MizMyColi:


I think I love you already
True talk.
If I hear say person mention #14Years

@TheReddened
This morning, I was off balance.

If I hadn't fought Zeus and Olympus to work out this morning, it would have been worse.
Talk about waking on the wrong side of the bed

I even thought of mentioning you on the Journal thread, so you could maybe share some positive energy and help me get out of that hole...
Looks to me like you're the only female who currently gets where I'm at on this journey.
I ditched the idea cos it felt awkward at the time, but reading this from you?
That has confirmed a lot.
Now I wish I did.

Well, Moving on.

ifyalways:
Well done to all the people that brokered peace offline, you guys, whoever y'all are , are the true heroes.

Thread however is an eye opener for everyone. A lot of thieves ( current and retired), scammers, bitter and frustrated souls, cowards ( always type vile with alternate moniker), naive ones, depressed souls, real broke but forming dangote here, honest and real nice people on here. One just have to be careful and like my favorite NLDer will say ( Kanwuliajara/AJ baby) . . . It starts with replying that PM!

Babe3 and Coogar, I hope you both become better persons after this.

coogar:


i put her in a hotel for 3 months - she owed me $6k.

Mindfulness:


I love you too.
Holla at me whenever you need me. I will do the same .


Whenever you feel off balance, don't beat yourself up for it. All you need to do is to soothe yourself and I promise you that it will help a lot. There are thousands of ways to feel better, working out is just one of them.

We are definitely on a similar path, a beautiful journey it is.

Very beautiful one.
Gosh, you have no idea how better I've become since the last time we "pseudo argued" on that thread.
I actually got to have a hang of your angle when I got to the part of the book addressing that.

Naaaa, I don't beat myself up when I go off balance, though I feel somewhat unsettled that I lashed out on others today.
I usually have a way of dealing with stuff from within.
My friends have been supportive and telling me it was absolutely human to have reacted like I did, especially seeing as they deserved and had it coming.

Still, a part of me feels zzzzzzzzz
Lol.

I'm used to blessing folks. Seeing me do the opposite today wasn't funny I tell ya.
Now that I think of it, I should give myself loooads of grace right now, I'd do the same for others.

MizMyColi:
Legatusglaber

Ayam sorry oooo
I should have replied you since.

I was busy fighting.
Not like I'm proud of my actions though

Wassa guan na
Ah jus dey look your paroles for here dey laff.
Lolz..

Good to see you participating actively on here.

I suppose work has relieved you a bit?

LegatusGlaber:

I dey ooooo. Woke up dizzy. on Wednesday, a visit to the hospital necessitated my being given some days off work.

Who you dey fight with biko? No wound person with your single bone fa.

just go easy dear

NL proved to be effective in relieving the pressure.

I'm good now.
That phase's passed.

Lmao @Single Bone.
Fleshy momma like me, na im go get single bone?
How I for take get stamina na

Pele.
I thought as much.

You know what? I agree with you.
NL is really good place to relieve pressure, any kind

coogar:


i agree with everything you said. before typing a word here today, i knew the move would set back the progress made last night.

however, i saw some intellectual lilliputs puffing their chests, waiting to drill me with questions till i cower and admit guilt.

i have been here since & i keep hearing using my card to withdraw $4000 from the ATM. stupïd assertions like only a house owner can have a card registered to an address.

anyways, time to take my leave.

goodnight!

airmark:


Then we should join forces to reduce whatever percentage of them on nairaland. Justwise was busy doing a great job on travel section, despite not being popular cos most members are like Gbenga always here to scam people. I dont care the type of people fighting a scammer, that's inconsequential. What is paramount is to get a scammer outta here. The vessel is not as important as the end product. Get it?

adeh39:

What is she saying?

Dyt:


Mojuba ooooo

*just like in the Yoruba movie, wiggles bum*

BoboYekini:
I think she likes your dp

Oh! that's nice

Naturalized:


That your bum ehn..

Ewuro4:
Toby77 I observe you are quite all of a sudden.

MizMyColi:


[font=Georgia]Very beautiful one.
Gosh, you have no idea how better I've become since the last time we "pseudo argued" on that thread.
I actually got to have a hang of your angle when I got to the part of the book addressing that.

Naaaa, I don't beat myself up when I go off balance, though I feel somewhat unsettled that I lashed out on others today.
I usually have a way of dealing with stuff from within.

My friends have been supportive and telling me it was absolutely human to have reacted like I did, especially seeing as they deserved and had it coming.

Still, a part of me feels zzzzzzzzz
Lol.

I'm used to blessing folks. Seeing me do the opposite today wasn't funny I tell ya.
Now that I think of it, I should give myself loooads of grace right now, I'd do the same for others.

samflex:


Oga ade the guy is right, you can't tell us nothing....it's like this your NL status is more important to you than your real life hence the struggle.
Oh I understand, the other chick's are watching so no need falling hand....i know you can't admit you do scam or you're a G boy in local naija language but how do you start explaining the $50 to Priya, the shut up and do as you're told or the try this card to see if there's money in it? Abi na the Woolwich ip and Arizona billing address?
Omo we are no fools...stop arguing and twisting the truth.

LaraiBoluwaji:
The long and short of this whole drama is a young girl fell in love with the wrong man who took advantage of her. He ate her kpekus, defrauded her of several thousands of dollars (or is it pounds?) and tried to leave her high and dry. A ruthless and seasoned conman, he did not feel any need to repay her affections with sincerity but rather chose to demolish her poohsie whilst demolishing her heart and wallet along the way.

Coogar, asiere, pay the girl her money and change your rotten lifestyle. Get a job and stop looking for people to scam and steal from because 99 days for the thief, 1 day for the owner. Most nairalanders know your real name so we will not be surprised if one day someone creates a thread about how the UK Met has caught and jailed a certain Nigerian named G..... O....., aka coogar, aka Sauron.

We will see your face with your orange jumpsuit and shekesheke owo splashed all over UK Mirror and Daily Mail. Change now before it is too late.

Ole palapala. Alariyan jiyan

Toby77:


Here is where he gets his victims, that's why it's so important to him he would do anything at all cost to try to salvage it. It's a paradox off sorts. Too late though, the ship already sailed

KanwuliaJara:



Oturugbeke!!!!

Women and BLOKOS sha!!!!!

I go chop Ya POOHSIE AND Ya DOLLAR o!!!!!

Mindfulness:



What did we "pseudo-argue" about? I like this word.

I understand perfectly but the only reason why you lashed out is because you were feeling off balance so thank the people who helped you see that you were off balance. The ones who irritate us the most are the best teachers.

It is human and helpful, too. Embrace this experience in the same way you embrace the situations, in which you were able to act from within.


You can't be balanced all the time. It would be boring. You want variety and you need the contrast to evolve and develop. If everything went smoothly all the time you wouldn't have any chance to learn and develop.

Bless them for showing you that you were off balance and bless yourself for showing how you truly felt.

Usually, when I read or hear words that deeply resonate, I close my eyes for a moment an inhale then exhale.
That's what I just did.

Thank you.
Just thank you

coogar:


lemme deal with the allegations first. your matter no be here. you want to tell me you didn't school in aberdeen? you wanna tell me you didn't lose a family member when you sent robbers to your own house?

freshvine:
For me I've read good part of the story and here's my deduction.

Babe knows that coogar is a fraudster right from the onset but tag along either for love or using the Maga as a cash cow. Things fell apart and Babe demanded for settlement from coogar and if he decline she'll blow hot but coogar dismiss her threat like the ranting of an ant. She then think of a way to blackmail coogar into paying her since he has deliberately gone incommunicado and made her moves on nairaland. Coogar sensing danger and the attendant repercussions equally threaten to expose her nudes, that threat brought in his foes who are adamant to make him go under if he doesn't cooperate and pay the girl off.

The humanitarian group only concern is to coerced coogar into redeeming his promise to his ex girlfriend but coogar is much concerned about his online reputation and that necessitated him employing all he has to protect the already laundered image.

Babe is hurt and what becomes of this issue would tentatively be secondary to her. Inside of her, she prays this doesn't snowball into something unmanageable but bank on her 'negotiators' to keep everything within the confine of Nairaland. Coogar can't accept being a fraudster and babe knows that because if he eventually accept, he will implicate her. Both actors are keeping sensitive information away from nairaland.

Jaybee, from the last post before my analysis, I think your hands did be tied being a turncoat at an instant just after engaging coogar. This peace deal and fence mending is rather instantaneous.

Mindfulness:




When I read such stories, I understand why men have been ruling the world for hundreds of years.

KanwuliaJara:



Oturugbeke!!!!

Women and BLOKOS sha!!!!!

I go chop Ya POOHSIE AND Ya DOLLAR o!!!!!

LaraiBoluwaji:
The long and short of this whole drama is a young girl fell in love with the wrong man who took advantage of her.

He ate her kpekus, defrauded her of several thousands of dollars (or is it pounds?) and tried to leave her high and dry.



A ruthless and seasoned conman, he did not feel any need to repay her affections with sincerity but rather chose to demolish her poohsie whilst demolishing her heart and wallet along the way. . . . . . .

MizMyColi:


Usually, when I read or hear words that deeply resonate, I close my eyes for a moment an inhale then exhale.
That's what I just did.

Thank you.
Just thank you

KanwuliaJara:


Blokos is SWEEEEEEET!!!!