fourfunmi:
Thanks ddshow...
It true; this is your first mention. I guess you weren't online when I joined this thread. I was attracted to the maturity and inteligence here (as a confirmed sapiosexual)....no mind me...since big words are flying around I decided to throw mine.

Reserved?? Hmmm...I'm not sure about that o!
I like to refer to my self as an ambivert...you may never know which side of the coin will show.

#clearsthroat....Did I hear something about a soirée?

It's all good dearie! I think I have an idea about your personality now..and trust me, I love very intelligent women.

Yea, was thinking we can pull something up in December prolly for peeps in Lagos. Just my little thought tho.

Sparkles003:


lol.i did give him a break.
daring?? in the context of this thread define your meaning of daring.
Taking chances.if your part of the members have you taken any?
atleast in their charming self of throwing words around they kept the thread to this point.

Nah sweetie. .I thought u were harsh. .near condescending self


Well I just think the thread could be more up scale..less gist ..more escapades .

My plate is kinda full..I come to this section for laffs.

I'm sure u know what I'm driving at.

Melsan:
Babe

Oh really? I'm sure almost everyone took you for a guy.

What's your proper name?

This page should focus more on intellectual discussions. This will help people to blend in better and loosen up. The focus on romance and relationships talk serves as a hindrance to some. People in their 30s and above should have a lot of ideas about life to offer to each other and the younger generation. The same logic applies to the WhatsApp group where the focus is on people interested in hooking up.

There is a difference between trying to relate with someone and connect with someone. Focus on the latter (at least initially) will benefit more.

This is the same reason why the thread was moved to this section which took some by surprise.

My Mind as always

That is a fantastic thought!
You guys(we all) should plan something...anything...
It is a good idea.

ddshow:


It's all good dearie! I think I have an idea about your personality now..and trust me, I love very intelligent women.

Yea, was thinking we can pull something up in December prolly for peeps in Lagos. Just my little thought tho.

Much luv to evryone keeping d thread alive and exciting! Hope una day dey go fine?

Never knew melsan was a babe!

.
Missbronze mi rudegyal, u knw der be mo dan enuff okpa for every1...but only u gat d very special delivery

Ogas toks2008 and ddshow, I dey sight y'all. I go wan be like una wen I grow up . Abeg extend d soiree bottles reach my side o.

Siamia, u remain d best. Big up to u!


Enjoy ur weekend ppl!

siamia:
If u are 30 plus and single, we shd have our own thread to meet and talk.
Some of us are single, educated and ably employed. We are mature, responsible, gainfully employed, christian and godfearing. Some of us have kids that we are training and bringing up. We are involved in church, in impacting the lives of others, and contribute to the wellbeing of the society, But for one reason or the other, we are still single.
I have a lot of respect for nairaland, and I think its Nigeria's version of facebook, only better.
So if ur 30 and above, let's talk and see if the sparks will fly!
Pls note: no rude comments. Respect attracts respect. Nairalanders are great people.

Hi guys, greetings

magneto:


ur welcome dear. As for d bolded, let's just say I know a lil sompn sompn

Dis lil sompn sompn me I'm interested o,abg u don"magnet" info somwer? Hahaha

Nice one,I quite agree wit you tho,but smhw its wat we've beein doing here too.

MYMINDER:
This page should focus more on intellectual discussions. This will help people to blend in better and loosen up. The focus on romance and relationships talk serves as a hindrance to some. People in their 30s and above should have a lot of ideas about life to offer to each other and the younger generation. The same logic applies to the WhatsApp group where the focus is on people interested in hooking up.

There is a difference between trying to relate with someone and connect with someone. Focus on the latter (at least initially) will benefit more.

This is the same reason why the thread was moved to this section which took some by surprise.

My Mind as always

Hhahaha@Lastma. My sis I'm not going anywere o,I'm right inside my house for d weekend,except of I see who wan tak me out,lol! Wld be a good idea to hav fun dis weekend evn tho I'm d very private type o,and shy(trust me like I've said b4,na only here I get mouth jo,lol)
Hope ur day going well sis? Enjoy the rest of ur day*hugs*

fourfunmi:

Make I carry bag follow too?? Bcz God forbid me to be Lastma inside this matter!

Udysweet I have seen very little of it. In life, focus on other things and what you really want will come to you. It is time to go back to the basics. This romance thing first and foremost allows for too much pretense and uptight behaviors. We are human beings first and not hopeless romantics.

My mind as always

Aaaaawwn,thanks! Glad you're keeping in touch,and how's it going over there?
As for d okpa,no mind miss bronze and @magneto jo,infact I go vex enter nite bus to Enugu go find dat okpa for where dem dey sell am,thank God I sabi person for der so I fit crash wen I reach,lol. Be sure that I'll buy enough for both of us and as many who wants to join in.But btw I thot Enugu is mainly known for d local delicacy"abacha"? Cos I was in that state last year and I was told its wat really sold der. I might be wrong o,cos I never got time to evn explore the place b4 we left for lagos(went for burial)

nouvelle:
@udysweet, thanks. I hear you my dear, no wahala and BTW soirée is French for small party/gathering especially an evening event. You taught me mbok so here I am returning the favour

Magneto, ddshow, missbronze, klassic, you guys are keeping this thread alive and interesting. @magneto, o'boy, what i'd give for that okpa right now

Have a pleasant day everyone, TGIF and a lovely weekend

fourfunmi:
Haaa! I wish o!

You are the second person telling me that today!

ohh really!


That means you have a higher calling in the north

Waiting for the third person!

Hehehehehee...I cannot stop laughing...mbok, who is shy?? If I hear say you shy!
@ddshow was just 'thinking' about something for the yuletide holiday...biko start binding every spirit of shyness o!
Make sure you enjoy your weekend
#bighugs

udysweet:
Hhahaha@Lastma. My sis I'm not going anywere o,I'm right inside my house for d weekend,except of I see who wan tak me out,lol! Wld be a good idea to hav fun dis weekend evn tho I'm d very private type o,and shy(trust me like I've said b4,na only here I get mouth jo,lol)
Hope ur day going well sis? Enjoy the rest of ur day*hugs*

@udy sweet..

magneto:
Much luv to evryone keeping d thread alive and exciting! Hope una day dey go fine?

Never knew melsan was a babe!

.
Missbronze mi rudegyal, u knw der be mo dan enuff okpa for every1...but only u gat d very special delivery

Ogas toks2008 and ddshow, I dey sight y'all. I go wan be like una wen I grow up . Abeg extend d soiree bottles reach my side o.

Siamia, u remain d best. Big up to u!


Enjoy ur weekend ppl!

hmmmmm

ddshow:


Oh really? I'm sure almost everyone took you for a guy.

What's your proper name?

lol....proper name as in?

BCISLTD:



Give the dude a break..the thread is actually "dry".A thread for 30 plus singles should be more daring and more about taking chances.. (hook ups and dates ). All I see are folks trying to be charming by throwing words around. .


Well wetin concern me...just passing through. .

I notice it also when I join the thread yesterday somhow boring ,me self dey waka pass

hello house, am in my mid 20s but am sure to learn a thing or two from this thread from more experienced peeps

MYMINDER:
This page should focus more on intellectual discussions. This will help people to blend in better and loosen up. The focus on romance and relationships talk serves as a hindrance to some. People in their 30s and above should have a lot of ideas about life to offer to each other and the younger generation. The same logic applies to the WhatsApp group where the focus is on people interested in hooking up.

There is a difference between trying to relate with someone and connect with someone. Focus on the latter (at least initially) will benefit more.

This is the same reason why the thread was moved to this section which took some by surprise.

My Mind as always

good day ,can I be added to the whatsup group

Melsan:
hmmmmm

Much better now

blessedbeads:
I notice it also when I join the thread yesterday somhow boring ,me self dey waka pass

Ya see...


Well u can spice things u..go on a date with the 1st guy that asks...

tonyyayo:




Hi guys, greetings

hallos

udysweet:

Dis lil sompn sompn me I'm interested o,abg u don"magnet" info somwer? Hahaha

Udy udy, person no go get secret agn?? Oya u first tell me where u bin think say I get d info...

MYMINDER:
Udysweet I have seen very little of it. In life, focus on other things and what you really want will come to you. It is time to go back to the basics. This[b] romance thing first and foremost allows for too much pretense and uptight behaviors[/b]. We are human beings first and not hopeless romantics.

My mind as always

I agree
And also it seems some are already used to each other and neglect others on the thread.

biko send pms and let others breathe.

Carry everyone along.

Concerning organizing a get together in Lagos, am up for it

BCISLTD:



Ya see...


Well u can spice things u..go on a date with the 1st guy that asks...

Dude u really think we are here solely for ur amusement abi? Smh...oya why don't YOU ask her out?

magneto:


Dude u really think we are here solely for ur amusement abi? Smh...oya why don't YOU ask her out?

Wetin happen..u dey fear to ask her out ni...

Melsan:
lol....proper name as in?

Melsan is your moniker, what's your name?

MYMINDER:
This page should focus more on intellectual discussions. This will help people to blend in better and loosen up. The focus on romance and relationships talk serves as a hindrance to some. People in their 30s and above should have a lot of ideas about life to offer to each other and the younger generation. The same logic applies to the WhatsApp group where the focus is on people interested in hooking up.

There is a difference between trying to relate with someone and connect with someone. Focus on the latter (at least initially) will benefit more.

This is the same reason why the thread was moved to this section which took some by surprise.

My Mind as always

I believe u have a solid point bro. However u can't really expect to control peoples behaviour in a social group and besides, there is no one best way to interact and find common ground wit somebody. As we are all unique and diverse...so also are our methods.
Just initiate an intellectual conversation here and see if ppl of like reasoning won't jump on it.

BCISLTD:

Wetin happen..u dey fear to ask her out ni...

Mstcheww, i no blame u. All these second hand small boys sef...

magneto:


Mstcheww, i no blame u. All these second hand small boys sef...

Huh....dude ..think before you type..

BCISLTD:


Huh....dude ..think before you type..

Aite I'm sorry bro, I take dat back. But u shuld participate and not castigate ok