hit back and very hard just to break your fragile heart in a way it will take a genuine love to mend. 100 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by pet4ril(f): 4:59am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Huhhhh ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 29 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Cutehector(m): 6:01am On Nov 16, 2015 |
He justs wants to keep fvckn u cux he misses d sex. 10 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 6:20am On Nov 16, 2015 |
End what exactly, leeching on him?? Cos if I read right, there was no "relationship" foregoing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 6:20am On Nov 16, 2015 |
End what exactly, leeching on him?? Cos if I read right, there was no "relationship" foregoing. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by valdes00(m): 6:33am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Bitches everywhere..... *shakes head*... I fear for my GF.... 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 7:12am On Nov 16, 2015 |
comoestas:i smell shiloh 2026 here.....u wantd 2 use him 2 complete ur project and later dum him?...not fair! ![]() 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 7:15am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Cutehector:did u read d part were she said she was into the relationship bcoz she wantd 2 complete a project? 6 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by alkines(m): 7:24am On Nov 16, 2015 |
I would av said d gui is a fvcked up nigar buh wen unkonjisional love is involved hmmmmmm...... 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by eyeon(m): 7:27am On Nov 16, 2015 |
comoestas:Doubt me; but most of you that leave guys this way fall into the wrong brutal hands. Be careful what you wish for... 30 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Lovexme(m): 7:33am On Nov 16, 2015 |
comoestas: You really are selfish. 42 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by MsBliss(f): 7:36am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Some guys understand 'No' as "try harder next time"
He should have just let her go when she wanted to leave. What is the need holding unto something/someone that don't want you ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by MsBliss(f): 7:36am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Me thinky he is planning a revenge. Guys don't forgive cheating easily. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by looseweight: 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Hmmmm |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
You're a cheap wh0re. I use your type for money ritual. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by kulobyno: 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Girls most often complain about how fragile there hearts are and how guys came and broke it blah blah blah. You know what, I think you are a lil gold digging bitch. Well I pity your clueless Yakub, its like he's a naive newbie otherwise there are perfect ways to handle cheating gfs that they won't forget in a hurry. Toying with a mans heart at this age of geowing men scarcity. Nonsense 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Goldenheart(m): 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Yakubu is probably a low self esteem calibre... 3 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Lesgupnigeria(m): 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
@op stop wasting your time. Do agric....it pays 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Berrylite: 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
If you love your life, move away from him because if you continue to stay wife him while cheating on him, we will be here when news that you have been stabbed in the neck by a jealous boyfriend. ![]() ![]() Click my link to view how you can manage your diabetes. 2 Likes |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Brymo: 7:58am On Nov 16, 2015 |
U r a lucky |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by Nobody: 7:59am On Nov 16, 2015 |
OP, what are you even doing with someone you know you can't be with in the future? ![]() ![]() Relationships these days sef.. 1 Like |
Re: I Cheated But He Wants Me Back by ultrazone(m): 7:59am On Nov 16, 2015 |
Bad of you 2 Likes |
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