sonofananimal:
don't know if I will ever be in a relationship with a NAIJA WOMAN

You are the most greedy and useless set of WOMAN I have ever seen on this forum

That's why karma will be punishing you people.


ANIMAL

He is aware that I am staying for the project. He doesn't care. He just wants to be here.
I am asking for help to break up with him but no useful advice on this forum.
I will be seeing a therapist

Cutehector:
He justs wants to keep fvckn u cux he misses d sex.

Na yur advise b dat??..Ode

petiteee:
what was the incident dat u can't tell us U found out he smokes weed or wot and so u stayed coz of wot u wante from him? Really? U are a FRAUDster I wonder y he wants u back sef

He had a kid.

He must be an òkú òbò to be begging a sponger like you after what you've done. His family should take him to River Osun and wash his head thoroughly before you kill him. Any man that marries a parasite like you will regret it later in life.

cathodekazim:


Those igbo girls I dated have bn faithful

None of dem dumped me

They are straightforward and honest.
Well cynthia told me pointblank tht if I see someone to marry, I shd go for her, cos of tribal diff, she didn't cheated on me, she lemme knw her stance
Bt yoruba girls will never
Thr way of telln a man to go is by sayin yes to another man, havn secret sex with him and waiting for you to find out

Na dem double date pass, 1 bfrnd in thr school, 1bfrnd in thr house, 1bfrnd in thr street, 1bfrnd in thr place of work, 1 or 3bfrnds on fb, bbm and twitter

Funny you say this but we are in an inter tribal relationship. I don't think tribes have anything to do with our relationship

lastchild:
I never wanted to comment but you said something that I want to help change the mentality for you,you said "you are young and having fun" Lol.. This mentality doesn't go well for women,as long as you are mature to have a boyfriend,you are ripe for marriage and before you know it,its becoming late,change that mentality that you are young and having fun

I am not ready for marriage. I am still a selfish woman and will not settle down until I am financially and emotionally capable of running a home. I know who I am.

lolu20:
yakub definitely wants a revenge.Bleep her ass out.and post d video on social media.

Yakub is not familiar with social media

noblemails:



The project is completed next week. you just murdered English here

I don't know why you have decided to focus on my grammar. As long as you understand it. Do I need to have a dictionary beside me to write a post on nairaland?

PussyFucker2:
You're a cheap wh0re.
I use your type for money ritual.

Daz ma G,com chop knockle jor...inshort Abeq send yur acct no. Mek ah send 7k insyd nanana 4 wetin yew jst talk...

comoestas:


No where in my comment did I mention money. I am an independent woman

No where in my comment did I mention that you mentioned money. Look up the word sarcasm when you get a chance.

I don't give a rats a$$ what kind of Woman you are, you are of no use to me.

comoestas:
Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

he is stupid and naïve ...and can never be committed to you

OP u have a problem just admit it.....i will advice u to server all avenue of communication with this guy whatsapp, facebook, twitter, text, calls and what have u! since u know he is not bringing anything concrete to the relationship and u dont see any future with him, call and tell him politely that its over and u are seeing someone else in a way that at the end both of u will be stronger and happy. within 3-4 months memories of him about you will be significantly erased from his soul.

pet4ril:
Huhhhh Error/toxic sign No (1) he said he doesn't mind seeing you with other niggas (2) you ones cheated on him and he said his life is incomplete without you.......... You sef, you knew nothing was good was going to come out between you both concerning the future and you still went in because you were working on a project... are you a parasite "IF MARRIAGE IS NOT THE GOAL, then WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP

... I know a reasonable comment when i see 1.. Thumbs up to u jare, ur head is valid

comoestas:


Funny you say this but we are in an inter tribal relationship. I don't think tribes have anything to do with our relationship

Abeg who be you oooo

comoestas:


He had a kid.

Thanks for replying and being civil about i . I see you missed some vital info that could have given us context. The project was a personal car project. The challenge was that he had a kid. Finally he is a mechanic. Did you know he had a kid from day one or he told u after after? If he told u much later and it is a deal breaker then no issues. Are u guys from the same social strata? That is an issue 90% of d time unless we wan pretend. U said he is a mechanic. Like a Naija mechanic or also a graduate?

With d extra info, it does not look so bad. But it seems u still wanna eat ur cake and have it. I guess d sex is good and he is a nice guy so u feel guilty. Or u even love him more than the new guy but the social strata might be a challenge. Life is hard sometimes. No one can advice u much but don't make him hate u. Sit him down and talk to him. But I suspect every time u see him u guys have to bleep. Babes, maybe u just have to manage two bfs o. I suspect d difference in social status. Which is y he says he will date u all d same. Will the new guy know dis arrangement? Hmmmmm. Nice to share. I wish u d best my dear.

daben1:
I'm sure the guy is broke for now, after now you'll come back begging to reap where you did not sow...
Your story is even annoying

I don't care about yakubs money. If it was money, I would have left a long time ago. Yakub does not even make much more than me

comoestas:

If you are asking if we had sex. Yes!

Mitcheeeeeeew......datz not wat I mean joor, sex ends on bed n datz all MR

Truckpusher:
He's not yet done with your puccy and I can assure you that when he's done he's going to dump your ass for good maybe it might just be when you're finding the relationship quite interesting.
Real niggas don't forgive a cheating woman - They will be biding their time until when it's time to hit back and very hard just to break your fragile heart in a way it will take a genuine love to mend.

Sadly, I know Yakub. He's not the kind of man you describe. He's not a real nigger.

tiwiex:


Thanks for replying and being civil about i . I see you missed some vital info that could have given us context. The project was a personal car project. The challenge was that he had a kid. Finally he is a mechanic. Did you know he had a kid from day one or he told u after after? If he told u much later and it is a deal breaker then no issues. Are u guys from the same social strata? That is an issue 90% of d time unless we wan pretend. U said he is a mechanic. Like a Naija mechanic or also a graduate?

With d extra info, it does not look so bad. But it seems u still wanna eat ur cake and have it. I guess d sex is good and he is a nice guy so u feel guilty. Or u even love him more than the new guy but the social strata might be a challenge. Life is hard sometimes. No one can advice u much but don't make him hate u. Sit him down and talk to him. But I suspect every time u see him u guys have to bleep. Babes, maybe u just have to manage two bfs o. I suspect d difference in social status. Which is y he says he will date u all d same. Will the new guy know dis arrangement? Hmmmmm. Nice to share. I wish u d best my dear.

He doesn't have a degree but that's not a deal breaker for me. I always knew he had a kid.The deal breaker was when his baby mama came over and attacked me for breaking up her family ( This is the incident).

Estharfabian:
That's How We roll... Proudly Mbaise!

LoL! Buh seriously..All the lady he Dated Were "Yorubaz"...He should try Igbo Or Calabar girls...they wouldn't dare cheat On him..

This same lady is an Igbo girl

comoestas:
Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

Don't go back to him so he can find the one he deserves. The annoying thing about this yakub guy like most guys in general is that they always chase after ladies that treat them badly. When they meet good ladies, they take her for granted. Most times,they marry the good ones but still chase the bad ones and shower them with gifts. Then they will be nagging about how today's ladies have turned bad. Rubbish.

comoestas:


I don't know why you have decided to focus on my grammar. As long as you understand it. Do I need to have a dictionary beside me to write a post on nairaland?

Dnt you know about the e-warriors? lol

PussyFucker2:
You're a cheap wh0re.
I use your type for money ritual.

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laugh wan kill me for here.

U cheated on im nd still want u back..is dix luv or revenge tinx?advice is notin..Follow ur mind dear

Please read my new post.

comoestas:


He had a kid.

seriously? Ow is dat a big deal? Can't it happen to you to? Except u don't engage in pre-marital sex! If u do, ask ursef wot if u had a kid and coz of dat ur fiancé says he can't have a future with u coz of dat! Ow Wud u feel? Sincerely dat not enough reason to not want to be with him! Daz unfair na and to top it, u stayed coz of d project he's helping u with. Haba!

comoestas:


He doesn't have a degree but that's not a deal breaker for me. I always knew he had a kid.The deal breaker was when his baby mama came over and attacked me for breaking up her family ( This is the incident).

oh! I see. U shd ve given us the full story at the very beginning nau. Am sorry for the hash words. I take dem all back. Now I really don't knw wot to say. Is well.at this point I will say follow ur mind. U obviously can't be with him. Don't force it

comoestas:


I am not ready for marriage. I am still a selfish woman and will not settle down until I am financially and emotionally capable of running a home. I know who I am.

Lol..as if when you are financially and emotional capable like you said then you'll command a man of your choice and go marry

What if you are ready and didn't see any man your way?

[color=#000099][/color]Really really selfish....

Lovexme:



You really are selfish.

Liars be like...

comoestas:
Hello,

I have been dating my boyfriend (call him Yakub) for around 10 months now. When we met, I knew we could never have a future together but I decided to go for it anyway. I am young and i was having fun.

6 Months into the relationship, a very bad incident occurred ( It's related to the reason why we cannot have a future). I couldn't take it. I tried to break up with him but he begged and asked for another chance.I had lost interest in the relationship. I stayed because i was working on a project and he was assisting. I decided that after the project was completed i would break up finally. The project is completed next week.

I met a nice guy 3 months ago and we began casually seeing each other, this weekend. Nothing serious. This weekend Yakub found the texts and was outraged. He broke up with me on the spot. I apologized and told him I understand.

Only for him to call me and beg this evening, saying that he does not mind me seeing other people, he said his life is incomplete without me. He just wants me for me.

I told him NO, but he won't stop. I feel guilty about everything but I also know it wont work out.

Nairaladers, how do I end this>

Cheating is disrespectful

No guy in is right senses will take such nonsense

His totally in for a pay back

My
Advice......

Go back to him o, your owning him for cheating on him, and while your at it, give in your best this time....

Pay your debt well..