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I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 6:44am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Good morning ppl,hope the dark hours brought nice sleep with it. let me go straight to the point. I was once the typical bad boy, never believed I will ever get trapped by anything called love, after a while I decided to stop cause I wasn't helping myself. I shut down for a long while, but I started feeling empty and lonely, then I met this pretty lady when I was going for a jamb tutorial. I decided to give myself a chance with this lady, and it happened like a movie, I fell in love!! For the first time in life, it was so awesome, was this what I was missing??. But after 5months disaster struck, she started messing around, I immediately called off the relationship, she came back with a friend of mine and apologised, I had to accept when she started acting funny cause we were in a public place. Things began going well again, before 2mnths she was at it again. I decided to break bridge and that I did. It got into my head, it made me see the right in the bad I used to do. Instinctively I went back to my former life, I did things am currently not proud of. After a while, I decided to turn a new leaf again. I got admission and was single all through my freshman year, it got lonely, I decided to give my self a shot, then I noticed this beautiful and calm girl, took her number one of the days and we agreed to meet. We started dating, she was everything you could want in a lady, intelligent, extremely beautiful, caring, and she loved me with all her heart. Along the line I started feeling detached, I dnt call, text or chat her up, I wasn't cheating either but I wasn't being there for her, she began complaining it got to a point she sent me airtime so I could call her. At a point I realized I was really hurting this lady, one of the days she was asking if I still loved her, I decided to let her go and I told her she could carry on with her life that I have problems with myself. The wost part was that it was online that I broke up with her. It was sure tough on her, I wasn't feeling good either, I've even been single since I left her, I just decided to let her go and stop hurting her, her friends became enemies with me, even my own friends told me I screwed up. I felt really bad. Amidst all the drama, I decided to get a bit close to her, so I could let her know she did nothing wrong that it was all on Me, she assured me she has forgiven me but kept on asking why I just left when she did nothing wrong, I had no answer for her. But the problem is the communication is becoming flirty, I didn't plan on that before, but I can't just help it, and she's getting comfortable talking to me again. A part of me still don't want anything to happen because I dnt even trust myself. Since the first girl left,I just have this shallow feeling that just empty once I get close to someone, Am even afraid cause this might continue till when am ready to marry. I have luck with ladies, they are always very beautiful and do not demand but I just can't find love again. Pls the reason behind this post is to get help on the aforementioned issue,thanks ppl |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by mekd: 6:48am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Pray ![]() |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 6:50am On Nov 18, 2015 |
mekd:Hahaha,bruv this one no be prayer matter oo |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by hertz9te(m): 6:50am On Nov 18, 2015 |
you writing jamb you said.....?shouldn't you be more focused on passing?...justsAying |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by pet4ril(f): 6:54am On Nov 18, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Am entitled to my opinion though ![]() |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 6:58am On Nov 18, 2015 |
hertz9te: Am in my 300l currently bro |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 7:01am On Nov 18, 2015 |
pet4ril: ![]() Btw I wasn't that young, About finding love in any lady, the thing dey frighten me, It doesn't seem to work and I dnt want to hurt anybody again |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by hertz9te(m): 7:02am On Nov 18, 2015 |
faith551:so y'all been dating for how many years again? |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 7:11am On Nov 18, 2015 |
hertz9te: Can't tell, but the first girl I dated was in senior high-school, ss3 to be precise. So you see, you might have started dating prior to that time. |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by iceberylin(m): 7:12am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Jambites forming Badoo ![]() ![]() Read your book bro.. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by chukel(m): 7:12am On Nov 18, 2015 |
Be serious with your academics. Next you will give tales of how u ended up with a 3rd class degree. |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by Nobody: 7:29am On Nov 18, 2015 |
where can I get fuel, Am almost late . |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by pet4ril(f): 7:29am On Nov 18, 2015 |
faith551:hmmmm your own strong i swear |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 7:32am On Nov 18, 2015 |
iceberylin: Oga make una read well nau, Am in my 300level in the University |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 7:34am On Nov 18, 2015 |
chukel: Am serious with my studies, and my grades are perfect, a 2nd class lower is not even an option for me not to talk of a 3rd class |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by iceberylin(m): 7:34am On Nov 18, 2015 |
faith551:U formed I don't fall in love when u were a Jambite.. Read ya post ![]() |
Re: I Need Your Advice Ppl, Am Instinctively Reestablishing Communication With My Ex by faith551(m): 7:42am On Nov 18, 2015 |
iceberylin: That I was writing jamb does not mean I was immature, I wrote my last jamb three years after I left high school |
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