JigsawKillah:



this is morning, and Naijaboy na my guy from way back! Chill


Good Morning

bennyrazz:
what are your experiences in life? and drop that word "Dear"

apotek:

Mtcheew!
Na the only two things u learn be that? As if na only online scammers dey..

bennyrazz:
I wrote on threads relating to this issue earlier that i will try as much as possible to be objective because of just one thing. I have conscience. I asked for evidences as well and so far so good, we are seeing some.

However coogar, i'm bothered about few things;

1. Use of multiple credit cards
2. Your accountant or financial advisor (arif) does he have a practicing office in UK
3. You coming to Lagos to do BVN, which bank? (Do you have airline tickets to back up the claim)
4. Why did you decide to be paying for her school fees in the first place with your card if you are going to ask her to send the money to you back via WU
5. Whatever was Photoshopped, can you show us the original?

wonlasewonimi:
That's not his surname sha

Cheekychic:
NB: i opened this moniker due to the personal sensitive info i might have to add. am not "New" on NL. i have seen different e-fights (INSPIRED/PLANTINUMK) (SHOPCLUE) (OGUGUA/SEXKILL/ETC) & the last in the Auto section (REVOLUTION/INSPIRED) and i must add This thread and every other thread doesn't worth 2 consenting adults opening their "Dirts" for some online persons.

First off @ BABE3, What ever type of hurt you might be going I have gone through abit of it before.

I once dated a "Fraud" of a guy, I was 2 years older than you back then, initially I didn't know that was what he did buy ofcourse in less than 6 months it was very glaring what he did, his was even worse as he didn't deal in CC (atleast not that I know of), but scamming people of huge sums of money, he was extremely RICH! And had networks in the US, UK and Canada, thou we lived in the UK. I suspected from his phone calls but I kept quite, WHY? I wasn't naive oo (I LOVED HIM) and was hoping & denying that I might be wrong! Anyway we broke up I was very debated, but I look back and thank God. I got up from the Dirt, Dusted myself & MOVED THE HELL ON!!!!!!

He took my innocence (virginity) and all, but I decided not to wallow in SELF PITY, this is what is expected of you, in your case BABE3, it might be SELF PITY & PITY PARTY! Yes, Pity Party of the likes of Airmark, woal...., Cococandy, etc (geering you that you are a STRONG WOMAN) to come online and wash your dirts! It's quite SAD! As the opposite is quite the case, this shows you are a WEAKLING and I fear you don't get into another "Relationship" or rather "Situationship" as the case may be with this yeye naive/weak mentality or else, OYO (On Your Own) will be your case!!!

Truckpusher is very correct, all he might have been saying might look funny, I can bet it that if these (2) people sight each other they will be back to FÛČ*ING each other, because obviously from BABE3 she hasn't let go!

Girlll do yourself a Favour, dust yourself & MOVE THE BLEEP ON! If these gets to the courts trust me you both are GOING DOWN! Anyway you prolly don't mind being an ex convict because of yeye LOVE. You have to LOVE YOURSELF! This dude doesn't worth your whole life ahead of you.

To conclude my story I MOVED ON & was WISER, now am married with a set of Twins and a godly husband and I thank God for my family. If I like you has decided to form self/pity party i would still be running around in circles or worse still ZIGZAG!

Cheers..

N:B
I was on the thread in the Family Section that started all this, Abeg where is MARRYMEE as I recalled he/she started all this and disappeared!

futurewise11:


But why ti awon obinrin shey man fall fun scam easily?

Cheekychic:
NB: i opened this moniker due to the personal sensitive info i might have to add. am not "New" on NL. i have seen different e-fights (INSPIRED/PLANTINUMK) (SHOPCLUE) (OGUGUA/SEXKILL/ETC) & the last in the Auto section (REVOLUTION/INSPIRED) and i must add This thread and every other thread doesn't worth 2 consenting adults opening their "Dirts" for some online persons.

First off @ BABE3, What ever type of hurt you might be going I have gone through abit of it before.

I once dated a "Fraud" of a guy, I was 2 years older than you back then, initially I didn't know that was what he did buy ofcourse in less than 6 months it was very glaring what he did, his was even worse as he didn't deal in CC (atleast not that I know of), but scamming people of huge sums of money, he was extremely RICH! And had networks in the US, UK and Canada, thou we lived in the UK. I suspected from his phone calls but I kept quite, WHY? I wasn't naive oo (I LOVED HIM) and was hoping & denying that I might be wrong! Anyway we broke up I was very debated, but I look back and thank God. I got up from the Dirt, Dusted myself & MOVED THE HELL ON!!!!!!

He took my innocence (virginity) and all, but I decided not to wallow in SELF PITY, this is what is expected of you, in your case BABE3, it might be SELF PITY & PITY PARTY! Yes, Pity Party of the likes of Airmark, woal...., Cococandy, etc (geering you that you are a STRONG WOMAN) to come online and wash your dirts! It's quite SAD! As the opposite is quite the case, this shows you are a WEAKLING and I fear you don't get into another "Relationship" or rather "Situationship" as the case may be with this yeye naive/weak mentality or else, OYO (On Your Own) will be your case!!!

Truckpusher is very correct, all he might have been saying might look funny, I can bet it that if these (2) people sight each other they will be back to FÛČ*ING each other, because obviously from BABE3 she hasn't let go!

Girlll do yourself a Favour, dust yourself & MOVE THE BLEEP ON! If these gets to the courts trust me you both are GOING DOWN! Anyway you prolly don't mind being an ex convict because of yeye LOVE. You have to LOVE YOURSELF! This dude doesn't worth your whole life ahead of you.

To conclude my story I MOVED ON & was WISER, now am married with a set of Twins and a godly husband and I thank God for my family. If I like you has decided to form self/pity party i would still be running around in circles or worse still ZIGZAG!

Cheers..

N:B
I was on the thread in the Family Section that started all this, Abeg where is MARRYMEE as I recalled he/she started all this and disappeared!

Toby77:


why do i think this is all Coogar inspired?

Toby77:


why do i think this is all Coogar inspired?

BoboYekini:
Isn't this someone who's supposed to be on her side? Wey dey abuse her so.
Babe3 if this doesn't open your eyes, nothing will.

bukatyne:
The Nairaland behind Nairaland....

What I find puzzling is reconciling the online characters (i.e. what they claim to stand for) to the alleged actions and inactions offline.

If this whole drama is true, then I must say it is either there is no victim only accomplice (Babe3) and offender (Coogar) or the 'offender' has been typing the posts of the 'victim' all these while.

@ Babe3:

In addition to what Jahblessme and Mindfulness has said, I would say you should go back to your parents for relationship advice and involve them more (or older relatives like cousins/aunts and uncles) in your next relationship (after complete healing of course).

You also need to get to the roots of the self esteem ish... what will make a young beautiful girl so desperate that she is suicidal?

All that glitters is not gold.

I wish you both all the best.

bennyrazz:
my stance is clear, i'm a neutral party in this. I have asked coogar some questions which he has refused to answer. R231 has asked coogar to post the evidence he sent to him and it won't be fair if coogar made an allegation earlier and we all brush it aside. We are trying to resolve this issue either in one way or the other and i think we shouldn't let our emotions cloud our Judgements.

NinjaX:

Go get a life cause I know you don't have one. You roam about NL like a drunken porcupine, looking for gossips to spread. Awon shelock holmes of NL. Yes, please, bring up more revelations let the whole world know how utterly worthless & scorned you how. Bastard son of a thousand chipmunks.